I think work is work, the more a workplaces tries to trick you into believing you're in a family or home environment they're not being clear on the work. Competency trumps all benefits.
Sure, if they could press a button and make more, they would, but in reality getting a higher salary requires to change jobs and they often have concerns about moving to a new place, doing something different, working with new people, wondering if they are going to like it or not, which ends up in them settling for a lower salary, especially if that salary covers everything they wanna do.
Often those thoughts are irrational, but thats how humans function.
Except now you have a 6 year gap on your resume to explain and probably a 6 year degradation of skills unless you're really disciplined.
False. I took five years to explore personal projects and then couldn’t get a callback to save my life. After landing a menial temp job, suddenly I got calls and interviews and landed a real job in no time. A huge gap can torpedo your efforts.
That kind of freedom is normally only reserved for the kids of the very wealthy, and it opens up all kinds of opportunities.
For the standard 4-year vesting schedule, and assuming a new $350k grant every year, this means actual earnings are:
Year 1: $150k + $0 $150k
Year 2: $150k + $87.5k $237.5k
Year 3: $150k + $87.5k*2 $325k
Year 4: $150k + $87.5k*3 $412k
If you leave here, at year 4, and lose all unvested options (expected), your actual average was $281k/year.Only by year 5 you'll finally actually earn the $500k/year, and the vesting schedule has such an impact on the early earnings that even after a decade, your yearly average is still $400k.
Not to forget taxes. So the idea to "save for one year then take 6 years off" is kinda off the menu unless they've been at the company for a long, long time, or are willing to spend those 6 years living in Thailand.
But you're right, the 70k place might be just as much work, but they just don't make that much money, or any other series of situations.
500k requires you to live in San Francisco, commute to the office every day at strict hours and is at a soul crushing, bureaucratic big corp.
70k allows you to work from anywhere in the world, async an on your own schedule. Also, you get more vacation. 6k USD per month is a lot in many countries.
If you want to live now not later, I can see why you'd choose the 70k job.
I can't say I hate my job but I have zero interest in it. Where as I had lots of <$100k jobs I loved. My life was better. I only get one life. I'd prefer to live a happy life than a well paid life. Right now I get paid well but my life feels like it's just bleeding away as a drone.
The biggest reason I haven't pulled the trigger is there's no guarntee that taking the $70k will actually be fun this time. I have my criteria for taking the jump though and if they're met I'd do it in a heartbeat.