Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones

Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by fignews on Wednesday January 05, 2022 @11:38PM (#29819455)

An iMessage group chat‘s nicer and more advanced features break when an sms user is added to the group.

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by mishftw on Wednesday January 05, 2022 @10:10PM (#29818807)

It's the network effect. I suffer from this too. If only Apple would adopt RCS but they won't because they like their walled garden.

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by MBCook on Wednesday January 05, 2022 @10:26PM (#29818958)

Ignoring some things I would consider flaws (lack of end-to-end encryption right now), from what I’ve read it sounds like the rollout of RCS has been something between a mess and a disaster if your friends are on another carrier.

It sounded like it got to the point where phone companies were delaying so long (at least in the US) that Google is basically forcing their hand by doing everything themselves if the carriers don’t.

Meanwhile iMessage has been running for 10 years.

That said I agree with you that I see basically no reason for Apple to add it. That’s up there with iMessage for Android in probability.

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by dwaite on Thursday January 06, 2022 @01:46AM (#29820229)

I could see Apple adding iMessage support to more platforms if they can use it to tie into service offerings.

However, I doubt people on other platforms would really appreciate it, because the level of integration won't be there.

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by mattl on Wednesday January 05, 2022 @10:12PM (#29818825)

You should get an iPhone and stop being left out.

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by silisili on Thursday January 06, 2022 @12:08AM (#29819680)

Or find a friend(or GF) that values you more than chat features...would be my vote.

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by fignews on Wednesday January 05, 2022 @11:42PM (#29819480)

This right here. Additionally If you’re serious about making a life with someone it’s much easier when you have things like shared calendars, shopping lists, etc. There are many ways to do this but iCloud is easy and the aforementioned features are free.

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by tmp538394722 on Thursday January 06, 2022 @01:07AM (#29820051)

Just in case OP is susceptible to peer pressure, I want to offer that if you really love her, it’s OK if you have different operating systems on your phones.

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by Zircom on Saturday January 08, 2022 @01:20AM (#29849115)

Haha yeah I couldn't care less, I just thought it was a funny anecdote and it's probably not entirely just because of the color, that's just what she said when I asked her about it a couple years ago. And excluding me from the group chats and having her relay everything to/from me is probably for the best anyways, I'm terrible at checking my texts and my friend/family know the fastest way to get a hold of me if Im not replying is to text her instead :p.

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by ryandrake on Thursday January 06, 2022 @12:48PM (#29826915)

It's really absurd that this has to be stated in writing! If a "friend" would cut you out of a portion of their life because of something as trivial as what smartphone messaging platform you use, well, I have some bad news for you...

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by lostmsu on Thursday January 06, 2022 @12:18AM (#29819743)

Shared calendars are a thing with Google and sync with any device, desktops included. Shopping lists are shared on Amazon and most grocery store apps.

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by solarkraft on Thursday January 06, 2022 @12:27AM (#29819827)

They're also cumbersome.

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by lostmsu on Thursday January 06, 2022 @12:31AM (#29819850)

In what way? o-O

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by dwaite on Thursday January 06, 2022 @01:40AM (#29820200)

Google Calendars has sub-par iCal/vCal support, and will omit calendar entry information (or entire entries) sometimes.

It deals with sharing pretty well when both parties have Google Calendar accounts.

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by sofixa on Thursday January 06, 2022 @04:16AM (#29821185)

The same goes for Google - you can share Keep lists and Google Calendars, all for free and easy.

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by recursive on Wednesday January 05, 2022 @10:49PM (#29819115)

I wouldn't want to pay money to the party that created the problem in the first place.

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by zarzavat on Thursday January 06, 2022 @12:03AM (#29819643)

Don’t have to. Just buy second hand.

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by behnamoh on Wednesday January 05, 2022 @10:47PM (#29819102)

Or find another girlfriend..

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by smabie on Thursday January 06, 2022 @12:09AM (#29819688)

Buying an iPhone sounds easier. But agree not exactly a good sign if they care about messages being green.

That being said, I've had multiple tinder dates mention they don't go out with guys that have green messages since it's an indication that they are poor.

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by kennethh on Thursday January 06, 2022 @03:21AM (#29820815)

I think the status thing with IPhone is a big thing. The extend and embrace with IPhone and iMessage and SMS is almost like Microsoft did it. Wonder why Android not did the same thing?

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by Zak on Thursday January 06, 2022 @12:30PM (#29826609)

Google made Hangouts the default SMS client for several years and there were obvious benefits to sending Hangouts rather than SMS messages with it. Few people did.

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by thirdsun on Thursday January 06, 2022 @06:12AM (#29822139)

I don't think she cares about the messages being green or any status implications that are attached to this color. However from what I understand iMessage groups basically break when there's a non-iOS device involved and suddenly everything reverts back to SMS/MMS, which sounds awful.

In other countries we use cross platform messengers like Whatsapp to avoid that. Of course that brings a whole other problem set with it but that's a different discussion.

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by stjohnswarts on Thursday January 06, 2022 @01:02AM (#29820024)

That filter works both ways. Who wants someone that shallow?

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by blub on Thursday January 06, 2022 @04:44AM (#29821401)

Let’s be charitable and assume they meant that they are poor at picking a quality smartphone.

