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Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by amznbyebyebye on Friday December 31, 2021 @09:52PM (#29755007)
People look at me like I’m insane when I tell them I’m packing up and taking a year off.

I’ve f’in had enough. And that’s me, the wife and our two kids- not quite school age. No I haven’t FIREd. No I’m probably passing up a raise and a promo (or maybe not). Super linear growth requires super linear decision making. You either follow the sheeple or decide enough is enough and make some drastic change. Im not getting these years back and for the life of me can’t understand those who say, I’m gonna work till I’m 55 and then I’m done.

Anyways HN fam- I’m already done.

Here’s to 2022

See y’all in Penang.

Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by carpanddoem on Friday December 31, 2021 @11:09PM (#29755426)
Congratulations, hope you have a great time! I took an adult gap year, and it was one of the best decisions of my life.

Life in an American suburb is a series of goalposts. Every few years, a new school. Then you go to college, find yourself, and discover that a career is more of the same: every few years, a new promotion/job/grant.

When I realized that, I figured that my joints and back would be at least as ageist as my future employers, and quit. Having watched a lot of Top Gear in school, I bought a dirt bike, modified an old pickup into a mini-RV, and went on a tour of the US' forests and national parks.

It was incredible. Exploring such an enormous and diverse area presents you with a lot of new perspectives. Of course, it was a terrible financial decision which I couldn't really afford, but I'd do it again in a heartbeat.

As I enter my 30s and start to see my peers get seriously hurt by activities like skiing and climbing, I find myself scaling back my "see the whole world" ambitions. Maybe I played things too safe, but I'm definitely glad that I didn't stay in my rut.

Anyways, it's nice to have a chance to contemplate your place in life and society while you're still spry enough to shurg off a few falls. Even my grandmother took an ill-advised teens-20s road trip across the iron curtain. A good walkabout should be a basic human right.

Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by jodrellblank on Saturday January 01, 2022 @01:26AM (#29756079)
> See y’all in Penang.

Then what? I like to imagine that if there is a secret to human happiness it must be something which was available to all the ~hundred billion humans who lived before air travel, boats, cars, cheap foreign holidays. Life would be awfully unfair otherwise.

https://www.gocomics.com/peanuts/2019/08/14 I've also holidayed casually enough to know that me alone in a foreign city isn't as exciting as it seemed before leaving, and that the limitations are in me, not the city.

( https://youtu.be/724td2H87d8?t=224 )

Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by carpanddoem on Saturday January 01, 2022 @01:36AM (#29756131)
Then you go back to work. There's nothing wrong with taking some time off to broaden your horizons every now and then.

We might all benefit from a stipend to take a long leave for continuing education or travel every decade or so. Many innovations have sprung from the intersections of diverse cultures and fields of study.

Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by biinui on Sunday January 09, 2022 @02:36AM (#29861141)
I stumbled upon the same line of thought. Many of the things we do nowadays to be happy were unavailable before — travel, buy, consume, etc. Does it mean humans long ago were less happy?

Any chance you know any readings tackling this idea?

Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by jsemrau on Friday December 31, 2021 @10:03PM (#29755076)
That was my 1999. Left for Hawaii. Then CA, Berlin, Tokyo, Singapore. Goodspeed.
Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by JTBooth on Friday December 31, 2021 @10:26PM (#29755217)
I took off right before the pandemic. Now I'm living in Tokyo, engaged, and like my job. Doing weird shit rocks.
Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by lobocinza on Friday December 31, 2021 @10:42PM (#29755299)
"Doing weird shit rocks!" I want this in a sticker.
Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by andi999 on Saturday January 01, 2022 @01:30AM (#29756096)
Can you tell more about your job? I love Tokyo, but the work environment seemed to have a lot of drawbacks (general long hours, presence over productivity restricted days off) Did that change, or are you good with it, or did you find a different niche?
Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by JTBooth on Saturday January 01, 2022 @09:17AM (#29758421)
I'm working at Stripe, so, definitely not the traditional "wait for your boss to leave" experience. My previous was Google, and the change was as much my mental state as the work.
Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by biinui on Sunday January 09, 2022 @02:38AM (#29861159)
I'm curious what mental state change you went through. And does Stripe Japan require knowing Nihonggo?
Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by rixed on Saturday January 01, 2022 @12:33AM (#29755811)
Survivor bias?
Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by IggleSniggle on Saturday January 01, 2022 @12:56AM (#29755908)
Really hard to know. My personal experience is that whenever I do weird shit, however, I've ended up in a better place? That is also itself a weird thing. Anyway, great comment, I just don't even know how to begin knowing the truth of this one without a personal belief based on lived experience. How would you even design an experiment to find the truth of this one?
Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by JTBooth on Saturday January 01, 2022 @09:20AM (#29758447)
I don't think so. If you put some effort into your fallback plan, and choose your weird shit so that it's likely to work out, I think it can just be a good bet. And it's hard to imagine working up the energy to do it if you're really happy where you are, you know?
Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by jsemrau on Saturday January 01, 2022 @01:14AM (#29756018)
I guess everyone's journey is different.
Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by nanocat on Friday December 31, 2021 @10:35PM (#29755266)
Amen!
Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by hnthrowaway0315 on Friday December 31, 2021 @11:55PM (#29755655)
Congratulations bro. You have the gut to do this with a family. My wife is going to rip me open if I do something similar. Actually after second thought, work is probably more interesting than whatever residual life after it. I'll keep working.
Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by throwhauser on Saturday January 01, 2022 @12:12AM (#29755726)
> My wife is going to rip me open if I do something similar.

