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Re:Apple broke up with me by fivelessminutes on Saturday December 04, 2021 @11:33PM (#29446703)
I was waiting for the realization that he couldn't go on shoving money at these guys, and needed to increase his self-sufficiency by selfhosting to keep his data out of their or anybody else's walled garden.

But he did not seem to draw any lesson from it.

Re:Apple broke up with me by tw600040 on Saturday December 04, 2021 @11:41PM (#29446730)
That is not at all the answer to this. Tech people need to respect their craft a little bit more. If some hospitals screw over a patient no doctor would say people need to learn surgery and self operate on themselves. Self hosting is not something a normal person can just learn overnight and manage.
Re:Apple broke up with me by p2t2p on Sunday December 05, 2021 @01:53AM (#29447359)
Yes this.

All this case (and similar others with other companies) demonstrates is that we're lacking in laws and regulation here.

There should be no way that it is legal to just lock a customer like that without paying them all the money invested in virtual "goods". Sure, you want to block me then return all the money I paid for music, apps, etc.

There should be channels in every company where they will precisely tell you what happened and why. If they want to just stop dealing with you - they must pay back.

There's nothing wrong with using a service, what is wrong is that our laws are not up to the task of dealing with those risks.

Re:Apple broke up with me by throwawayboise on Sunday December 05, 2021 @12:04AM (#29446845)
> Self hosting is not something a normal person can just learn overnight and manage.

It's not something most tech people can really (properly) manage either.

Re:Apple broke up with me by fragmede on Sunday December 05, 2021 @01:05AM (#29447157)
I can.

I'm sure of this because I've made a career of it and I do it professionally for a large corporation. I know how many engineers it takes to have a 24/7/365 follows-the-sun rotation that doesn't lead to burnout. I've personally seen and solved lots of failure modes that result in mysterious degredation. (Hey did you know there's firmware on the SAS breakout board itself?) I've read many more, with solutions I'd never have come up with, by people cleverer than me.

An individual tech person could theoretically manage to do it, but I'd rather have my team helping me while I help them. I'm only human, and can't always see my own shortcomings.

I can. But I know better than to try and self-host something mission critical for myself or (especially) family. I self-host the same way a car mechanic has a classic car in their yard that they'll aspirationally fix one day.

Re:Apple broke up with me by bitexploder on Sunday December 05, 2021 @12:20AM (#29446939)
It’s so odd. 15-20 years ago we didn’t have this problem. It just takes time and time is very precious. It comes downs to risk and time. Is the risk of this happening worth your time? Some times I think we embrace technology too quickly as technologists without considering the whole picture. At this point you have to ask if you can trust the people behind a technology to dk the right thing for a decade or more. If the answer is no start figuring out how to ditch it. This ignores the philosophical issues emerging with FAANG type companies. Anyhow, it’s much easier to never embrace a technology or vendor than it is to ditch it later.
Re:Apple broke up with me by KennyBlanken on Sunday December 05, 2021 @01:05AM (#29447151)
That risk includes getting shut down by your ISP, who may be the only ISP in the area.

I once got a nasty call from Comcast's net abuse department because I was gasp running a mail server. It was locked down tight, and only accepting mail from an old email provider.

They didn't care. I was told that if I had SMTP open or they saw SMTP traffic coming in, I'd be permanently banned from being a Comcast customer because I was "running a server."

Internet needs to be declared a utility and internet companies need to concern themselves only with reliably delivery of network packets and to otherwise completely fuck off. My power company, gas company, and water company don't give a fuck what I do with my electricity, gas, or water.

Re:Apple broke up with me by philderbeast on Sunday December 05, 2021 @12:41AM (#29447034)
15-20 years ago you could get away with more mistakes without them biting you, but they where none the less mistakes that where bad.

These days the bad actors have automated there exploit attempts to the point that its not even really about asking when you will get hit rather then if you will get hit anymore, its almost instant in most cases.

with so little leeway its just not viable to self host anything that is exposed to the internet, and then if you still have to deal with things like off-site backups if you care at all about your data.