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by stjohnswarts on Thursday January 06, 2022 @01:00AM (#29820009)

That's actually hilarious :)

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by ycIsGarbage on Wednesday January 05, 2022 @10:14PM (#29818849)

It’s not because of the color. It’s because group SMS sucks. Messages arrive late, out of order, or not at all.

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by CameronNemo on Wednesday January 05, 2022 @10:18PM (#29818879)

SMS is indeed trash. Unfortunately nobody seems willing to go out of their way to accommodate the minority of android users in their friend group. My techy friends use Signal, but efforts to get people to join me there have been quite fruitless.

My sister joined matrix, but she didn't remember her password the next time I tried to reach her there.

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by MBCook on Wednesday January 05, 2022 @10:29PM (#29818973)

I don’t know what things are like in Android land, but if 95% of your messaging is in one app it feels like a real hassle to adopt another app for just one person/group.

Would you start using a second podcast app just to listen to one individual podcast? Or would you just go without?

I’ve always assumed Android users are used to multiple messaging apps already. Is that the case?

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by smileybarry on Wednesday January 05, 2022 @11:35PM (#29819443)

> I don’t know what things are like in Android land, but if 95% of your messaging is in one app it feels like a real hassle to adopt another app for just one person/group.

I'm experiencing that with WhatsApp (in Israel it's pretty much 95%+ WhatsApp). I moved from Android to iOS, and WA have yet to add cross-platform migration ("in the coming months"), and I don't trust any of the 3-4 sketchy apps that offer this. So I end up using WhatsApp Web and switched to texting for family members.

This led to more than a couple "oops I forgot I need to text you" because iOS Safari doesn't allow web notifications, and I didn't check WhatsApp Web yet.

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by CameronNemo on Wednesday January 05, 2022 @11:28PM (#29819399)

Would you start using a second podcast app just to listen to one individual podcast? Or would you just go without?

Do you consider close friends and family comparable to podcasts?

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by MBCook on Wednesday January 05, 2022 @11:46PM (#29819513)

It was the best example I could think of off the top of my head where someone might have to use a different app for a small percentage of a task.

I’m open to better examples.

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by CameronNemo on Wednesday January 05, 2022 @11:25PM (#29819381)

I use signal as my SMS app. And for people who have signal I get more reliable delivery and e2ee.

I use element for some random people. And interacting with open source communities.

I use slack for work.

I don't use fbmessenger/WhatsApp, discord, or any other closed source messaging app besides slack.

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by QuercusMax on Wednesday January 05, 2022 @11:16PM (#29819314)

I use:

Messages (Google SMS app)

Slack

Discord

Facebook Messenger

And Google Chat for work.

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by MBCook on Wednesday January 05, 2022 @11:23PM (#29819361)

Makes sense. Thanks. On my phone I use:

* Messages (SMS & iMessages)

* Slack

That’s it. I don’t have work stuff on my phone. I suppose if I did I’d have Google Chat.

For some reason I don’t see Messages and Slack as competitors in my mind. They fit in different “categories” (for whatever reason). Messages is for everything but one long running group chat that used to be on-prem at my last job as a sort of social room. I think of it more like IRC and not personal messages. Messages is 95% one-on-one for me.

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by umanwizard on Wednesday January 05, 2022 @10:37PM (#29819032)

Signal is almost infinitely worse than iMessage in terms of features, UX, stability, etc.

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by commoner on Wednesday January 05, 2022 @11:34PM (#29819431)

How so? Signal supports Android and has a cross-platform desktop app (that supports not only macOS, but also Linux and Windows), while iMessage does neither. Signal also has perfect forward secrecy, while iMessage does not.[1] Signal even allows everyone to create and publish sticker packs free of charge,[2] while iMessage requires a $99/year Apple Developer subscription to do the same.[3] I suppose Signal doesn't let you create Animoji or Memoji, but that's not essential to me.

[1] https://eprint.iacr.org/2021/498 (page 19)

[2] https://support.signal.org/hc/en-us/articles/360031836512-St...

[3] https://www.theverge.com/tech/2016/9/23/13005160/imessage-st...

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by minton on Wednesday January 05, 2022 @10:55PM (#29819173)

I have been using multiple Signal groups with different sides of the family for a few years now. Honestly, I have yet to run into any problems and few of the groups have roughly 25-100 new messages per day.

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by sofixa on Thursday January 06, 2022 @05:20AM (#29821733)

Signal isn't that great, but it has cross platform which isn't insignificant (even for you, don't you want to be able to switch computing platforms without losing everything?). However Telegram just blows them all out of the water with the UX, DX, search, stickers, polls, etc.

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by brimnes on Wednesday January 05, 2022 @10:42PM (#29819062)

Signal is not comparable at all to iMessage.

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by catillac on Wednesday January 05, 2022 @10:23PM (#29818932)

I would assume given their close relationship the significant other likely told them directly why?

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by esrauch on Wednesday January 05, 2022 @10:28PM (#29818968)

I think the point is that people either consciously or subconsciously know that green bubble conversations are genuinely worse, not that people literally like the color blue better.

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Re:Staggering stat: 87% of U.S. teenagers have iPhones by umanwizard on Wednesday January 05, 2022 @10:42PM (#29819069)

Yeah, exactly. When I see a green bubble from someone I almost have an aversion to texting them because I know there will be a bunch of papercuts making the experience shittier.

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