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Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by sph on Sunday January 29, 2023 @07:25PM (#34574319)
When I'm in the mood of reading a bunch of smug nerds pontificating and preaching, I click on any popsci or diet-related article on HN. Never fails to entertain.

Nofap like many things has been turned into a brand, and even politicised to the point some idiots attack it saying it's far right ideology. On the other hand there are teenagers with serious porn-related issues that think nofap will turn them into superhumans. But the smug nerd on the internet doesn't stop to consider the nofap movement that's become a caricature of its former self, still is a major indicator of the emotional and physical problems porn is causing to many men and women. It's an epidemic.

Go crank all you want because a popsci article said so, but if you haven't seen how widespread and destructive porn addiction is, this must be your first day on the Internet. I already imagine the retort "well, just don't watch porn then." Because only idiots and weak-willed people get addicted.

Sorry, I'm in a cranky mood because I've struggled with porn addiction myself, I have had someone confess they suffer from it just a few hours ago, and I'm bitter how what was a porn addiction support group like nofap managed to turn itself into a joke—and they have themselves to blame, yet porn still is something people laugh about for internet karma.

/rant

Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by EGreg on Sunday January 29, 2023 @07:30PM (#34574355)
“Sorry, I’m in a cranky mood”

Made me look up the word cranky and found “crankshaft” - a shaft driven by a crank that turns reciprocating motion into rotating motion. Legit.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reciprocating_motion

Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by sph on Sunday January 29, 2023 @07:41PM (#34574430)
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Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by mrexroad on Sunday January 29, 2023 @09:04PM (#34575022)
Please save comments like this for Reddit. Seriously, someone is discussing struggles with an addiction and you’re making jokes. Not legit at all.
Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by bamboozled on Sunday January 29, 2023 @08:09PM (#34574673)
still is a major indicator of the emotional and physical problems porn is causing to many men and women. It's an epidemic.

What are the physical problems one can get through watching porn? If this study is accurate, it seems batting off more often may be a good thing ?

Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by sph on Monday January 30, 2023 @03:20AM (#34577168)
Erectile dysfunction for one, which was once an aging related problem, now affects people in their 20s.
Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by bamboozled on Monday January 30, 2023 @06:29AM (#34578408)
Is that physiological though? Maybe psychological?
Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by altdataseller on Monday January 30, 2023 @07:51AM (#34578975)
Is there a practical difference?
Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by bamboozled on Monday January 30, 2023 @08:04AM (#34579068)
If you Google it you will find there is. There are some people who cannot get an erection no matter what, they need to get a "bionic penis" implant.

It has nothing to do with porn consumption and is physiological.

I read somewhere some people have "performance anxiety" after watching a lot of porn and lose their boner before penetration, but that's completely different to "never getting a boner".

Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by gardenhedge on Sunday January 29, 2023 @08:13PM (#34574704)
I understand that you may have a different perspective, but being passive-aggressive in your comments doesn't help communicate your thoughts effectively. It's better to be direct and clear in your statements so that everyone can understand your perspective.
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Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by Barrin92 on Sunday January 29, 2023 @11:17PM (#34575725)
>It's not far-right, it's just religious folks

whenever groups of young men engage in sexual self-repression that almost always has a political component. And pay attention to the "men" part, because nofap is almost exclusively a male phenomenon. Religious sexual repression is not, if anything the opposite. Also religious sexual repression is compliance with religious law, not necessarily an act of voluntary discipline.

"nofap" in contrast is essentially an extremely online version of Fight Club, and the political undertones are pretty obvious. It's mostly disaffected guys deciding to undertake some Yukio Mishima-esque training to combat their low self-esteem.

Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by tcrisco on Sunday January 29, 2023 @08:53PM (#34574947)
Yeah I agree, the frustration is real. You can't really joke about "serious" addictions like heroin or binge eating like you can with porn, and it results in your concerns being taken less seriously. Sexual humor is validated everywhere and it entraps those with less self control

And one thing I haven't seen mentioned a whole lot, the release of Stable Diffusion has made my problem way, way worse. I've been magnetized to the screen for weeks on end reading up on machine learning concepts and training on dozens of datasets, just to fuel my addiction and the inner weaknesses that prop it up

I sometimes wonder if this is the future, if this kind of irresistible, infinite ultra-personalization is here to stay, and the paper writers will continue to keep their "Ethics" sections to a maximum of five sentences each buried in the back

Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by altdataseller on Sunday January 29, 2023 @09:37PM (#34575226)
I don't understand. How has the release of Stable Diffusion made your porn addiction worse?
Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by bulbosaur123 on Monday January 30, 2023 @01:41AM (#34576554)
Unstable diffusion.
Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by caiquelira on Monday January 30, 2023 @02:36AM (#34576892)
It can be used to generate hyper-personalized porn.
Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by runald on Monday January 30, 2023 @08:27AM (#34579281)
Horse diffusion
Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by fennecfoxy on Tuesday January 31, 2023 @04:49AM (#34593250)
It's also bc having a high libido/being horny all the time is still very stigmatised. As a gay man this is one of the many major differences I see between the gay & hetero communities; in the gay community we generally celebrate libido & sexual freedom.
Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by dang on Wednesday February 01, 2023 @12:12AM (#34606680)
Please don't post in the flamewar style to HN, please don't fulminate, and please don't post sneers at the rest of the community. If you're posting here, you're as much "HN" as anyone else is.

All of this is in the site guidelines, so if you'd please review them and stick to them in the future, we'd appreciate it.

https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html

Edit: We already had to ask you this just recently: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=34528453