Re:Apple broke up with me by bitexploder on Sunday December 05, 2021 @09:38AM (#29449540)
I have thought about this a lot. I think it basically comes down to your domain. It’s okay to let someone else host things for you. To retain control you just have to keep your domain you are using for important things secure.
Re:Apple broke up with me by p2t2p on Sunday December 05, 2021 @02:14AM (#29447446)
> It's not something most tech people can

That's not really true, there are offerings on the market that make it a breeze. Take Synology. You get raid with dozens of terabytes, that is self managed and has got instructions on every aspect of usage. It's got Google Photos rip-off for every mobile platform, it's got LDAP, Email, Caldav and Cardav packages with GUI. It's got DNS server with easy to use GUI, it's got packages for NextCloud and it's got something like Dropbox that is made by Synology as well.

You don't need no port forwarding or fancy security, it can connect to Synology's cloud thingy that will route your traffic back home correctly, DDNS on steroids.

So if you really want to self host everything, it is couple grands out of pocket and couple of evenings of clicking around.

I am not affiliated with Synology, just a happy user (although I only use it as raid storage with SMB, NFS and as Docker server).

Re:Apple broke up with me by glennpratt on Sunday December 05, 2021 @02:27AM (#29447499)
Re:Apple broke up with me by p2t2p on Sunday December 05, 2021 @02:38AM (#29447536)
Good to know, thank you. It is still doesn't cancel my point that producing "self-hosting in a box" devices is possible and profitable.

Also there used to be "Windows Home Server" thingy.

Re:Apple broke up with me by tjoff on Sunday December 05, 2021 @02:09AM (#29447431)
Most people can't manage amazon services (properly) either. And the downsides and consequences are even more fatal.
Re:Apple broke up with me by fivelessminutes on Saturday December 04, 2021 @11:55PM (#29446799)
It need not mean your own cloud services, although I think the longterm trend is residential routers plus a USB stick will make this more possible.

Eg, he doesn't have to make access to all his music so it is contingent on his one credential, which can be revoked at any time by Apple. He can keep local copies of what he has bought, despite the ecosystem tries to make that difficult. Apple Music will delete any local copies it manages when the credential is invalidated.

https://www.guidingtech.com/what-happen-when-you-sign-out-ap...

Re:Apple broke up with me by cunthorpe on Sunday December 05, 2021 @12:00AM (#29446825)
> residential routers plus a USB stick will make this more possible.

This smells like "let them eat cake" except in the context of technology. Not everyone is able or even wants to mess with that stuff. There's a vast difference between "Yes, backup my stuff, Apple; Here's my card" and "I know what an IP is"

At $12/year you literally cannot get anything like what Apple offers just in terms of backup — not the equipment, not the man hours required to maintain it. Even if I were able to set it all up, it would cost me a huge amount of money in lost revenue just to maintain it safely.

It feels like "I could build dropbox in 5 minutes" never stopped.

Re:Apple broke up with me by mlyle on Sunday December 05, 2021 @12:19AM (#29446936)
Maybe read it a bit more generously, in the vein of:

* Maybe we can get to a point where running your own services is easy enough and normalized enough that most people do it.

I'm doubtful, but there's at least some small winds in that direction-- disillusionment with FAANG, peaking of the large tech economy, some renewed interest in privacy.

Re:Apple broke up with me by calsy on Sunday December 05, 2021 @01:02AM (#29447145)
Most people use mobile devices and want the ability to watch content anywhere, anytime at press of a play button. That’s the benchmark. No personal hardware setup will match that convenience and people who are not aware of the security risks shouldn’t be hosting their own content from their personal network online.
Re:Apple broke up with me by betwixthewires on Sunday December 05, 2021 @01:06AM (#29447158)
> Not everyone is able or even wants to mess with that stuff.

People literally managed books full of CDs or jewel cases, DVD racks, cassette tapes, LP collections, people had an entire rack in their house dedicated to hardware designed explicitly to use these cumbersome things, people torrented and used gnutella and managed software CDs, movie CDs, photo albums, VHS collections and the like just fine for ages. Not everyone is capable of playing MP3s on an PM3 player? Since when?

If these new systems that everyone is using is so much more complicated than that that you have to pay a professional service to do it for you, we have royally fucked up somewhere along the way.

