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Re:Being OK with Not Being Extraordinary by Permit on Wednesday November 23, 2022 @02:56PM (#33723767)
> Perhaps it should be; everyone can be the best at something. You have to find your something.

This implies there are at least 8 billion “things to be good at” which I don’t think is necessarily true. I suspect most people are not the best at anything.

Re:Being OK with Not Being Extraordinary by moffkalast on Wednesday November 23, 2022 @03:05PM (#33723870)
True. There are far, far more things to be good at. I can make up a completely new board game right now and I'll be the world champion at it immediately.

At a slightly less extreme level, it's always possible to find something niche enough that is just so obscure that you can become the best by persistence alone. Maybe you're the world expert on blue umbrellas manufactured in 1993.

Re:Being OK with Not Being Extraordinary by The_Colonel on Wednesday November 23, 2022 @03:22PM (#33724053)
People don't want to be best at something for the sake of it, but because it brings some perks with it - recognition, fame, money. Being the best in a game which literally nobody else knows is largely meaningless. I mean, try it, it doesn't take much time to make up a trivial game. Does it bring any kind of satisfaction to know you're the best in the world (because nobody else knows it)?

(to be fair, there is also inner satisfaction coming from deep understanding and mastering of some activity, but alone it's rarely enough without any external validation to motivate people)

Re:Being OK with Not Being Extraordinary by peoplefromibiza on Thursday November 24, 2022 @02:18AM (#33728594)
> I can make up a completely new board game right now and I'll be the world champion at it immediately.

That sounds intuitively true, but it's not.

I thought the same thing, until I met an actual board game genius who beat me at every single game we played that I invented and practiced before playing against him.

That's why he makes a pretty good living creating and selling board games and I don't.

People with talents do exist, unless board games is your thing, it won't work.

Re:Being OK with Not Being Extraordinary by slavik81 on Thursday November 24, 2022 @03:27AM (#33728964)
This sounds suspiciously like the story of Duke Devlin.
Re:Being OK with Not Being Extraordinary by googlryas on Wednesday November 23, 2022 @04:14PM (#33724619)
Maybe there are with combinations. I might be the best programmer who can do woodworking, play flamenco guitar, and squat 475 lbs. I'm just waiting for that category to be added to the Olympics.
Re:Being OK with Not Being Extraordinary by ip26 on Wednesday November 23, 2022 @04:49PM (#33724967)
I think your real niche is going to be creating software for luthiers that enables you to design the flamenco guitar of your dreams. Critically, you discover the ideal guitar body for flamenco is incredibly heavy…
Re:Being OK with Not Being Extraordinary by toofy on Wednesday November 23, 2022 @09:51PM (#33727338)
so you’re the best at making yourself happy.

this is a good thing.

Re:Being OK with Not Being Extraordinary by Dylan16807 on Thursday November 24, 2022 @04:03AM (#33729164)
That seems like a leap to me. I bet there's plenty of people who could take over that life and rough set of preferences and do a better job of being happy.
Re:Being OK with Not Being Extraordinary by toofy on Thursday November 24, 2022 @04:24AM (#33729304)
i mean, sure? then they’re making themselves happy.

again, this is a good thing, they’re happy.

Re:Being OK with Not Being Extraordinary by Dylan16807 on Thursday November 24, 2022 @04:36AM (#33729373)
If I say that some people would be happier in some kind of impossible to reach theoretical, that's not a good thing, is it?

And the person you were talking to didn't even say they were happy! They just said they're the best at some combination of things. Even assuming they are happy, they're probably not near the top of the happiness charts. "best at making yourself happy" looks to me like a completely unfounded guess/hope.