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Re:Ask HN: Top life hack which, quite surprisingly, no one e... by sgt on Thursday January 12, 2023 @08:19AM (#34353041)
When talking to someone, you step up to them and grab their arm. Then you force them to walk around with you, while you have their arm. Total attention. Example: https://makeagif.com/i/3Bfhx7
Re:Ask HN: Top life hack which, quite surprisingly, no one e... by a_m_kelly on Thursday January 12, 2023 @08:41AM (#34353315)
Not sure where you're writing from geographically, professionally or culturally but I can't imagine doing this to anyone.

In a professional environment, grabbing someone's arm and leading them around by it seems like an incredibly inappropriate breach of that person's personal space.

Re:Ask HN: Top life hack which, quite surprisingly, no one e... by dusted on Thursday January 12, 2023 @08:22AM (#34353079)
Yeah you'd have to be real fucking important for me to not simply pull back and walk away without a word.

But, I'm really interested in which situations you've actually done this, what reaction you wanted, and what actually happened ?

Re:Ask HN: Top life hack which, quite surprisingly, no one e... by drcongo on Thursday January 12, 2023 @08:33AM (#34353216)
Same, you'd need to be Don Corleone himself or I'm off.
Re:Ask HN: Top life hack which, quite surprisingly, no one e... by MontyCarloHall on Thursday January 12, 2023 @08:40AM (#34353307)
And if you’re Don Corleone himself, you don’t need to grab someone’s arm to have their undivided attention.
Re:Ask HN: Top life hack which, quite surprisingly, no one e... by oops on Thursday January 12, 2023 @08:44AM (#34353364)
I figured OP was being sarcastic and got a chuckle out of it. Seems like it didn't land that way in general though, looking at all these replies!
Re:Ask HN: Top life hack which, quite surprisingly, no one e... by sgt on Thursday January 12, 2023 @12:32PM (#34357335)
I got a real chuckle out of it. But I am feeling a bit remorseful. Will add /s next time.
Re:Ask HN: Top life hack which, quite surprisingly, no one e... by zecg on Thursday January 12, 2023 @08:38AM (#34353281)
"Yeah, that's interesting, but could you fuck off off of my arm?"
Re:Ask HN: Top life hack which, quite surprisingly, no one e... by kstenerud on Thursday January 12, 2023 @08:33AM (#34353217)
That's what's called a power play, and it'll get you into a lot of trouble once you encounter someone who will stand up for themselves.
Re:Ask HN: Top life hack which, quite surprisingly, no one e... by MattPalmer1086 on Thursday January 12, 2023 @08:49AM (#34353411)
I was once meeting some potential partners. The big tall guy did some kind of power handshake on me using both hands and exerting an uncomfortable amount of pressure.

I just thought he was a total dick head. We did not partner with them.

Re:Ask HN: Top life hack which, quite surprisingly, no one e... by _-----_ on Thursday January 12, 2023 @08:33AM (#34353215)
Seems like a good way to end up on #metoo
Re:Ask HN: Top life hack which, quite surprisingly, no one e... by Gordonjcp on Thursday January 12, 2023 @08:40AM (#34353302)
Grab my arm without asking and the next person you'll be talking to is your dentist.
Re:Ask HN: Top life hack which, quite surprisingly, no one e... by dang on Thursday January 12, 2023 @10:50PM (#34363727)
Come on you guys. This was probably a joke. I mean look at that gif.
Re:Ask HN: Top life hack which, quite surprisingly, no one e... by stevemk14ebr on Thursday January 12, 2023 @08:34AM (#34353231)
Touch me like that and conversation is over.
Re:Ask HN: Top life hack which, quite surprisingly, no one e... by turmeric_root on Thursday January 12, 2023 @08:32AM (#34353207)
plus if you do this often enough, people with guns will take to a room with free food and board!
Re:Ask HN: Top life hack which, quite surprisingly, no one e... by yuters on Thursday January 12, 2023 @08:42AM (#34353323)
Total attention? You would sound like the teacher in Peanuts in the other person's mind while they're thinking about what the hell you just did.
Re:Ask HN: Top life hack which, quite surprisingly, no one e... by hdjjhhvvhga on Thursday January 12, 2023 @09:12AM (#34353728)
Surely You're Joking, Mr. Mr Sgt.

I can't imagine anyone doing that to me. Seriously, WTF.

Re:Ask HN: Top life hack which, quite surprisingly, no one e... by hackeraccount on Thursday January 12, 2023 @11:34AM (#34356151)
LOL. Literally. Do people do this? I gotta try this with my wife - on the one hand she's going to smack me but on the other hand I'll get a serious laugh out of the experience.
Re:Ask HN: Top life hack which, quite surprisingly, no one e... by thefz on Thursday January 12, 2023 @02:01PM (#34358691)
Yeah. If you do this, I despise you.
Re:Ask HN: Top life hack which, quite surprisingly, no one e... by znpy on Thursday January 12, 2023 @02:31PM (#34359089)
My uncle does this. It’s fucking unbearable.