Re:Apple broke up with me by ashtonkem on Sunday December 05, 2021 @01:49AM (#29447346)
> People literally managed books full of CDs or jewel cases, DVD racks, cassette tapes, LP collections, people had an entire rack in their house dedicated to hardware designed explicitly to use these cumbersome things, people torrented and used gnutella and managed software CDs, movie CDs, photo albums, VHS collections and the like just fine for ages.

Sounds like you’re trying to generalize from a very small set of people. The percentage of the population that had specialized full sized racks for their torrented stuff and what not was very, very small. For the rest of it, I imagine that “large drawer next to the desk” was the #1 solution, followed up by “in the car somewhere” for music CDs.

For the average person, the actual backup procedure from that era was very poor. Frankly, I doubt many did it at all. Even the nerds I knew mostly did a pretty half assed job, all considered. What professional backup software hosted in the cloud today blows even the most thorough technique from any consumer in the 1990s out of the water.

Re:Apple broke up with me by betwixthewires on Sunday December 05, 2021 @03:03PM (#29452577)
The racks was a reference to entertainment centers, not torrents. That was just about everybody.
Re:Apple broke up with me by calsy on Sunday December 05, 2021 @06:54AM (#29448610)
Why are we pretending it's the early 2000s? CDs were used because that was the best option at the time obviously. To compare them to services today hosting infinite amounts of LEGAL content streamed over the internet to millions of people on all manner of devices at the touch of a button is rather odd.

Likewise, it's weird that you need professionals to build such services? Anything that is so complicated that it requires professionals to create it has fucked up? In other words, every industry that ever existed is fucked up because they require more than a passing knowledge... professionals shouldn't exist.

Re:Apple broke up with me by betwixthewires on Sunday December 05, 2021 @03:02PM (#29452560)
I'm not necessarily comparing them, I'm just pointing out that this line "people can't manage their own shit and so must contract with companies to do it for them" is ridiculous in it's face.

You don't need professionals to build such services, no. Especially considering that the services don't really work better than a drive with MP3s on it.

Software is eating the world, I expect defensiveness on this site particularly, having massive back end data centers and frameworks just for people to do what took a 1tb drive 10 years ago is absolutely stupid.

Re:Apple broke up with me by calsy on Sunday December 05, 2021 @04:27PM (#29453470)
What? When is the last time you built a YouTube or Netflix? When did people in the past EVER have access to near infinite amounts of content that could be streamed over the internet onto any device?

My grandma wouldn’t know what ‘burning’ a CD means, but she sure knows how to use Netflix.

It’s not defensive to explain the overwhelming reality of todays content landscape. I couldn’t be bothered explaining the difference between a single 1tb drive and YouTube or Netflix, it’s clearly obvious.

There is nothing ridiculous about contracting companies to do work. We hire professionals to perform all sorts of tasks everyday and purchase products made by them. It’s not lazy to do so, it’s smart. Why do I have to explain the basics of how the world works?

For e.g. Do you grow your own food? Fruit and vegetables all that. It's easy right some soil and seeds with minor maintenance. You don't need professionals to do something so basic. Why cant everyone become an expert at growing their own food? Why do we need farmers, a massive global supply chain and mega stores to do something so simple? The idea that we have this global spanning network just to supply a tomato to someone is stupid and we screwed up?!

We don't have time to be experts at every facet of life, the world doesn't work like that. Believe it or not, managing big stashes of content isn't common knowledge or on everyones priority list.

Re:Apple broke up with me by betwixthewires on Monday December 06, 2021 @02:38PM (#29464526)
We aren't talking about YouTube and Netflix. We are talking about syncing your photos and messages to a cloud, purchasing apps and music and movies that stay outside your control, and then get taken away with no recourse and no reason given.

But on the topic of services like Netflix and YouTube, they're used to manipulate peoples tastes these days, discoverability is broken deliberately to push priority content, and really their only advantage is discoverability, so they've got virtually nothing going for them besides network effects and entrenched market position.

Services can be nice, when they work for a user. The problem is these services are designed to disempower users. We could live in a world where all these services empower users and work perfectly, but we don't, because there's a conflict of interest.