Yikes.

Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by thelittleone on Friday December 31, 2021 @09:56PM (#29755023)
Did the same but 1 year in Bali has now been 8. Couldn't be happier.
Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by mrkentutbabi on Friday December 31, 2021 @10:09PM (#29755113)
How did you get the visa to stay in Bali for 8 years? Genuine question. What nationality are you?
Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by onlyrealcuzzo on Friday December 31, 2021 @10:29PM (#29755234)
You only need 1Bn IDR (~$70k USD) for an investor visa.

I would hope if you're planning to take an entire year off - you have AT LEAST $70k net wealth...

Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by passerby1 on Saturday January 01, 2022 @12:40AM (#29755839)
Do you need to actually pay/invest or just show that you own your 70k?
Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by onlyrealcuzzo on Saturday January 01, 2022 @02:09AM (#29756268)
https://visaagencybali.com/visa/investor-visa/

You need to invest in a company - but IIUC you could just buy ~$70k shares of Indonesia Telecom (i.e.), live there for 3 years, collect dividends, and then cash out when you're done.

Under normal conditions, I wouldn't want to invest ~$70k in some Indonesian large cap I know nothing about.

But if I wanted to live in Bali for a year, this is a pretty easy way to do it...

Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by rootsudo on Thursday January 06, 2022 @03:16AM (#29820770)
This is not accurate anylonger - the new way is to form a PMA with two people. Then you can sponsor your own kitas.

While you don't have any equity in stocks, you are also immune from loss there. It becomes a cost - you can form a PMA from 25-60 juta and do an investor kitas fro 18 juta (million.)

You also don't need to give up 70k liquidity, on the risk that it may not come back and for dividends which are 100% taxable in the country (about 23% AFAIK.) because you must report revenue annually.

70K in stocks w/ dividends OR form a corporate structure for about $3000.

The other alternative is b211a/social visa, which is 60 days and about 1 million a month after per renewal up to 6 months, meaning, 4 renewals at 4 juta/million IDR and then 3 million to apply - so 7 juta total every 6 months MAX. 14 annually.

If you need more info, feel free to reach out - surprised this topic was on HN .

Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by thelittleone on Saturday January 01, 2022 @03:32AM (#29756647)
Very, very few people pay such an amount yet stay many years legally. There's some "fluidity" in the system.
Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by onlyrealcuzzo on Saturday January 01, 2022 @10:24AM (#29759149)
Pedantic - but you aren't really "paying" that amount.

You're investing in something easy to liquidate which has a history of not losing value.

Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by thelittleone on Saturday January 01, 2022 @05:51PM (#29763724)
Fair enough, but there are alternatives that avoid that payment altogether.
Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by thelittleone on Friday December 31, 2021 @11:51PM (#29755635)
First four years tourist visa with extensions. Then a KITAS (limited stay permit).

You can setup a company here which entitles you to a KITAS.

It's not as hard as it sounds, and much easier than a foreigner staying in the USA, however it will vary a little depending on your country of citizenship.

Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by JCharante on Friday December 31, 2021 @10:29PM (#29755233)
Is it hard to stay there for that long? Most people just keep doing visa runs on 3 month tourist visas in SEA. The Bangkok visa run is a treasured pilgramage.
Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by weird-eye-issue on Friday December 31, 2021 @10:55PM (#29755365)
You can't visa run in Thailand anymore, it's been like that for several years now and especially not recently with covid. Immigration won't let you in arbitrarily if they see you doing visa runs "too much". Too much is at their discretion so you can't rely on it
Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by JCharante on Wednesday January 05, 2022 @02:49AM (#29806283)
Oh really? I must have not hit the limit before covid hit. I thought countries usually have a problem with stamping in and stamping out the entire length of your visa free stay and repeatedly doing it, but I didn't think they had an issue with visiting Thailand every 3 months for 1 or 2 days at a time.
Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by toastal on Friday December 31, 2021 @11:59PM (#29755669)
I support this. I took 5–6 months off and moved to Thailand a few years back without a real plan other than the minimum to fulfill a student visa. I've done a lot of incidental travels renewing visa. Probably the best move I had made. ชีวิตชิวดี
Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by asadlionpk on Saturday January 01, 2022 @12:43AM (#29755854)
You are likely smart and skilled enough to not ever die of hunger. Have faith and take the leap. Things work out, like they always do.
Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by 2OEH8eoCRo0 on Saturday January 01, 2022 @12:00AM (#29755675)
Multiple mini retirements are where it's at. Enjoy your year off!
Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by freewilly1040 on Saturday January 01, 2022 @03:07AM (#29756512)
I’m on the tail end of a 3 month break, returning to work on Tuesday. I worried I would not have enough to do, but id gladly take 3 more months right now.
Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by devwastaken on Saturday January 01, 2022 @12:58AM (#29755925)
If you're U.S. based and plan to live in Penang, Malaysia, that is going to be quite rough if/when the children want an American education. Many would kill for u.s. citizenship because of quality of living, medical support, and a court system that is mostly workable if you have money. Of course, I'm assuming based on lack of information. I hope it works for you.
Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by pzo on Saturday January 01, 2022 @06:19AM (#29757418)
I been in penang few times and even recently lived for a year [spend first one year of pandemic there] There are many expats there and very easy to make friends with locals - most people speak English.

Quality of life per dollar is also much better. It's common to eat out 3 times per day outside - and don't havd to be rich or willing to burn lots of money - many locals eat outside because it's good and cheap - 2-3 dollars for good quality even vegan meal.

Quality of medicine is also good and much much much cheaper than usa - actually many Indonesian fly to penang to get better quality medical service.

Cost of living even with family it will be probsbly like 1/3 of typical expenses in western world.

If you can work remotely to us or eu company and stay on business visa (mtep) or malaysia my second home visa (now unfortunately out of reach for most of people) them that's the best of 2 world.

Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by nine_zeros on Friday December 31, 2021 @11:31PM (#29755536)
I am with you. So fkin done with work (aka management and coworkers) wasting my precious time on this planet - on pointless nitpicks and micromanaging standups.

Typed from a hammock on a tropical beach.

Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by ignoramous on Saturday January 01, 2022 @01:32AM (#29756105)
If you're at a beach, on a hammock... put that phone down, son. (:

The news.yc crowd may not be all too different from your managers and co-workers. They are but a similar people in a different setting.

Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by nine_zeros on Saturday January 01, 2022 @04:07PM (#29762796)
On a coffee tour, will get back to you later.

Jk, its the freedom from having to be present that makes retirement worthwhile. I still love tech and I still want to blog, read and talk about tech. I just don't want to waste my life on bullshit meetings and work that is meant to impress some management.

Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by taf2 on Friday December 31, 2021 @10:44PM (#29755310)
I did a three day weekend in barselon- it was awesome I ported our windows app to Mac - 2004
Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by jdironman on Saturday January 01, 2022 @12:35AM (#29755818)
So you spent your extended weekend working. Lol I only kid. I've always wanted to visit there.
Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by taf2 on Saturday January 01, 2022 @09:49AM (#29758680)
It was amazing . There are all these tiny coffee shops on ever corner and I don’t think I slept once…
Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by balls187 on Friday December 31, 2021 @11:28PM (#29755514)
Why Penang?
Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by haihaibye on Saturday January 01, 2022 @03:24AM (#29756604)
Penang has some of the best street food in the world.
Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by balls187 on Saturday January 01, 2022 @12:19PM (#29760442)
I'm aware, and I can eat my body weight in malaysian style satay, nasi lemak, roti chani, and muthrabak.

But, eating that food for an entire year would get old quickly, especially for young kids who are (presumably) groomed on American food.

Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by sriram_malhar on Saturday January 01, 2022 @01:23AM (#29756060)
Have a wonderful time. Carpe annum.
Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by yeetaccount4 on Friday December 31, 2021 @10:02PM (#29755072)
Ahah. Went from majoring in math to killing trees. I get to wield what an in-law calls a “motor sword” every day. I feel gud.
Re:Don't Waste the Good Days by bebop on Friday December 31, 2021 @10:12PM (#29755131)
Stay safe out there.