Yes, I do grow my own food actually.

Re:Apple broke up with me by calsy on Monday December 06, 2021 @04:17PM (#29465848)
Care to explain how easy it is to setup your own cloud platform that can sync all this content from any device and has the necessary redundancy and security options. Obviously sharing would be important, would need to be able to easily collaborate with others, sharing photo albums etc. Some versioning options would be preferable also.

Needs to be very simple so my grandmother can build it, and cheap. No maintenance, set and forget. I assume there will be apps available for all her devices to quickly go through the process or will she need to create them? It needs to be easy to search for content and stream on any device at any time without fail.

She doesn’t care about ‘owning digital movies’ or the exaggerated threat of her accounts being closed. She's is much more likely to accidentally lose her own content managing it herself. She just wants to watch movies, how much will it cost to own all that content? Less the $10/month?

No professionals so let’s keep instructions basic and preferably just using a single blank drive with no content.

It must bother you that people don’t grow their own food? That they can’t manage their shit and need to buy it from a store?

Re:Apple broke up with me by betwixthewires on Monday December 06, 2021 @06:12PM (#29466988)
Yeah, it's pretty simple. Get a raspberry pi 4 and an SD card, download a prebuilt raspbian image for owncloud from the owncloud website, write to the drive, pick up a 2.5" drive of your preferred size and a data to USB cable, slap it all together like Legos, owncloud offers client apps to install for synching pictures and what not, you get get them in the app store for your platform.

You can BTW buy pre built devices where this is already done from owncloud I believe.

It doesn't bother me that people pay other people to do things, no need to be condescending about it. What bothers me is when people are funneled into paying for services that are more stressful to use than doing things themselves, and then making excuses for the state of affairs for whatever reason (either they're convinced by the marketing, or their salary depends on it all continuing this way).

Re:Apple broke up with me by calsy on Monday December 06, 2021 @08:29PM (#29468136)
That sounds neither convenient or cheap. How is setting up a raspberry so simple, yet using youtube so hard? It's getting absolutely silly now. Its not an argument, if your option were the preferred then it would be the predominant means of consuming content, but it's not. Your reasoning is that people use this method not because it's the most preferred but because they cant manage their shit, or are manipulated by big business. Is that not condescending?
Re:Apple broke up with me by betwixthewires on Monday December 06, 2021 @10:04PM (#29468704)
You seem to have this idea that people know what they want in their lives before it exists, know what problems they want to solve and unbiasedly navigate the world looking for solutions. But how it often works is people don't know they have a problem needing to be solved until they see the solution in marketing material.

People by and large use what they see in advertisements and justify the decision after the fact. What is preferred is not always what is superior.

Bandcamp is as easy to use as Spotify. Yet people don't use it as much. Why not? Marketing is why.

Mobile UX is full of deliberate friction points put in to support profitable business models at the expense of utility. The mobile experience is designed to funnel users towards making certain choices. This is beginning to happen in windows as well now. And people just go with it.

Is it condescending? Maybe. But if I was wrong you wouldn't have advertisements on TV, marketing people know what works and businesses aren't in the business of throwing money away for no return. People wouldn't bitch about Facebook and continue to use it, they'd go somewhere else.

Re:Apple broke up with me by calsy on Monday December 06, 2021 @11:22PM (#29469031)
Enough, stop pretending advertising is some critical brainwashing marketing tool responsible for the success of all businesses, regardless of product.
Re:Apple broke up with me by calsy on Tuesday December 07, 2021 @01:36AM (#29469626)
Enough, stop pretending advertising is some critical brainwashing marketing tool responsible for the success of all businesses, regardless of product.

As for your reference to ownCloud, there are no pre-builds for raspbian. You have to build the web stack on the pi. This is the most inconvenient option imaginable, but I guess it's the hypnotising marketing stopping Grandma from building a web service.

Re:Apple broke up with me by duskwuff on Sunday December 05, 2021 @12:24AM (#29446960)
> Apple Music will delete any local copies it manages when the credential is invalidated.

No, it doesn't. I literally just tested this. The article you linked to is wrong. (The site looks like a content farm, so this is hardly surprising.)

Signing out of an Apple ID will leave any subscription content downloaded from Apple Music present on the device, but unplayable. This is expected -- the user never purchased that music; they only had access to listen to it through their Apple Music subscription. Any other locally stored content belonging to the user remains playable, even if it was downloaded through Apple Music, and the subscription content will become playable if you log back in.

Re:Apple broke up with me by Brian_K_White on Sunday December 05, 2021 @12:45AM (#29447061)
You just said "belonging to the user".
Re:Apple broke up with me by duskwuff on Sunday December 05, 2021 @12:54AM (#29447113)
Yes. That isn't a contradiction. Let me give an example.

Let's say I have an MP3 file, and I added that to my Apple Music library on my desktop computer. Apple Music will make that file downloadable and playable on my phone, and that downloaded file isn't tied to the subscription in any way -- it's literally the same MP3 file that was uploaded. This functionality is an extension of an older feature which Apple called "iTunes Match".

On the other hand, if I download an arbitrary track from Apple Music which I didn't put there myself, that downloaded file will no longer be playable if I log out or cancel my subscription -- because those files don't belong to the user.

Re:Apple broke up with me by veidr on Sunday December 05, 2021 @03:46AM (#29447795)
Are you sure you aren't still signed up for iTunes Match?

(I ask because I just happened to notice a $25 annual charge for that the other day... and I was like, oh yeah, I've been paying them all these years to host those 5 CDs I bought at live shows in the 1990s that aren't available on any streaming service...)

Update: Like every time this comes to mind, I almost just canceled it, but then I listened to "Track 03" by the band "djiin", purchased at Jasper O'Farrell's pub in Sebastopol, CA in 2002, and I just can't...

Re:Apple broke up with me by duskwuff on Sunday December 05, 2021 @04:52AM (#29448050)
Yes. An Apple Music subscription includes the functionality of iTunes Match.
Re:Apple broke up with me by veidr on Sunday December 05, 2021 @06:36AM (#29448525)
:-お

good to know, thanks

Re:Apple broke up with me by Brian_K_White on Sunday December 05, 2021 @05:25AM (#29448192)
The point was, something is checking credentials.
Re:Apple broke up with me by calsy on Sunday December 05, 2021 @12:12AM (#29446903)
Routers and USB sticks are the long term trend? How exactly will a USB stick handle apps purchased through the App Store or your subscription to Apple Music?

The long term trend is the exact opposite. People don't want to the manage hardware and all the issues of configuration, backups and troubleshooting faults that come with that, just to watch a movie. They want to palm off that responsibility to an external entity.

Re:Apple broke up with me by betwixthewires on Sunday December 05, 2021 @12:56AM (#29447119)
Why not?

Imagine someone told you "you can't manage your own system on a workstation, you're going to terminal into a mainframe, no normal person has the time or resources to manage their own workstation." You'd say it's absurd, because it is.

We are literally talking about doing something as simple as buying a single board computer and a hard drive, putting a pre built system on an SD card and plugging it into an Ethernet cable. It's not surgery.

Re:Apple broke up with me by maxgashkov on Sunday December 05, 2021 @01:16AM (#29447205)
And then you've lost all your data cause an SD card was not rated for extreme write endurance. You repeat all that using better SD card or just a cheap PC with an SSD. You add backups.

Then you realize you need to access this setup while away from your home. You add port forwarding.

You run an audit to check if the system is secure enough so script-kiddies with a port scanner are not able to access your 'cloud'.

Then you realize your router is not so reliable. You add a watchdog which will reboot it once the connection becomes unstable.

Then there is a power outage. And if before you could just access all data using 4G on your phone, now you cannot. You add UPS to all critical parts of your home network infrastructure.

...

And it goes on and on. It is doable, but doing it well requires a lot of time, planning and resources. It's hardly feasible not only for a lay person but for 'power users' as well.

Re:Apple broke up with me by betwixthewires on Sunday December 05, 2021 @01:36AM (#29447290)
I get it. I self host everything. I'm simplifying, but I'm not naive about it.

The problems you say, connection/power downtime are the biggest ones. And they're frustrating, but not near as frustrating as things you paid for going missing, forever.

My point though is, if we can get workstations out of the box ready, we can get home servers out of the box ready. The software already exists, the hardware already exists. The problem is not that people don't want it, that they're lazy, that the tools don't exist, the problem is that mobile devices are deliberately built to herd people to these services. Once they're hooked they're hooked. They're fundamentally disempowering.

Re:Apple broke up with me by robjan on Sunday December 05, 2021 @02:46AM (#29447567)
I don't think it's laziness, it's just delegation of a time consuming process. In a similar vein, most of us no longer wash clothes using a washboard, grow our own food etc. Modern society is pretty much built around us not doing everything for ourselves and, as a result, we generally have a better quality of life.
Re:Apple broke up with me by betwixthewires on Sunday December 05, 2021 @03:06PM (#29452607)
Washing machines are an obvious improvement to washboards though.

With the modern service oriented way of listening to music and watching TV, you risk losing what you purchased, you're manipulated by algorithms, you're trapped in the net of a service provider. Is that really less stressful than pulling out a CD and putting it in a CD player?

Digital media is better than cassettes. But the service oriented way companies expect us to do it now is not better. We really hit peak digital media with mp3 playing software on our smartphones. Everything since has just made the experience worse.

Re:Apple broke up with me by tomc1985 on Sunday December 05, 2021 @01:31AM (#29447266)
Every step here is illustrated as a worst-case scenario, and omitting the time gaps between issues where the system is operational where you are receiving value from it.

Yes self-hosting is a PITA. Yes things will go down. Yes it takes time to learn.

But owning the means of your production? Priceless.

We need to stop teaching people to be cyber-peasants, sharecropping a land they'll never own.

Re:Apple broke up with me by maxgashkov on Sunday December 05, 2021 @02:20AM (#29447473)
I'm looking at worst cases cause they're really likely to hit you not when you have enough time to tinker and solve it, but when you have other more important things to do.

I self-host a lot, including a smart home setup that is not reliant on the cloud, but in the end looking back how much time I've sunk into this and how often it's down due to _my_ mistakes I don't really think it was worth it.

Re:Apple broke up with me by saagarjha on Sunday December 05, 2021 @02:03AM (#29447412)
Why shouldn’t you look at the worst case scenario? Using a hosted service is valuable too, except in its worst case where they kick you off of it.
Re:Apple broke up with me by tomc1985 on Sunday December 05, 2021 @02:17AM (#29447458)
Because it is not representative of every experience, and without labelling it as such the story given above is mere FUD

We should be encouraging self-hosting for those with the risk-tolerance to do so

Re:Apple broke up with me by TranquilMarmot on Sunday December 05, 2021 @01:33AM (#29447272)
Sure, you can plug a hard drive into a computer. But....

What about when that hard drive fails and you lose all of your data? Do you have backups? Do the backups _work_? Do you regularly check the health of the hard drive? What if you want to access the system from outside of your LAN? If it's accessible to the web, are you handling security yourself? How often are you applying patches? Kernel patches? What if you go on vacation and there's a power outage and you can't remotely turn everything back on?

Re:Apple broke up with me by YeBanKo on Sunday December 05, 2021 @03:23AM (#29447699)
The surgery analogy is great! Not only it is not something it easy to learn / manage, but in some cases it is outright not possible. How do you self host an App Store? If you bought an eBook on amazon I am not even sure if you can easily export and read it on non kindle device. Self-hosting is definitely not an answer to this.
Re:Apple broke up with me by ashtonkem on Sunday December 05, 2021 @01:56AM (#29447367)
It’s not tech people that need to respect their craft, it’s companies that need to respect their customers. Most tech people know this is a shitty practice, many pixels have been spent here about the capriciousness of FAANG companies towards consumers, it’s just that most of us lack the organizational power to do shit about it.
Re:Apple broke up with me by XCSme on Monday December 06, 2021 @09:53AM (#29460391)
> Self hosting is not something a normal person can just learn overnight and manage

Not self-hosting, as in having their own bare metal server in the basement, but most people can go to a VPS/cloud provider and click a few buttons to get their own instance running whatever software they need.

Not only this, but people have always been self-hosting without having any technical knowledge. For a long time, kids ages 14 or less have been running their own websites, forums, game servers, etc. And today it's a lot easier and cheaper than back then.

Re:Apple broke up with me by geraneum on Sunday December 05, 2021 @02:04AM (#29447416)
Exactly. Even if I can manage some self hosted systems, sometimes I prefer to just buy the service to save some time and effort.
Re:Apple broke up with me by NullPrefix on Sunday December 05, 2021 @03:39AM (#29447764)
Did you just compare self hosting to surgery?
Re:Apple broke up with me by ab-dm on Sunday December 05, 2021 @12:07AM (#29446860)
This is a great analogy, going to steal this one.
Re:Apple broke up with me by gurchik on Sunday December 05, 2021 @01:57AM (#29447377)
Last year I was banned from Google Pay without any reason given. Since then I've been trying to move everything to alternatives. For example, changing accounts from using my Gmail to use an email on a domain I own. If I'm ever banned from my new email provider, I can continue to receive email after updating a few DNS records.

The problem is that I wish this wasn't necessary. I really like Google Photos and I haven't found an alternative (free or otherwise) that I like. And I'm also sympathetic to people who don't want to do this, even if they have the technical ability to. It wasn't hard for me to set up NextCloud on a VPS, but it took more than a weekend to get backup scripts working, run the security audit, set up New Relic monitoring, etc.

I think about in the past about how a town might have a local blacksmith or a local doctor that everyone in the community trusts. I wouldn't mind being the ops guy for a local co-op for friends and family and neighbors. But I think in this day and age it doesn't work well since people don't care enough about the problem. I told my wife to stop putting files in our shared Google Drive and to install the Nextcloud app and she said sure, but I don't think most people would care.

Re:Apple broke up with me by ivalm on Saturday December 04, 2021 @11:44PM (#29446740)
Because what happens to him is rare and the benefit of being in a walled garden is immense. The solution should be to pressure the walled garden to have better recourse when things go wrong rather than throwing the baby with the bathwater.
Re:Apple broke up with me by AnthonyMouse on Saturday December 04, 2021 @11:51PM (#29446770)
How do you "pressure the walled garden"? The walled garden only works when it has coercive power over others. If it was easy to opt out of it then most people would. When it isn't easy to opt out of it, you have no leverage against it.
Re:Apple broke up with me by soared on Sunday December 05, 2021 @12:08AM (#29446868)
Emailing the c suite seemed effective in this case.
Re:Apple broke up with me by AnthonyMouse on Sunday December 05, 2021 @12:12AM (#29446900)
That's not pressure. It was entirely within their power to not respond, and then what?
Re:Apple broke up with me by robbedpeter on Sunday December 05, 2021 @12:14AM (#29446913)
Walled gardens are not the baby, in that metaphor. The so called benefits are rentseeking arrangements, exploiting and imposing ignorance on consumers. The costs to society outweigh any advantages by many orders of magnitude.
Re:Apple broke up with me by ivalm on Sunday December 05, 2021 @12:52AM (#29447103)
Consumers actively choose walled gardens over free alternatives. In fact, consumers are willing to pay premium AND put up with all the rent-seeking precisely because the free alternatives are trash in terms of UX/UI, which at the end of the day is more or less the only thing that matters to consumers. I do think that through (primarily government regulation) we as a society should try to lessen the rent-seeking and inscrutability.
Re:Apple broke up with me by AnthonyMouse on Sunday December 05, 2021 @01:15AM (#29447198)
> Consumers actively choose walled gardens over free alternatives.

This is the specific thing that customers are prevented from doing. If you want Apple's hardware, whose processors are faster than Qualcomm's, you get Apple's App Store. If you want iOS instead of Android, you get Apple's App Store. If you need iMessage, you get Apple's App Store. And no other.

It's not a separate choice. If it was, what it would look like is multiple app stores on iOS, and the choice would be whether to use any other than Apple's. And then tons of people would use the other stores, especially if Apple continued to reject apps people want.

Re:Apple broke up with me by NullPrefix on Sunday December 05, 2021 @03:43AM (#29447780)
If you don't want green bubbles, you have to choose walled garden.
Re:Apple broke up with me by AnthonyMouse on Sunday December 05, 2021 @01:25PM (#29451460)
And it's not like Android is so much better.

Do you want the one with the wall, or the one with the barbed wire fence with a tunnel under it?

What if I just want to come and go as I please without crawling through the mud?

Re:Apple broke up with me by robbedpeter on Sunday December 05, 2021 @06:46PM (#29454527)
Exactly, the android ecosystem is only better in that the code is more open and the hardware manufacture more diverse. You still run into the competition being brutally squashed. Computers and devices should be completely open and accessible to their owners. If someone wants to run Tizen or windows or ios on a phone, or should be entirely up to them. Instead, the world has basically 2 choices, with a vanishingly small minority of users able and willing to try things like pinephone hardware or Linux on personal devices.

Consumers are given a false dichotomy - they have as much choice and agency as a child being asked "do you want a 7:45 or 8:00 bedtime? Mommy and daddy will let you pick!"

Re:Apple broke up with me by smoldesu on Saturday December 04, 2021 @11:45PM (#29446746)
It's awfully hard to apply pressure when Apple refuses to admit wrongdoing. Their corporate ethos is too opaque to allow for any real change at this level, the only time they go about making change is when there's significant legal pressure directed towards them.
Re:Apple broke up with me by Jensson on Saturday December 04, 2021 @11:55PM (#29446796)
It gets even harder since Apple refuses to admit why their ban triggered in the first place. If we knew how they work we could fight it, but as is this is just a black box to outsiders, you can't fight that. I assume that is why they don't tell, if they don't tell then you can't do anything to fight it.
Re:Apple broke up with me by jen729w on Sunday December 05, 2021 @01:40AM (#29447307)
I'll assume from your tone that you're not an Apple user?

Like it or not, being signed in everywhere with iCloud is an amazing experience. I know this because I recently tried a second user account on my Mac that wasn't signed in to my iCloud account. It was jarring.

As an Apple user I take it for granted that my watch unlocks my computer. That text copied to the clipboard on any device is immediately, invisibly available on the others. That all of my contacts and messages are just there. That my Safari history and state synchronises.

You can't 'selfhost' this stuff. You may not like Apple -- I'm not trying to convince you -- but the fact is that there are a ton of benefits that their integrated ecosystem delivers that you just can't emulate yourself.

Re:Apple broke up with me by sp1rit on Sunday December 05, 2021 @01:54AM (#29447362)
> You can't 'selfhost' this stuff.

you can,

- kdeconnect can do clipboard & messages sync

- nextcloud (or anything else that does webdav & webcard) does calendar & contact sync

- Firefox (and chrome probably too) can sync browser history and share webpages feom one device to another

i'm not aware of anything that can remotely unlock another device, but that seems like a security risk to me (also quite hard to implement as pam is synchronous :/).

but you certainly don't need a closed ecosystem, building your own out of free components is very much possible.

Re:Apple broke up with me by ashtonkem on Sunday December 05, 2021 @02:00AM (#29447391)
It’s worth pointing out that the most useful and difficult synchronization is not between desktops, but between mobile device and desktop. Switching to a new machine is hopefully a rare process, but copy and pasting between my iPhone and Mac is a near daily experience. Ditto with sharing open tabs.

Some of the stuff you mentioned seems to cover computer to computer, but isn’t relevant to computer to mobile scenarios.

Re:Apple broke up with me by sp1rit on Sunday December 05, 2021 @02:38AM (#29447534)
> Some of the stuff you mentioned seems to cover computer to computer, but isn’t relevant to computer to mobile scenarios.

no, the things I listed are how I sync my linux machines with my mobile phone.

I wasn't talking about computer to computer sync, but the methods I listed (maybe except kdeconnect, which is built for computer to phone sync) apply to workstation to laptop sync aswell.

Re:Apple broke up with me by vhhn on Sunday December 05, 2021 @02:31AM (#29447513)
Actually, all of them (kdeconnect, firefox, nextcloud) have pretty good Android clients