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Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by lawlessone on Monday November 04, 2019 @09:09AM (#21441720)
Really? i thought i ended when everyone was talking about how millennials are ruining companies by not buying affordable products.

Or saying millennials are poor because they like avocados. Or saying millennials are entitled for demanding a living wage.

Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by hmschreck on Monday November 04, 2019 @09:17AM (#21441786)
This is pretty much it. My generation has been called entitled, lazy, selfish, etc, for wanting the same things our parents were given, like a living wage, affordable college, or career stability. In what world is that friendly?
Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by Twirrim on Monday November 04, 2019 @09:45AM (#21442083)
And the boomer generation were called entitled, lazy, selfish by their parent's generation too. Think about the attitudes of the war generation to the hippies, recreational drugs etc.

This shitting on the next generation thing has been going on for a long time.

There's solid evidence going back 150 years of older generations complaining about school kids being undisciplined, not respecting their teachers ("not like back when I was at school"), and some slightly more anecdotal evidence going back some 2000 years of the same.

We always find it hard to reconcile the negative aspects of our old behaviour with our current mindset, and it's way easier to just reduce in our minds the severity or scope of our actions. We learn from our mistakes, and try to make them seem as small as possible in our minds.

Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by MrMember on Monday November 04, 2019 @10:36AM (#21442584)
>The children now love luxury. They have bad manners, contempt for authority; they show disrespect for elders and love chatter in place of exercise.

The above quote comes from ancient Greece.

Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by Twirrim on Monday November 04, 2019 @01:02PM (#21444378)
https://quoteinvestigator.com/2010/05/01/misbehave/

There's some doubts to the veracity of that quote, which is why I opted for anecdotal when it came to older evidence :)

Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by bcrosby95 on Monday November 04, 2019 @09:33AM (#21441968)
Our parents. Are you talking of Gen X? The boomer generation? In general, your statement seems to apply to Gen X. But not really the boomer generation - e.g. they didn't have affordable college like Gen X did. Gen X seems to have been at the crossroads of things shifting and kind of got the best of all worlds.

And for Millennials, some have it rough but some don't. College was cheap and affordable for some of them - certainly more affordable for them than the boomer generation. Keep in mind the generation spans to 1981. Some Millennials are almost 40 now.

Gen Z is in a whole other category of course. Lots of things going/have gone rapidly downhill. But boomers mostly aren't the parents of these people. It's Gen X/Millennials.

Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by mcv on Monday November 04, 2019 @09:47AM (#21442098)
Yeah, I feel like a lot of the things Boomers and Millennials are blaming on each other, actually apply to Gen X (and I say this as a Gen-Xer myself). We got the best education deal before (admittedly Boomer-) politicians started to undermine education. We were the slacker generation. We're the generation that refused to grow up. We got jobs in the booming 1990s.

But sure, let Boomers and Millennials fight. We're happy to stay out of this (just know that I'm on your side, Millennials!)

Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by notacoward on Monday November 04, 2019 @12:39PM (#21444067)
That's funny, I'm GenX and I have very different memories. I remember high inflation ("stagflation"), high unemployment ("misery index"), multiple recessions during the first half of my career. Sure, college seemed pretty affordable compared to nowadays, but not compared to those before.

Also, a lot of the anger at Boomers is not just because of how they had it (that's mostly the doing of their Silent/Greatest predecessors) but because of how they made it. Boomers have dominated politics since those student-activist hippies got into it, largely because of sheer numbers. Thirty or forty years, depending on exactly which ones you count. GenX is finally making a dent, but mostly at the state level. At the federal level it's still heavily Boomer-dominated, regurgitating the same policies that got us into this mess. Ditto Wall Street etc.

If Boomers had enjoyed good times and then made some effort to prolong or repeat them, #okboomer wouldn't be a thing. It is a thing because so many Boomers are using their political power to keep selling everyone else's future for the sake of their own comfy retirement.

Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by jhbadger on Monday November 04, 2019 @10:03AM (#21442243)
The 1990s were only "booming" (in the US) towards the end of the decade. The early/middle part of the decade was a recession.
Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by mcv on Monday November 04, 2019 @04:57PM (#21446961)
I guess I was still in university back then. I'm late Gen X. I imagine early Gen X has a very different story. (I bet the same is true for every generation.)
Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by Frondo on Monday November 04, 2019 @09:52AM (#21442143)
I'm not sure that's true about the boomers having access to affordable college. I had an ex whose boomer grandfather lectured us endlessly about how he worked hard all summer long to save up for college -- which, for him, meant a 40 hour work week during the summer, to afford a year of university, with room and board -- and why couldn't anyone else do the same these days?

No matter how often we pointed out that college is, in general, vastly more expensive, and summer jobs comparably less well-paying, he'd just repeat himself. "I just don't get it, you go work for the parks department, you work all summer long, why isn't that enough? It's your iphones, your cell phone plans, etc." when, you know, yeah we're paying $20 a month for cheap cell phone plans and five-year-old iphones, but the reality is that working three months at, say, $15 an hour, nets you what, $5-6k? That might cover a year's tuition at a community college if you live at home, not a year living at a state-run four-year university.

Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by jhbadger on Monday November 04, 2019 @10:00AM (#21442220)
No, GenX didn't get the "best of all worlds". If you were too young to remember the period, the famous documentary "Slacker" (1990), describes the period well. We had the same frustrations that Millennials and now GenZ have in terms of lack of opportunity.
Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by mieseratte on Monday November 04, 2019 @09:34AM (#21441987)
In defense of "the Boomers," and believe me I have plenty of gripes about trends within that generation, we Millenials aren't exactly above reproach.

I can agree that it's not nearly as easy for us as it was for the past few generations, but it's not nearly as grim as most make it out to be. To put it bluntly, I see a lot of the same "me me me" mentality that the Boomers have been criticized for.

There's the idea that life is just handed to us, so long as we "do the right things." It's perfectly possible to own a home, raise a family, what have you. You just might not get to work the job you want, study the degree program you want, or live in the neighborhood you want.

There never was a "turnkey" existence.

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Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by tyre on Monday November 04, 2019 @09:32AM (#21441957)
I don’t think the boomer generation “earned” cheaper college. That was given to them either by circumstance or by the previous generations. Similarly, post-war prosperity wasn’t something they had earned or worked for.

The contention is that the world left by boomers has less opportunity than what the one provided to them. It’s not entirely true (if you’re black in America, the civil rights movement sure changes a lot for the better), but that’s the argument.

Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by fuzzfactor on Monday November 04, 2019 @12:53PM (#21444258)
>I don’t think the boomer generation “earned” cheaper college.

Exactly. Later generations simply inherited expensive college after the devastation of Nixon.

If Nixon wasn't stopped, they would have continued until all Americans had been returned to lower opportunity levels equivalent to many minorities before Civil Rights, other than those whose significant capitalist privileges had already been well established before the early 1970's.

EDIT: more rapidly returned to lower opportunity levels

Edit: It's still too easy to underestimate Nixon Youth.

Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by rco8786 on Monday November 04, 2019 @09:22AM (#21441832)
Perhaps just replace it with “had access to”. Or perhaps just focus on the spirit of the statement and not pedantries over word choice.
Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by na85 on Monday November 04, 2019 @09:23AM (#21441842)
Can't tell what point you're making, but when my brother left his job at Google our grandmother asked what that was going to do to his pension. As if companies paying pensions was still a thing.

These people grew up when a factory job could support a family of four, and companies hired people with no experience and then paid actual benefits.

Boomers benefited from very generous circumstances. To suggest they earned the postwar economic boom is laughably misguided.

Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by creaturemachine on Monday November 04, 2019 @09:36AM (#21441994)
My parents, I guess who were boomers, suffered from crushing debt, divorce, poverty, unstable work. Factory work killed two of my Grandfathers, COPD and asbestosis. But go on, tell us how Google ruined your Brother's future.
Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by dang on Monday November 04, 2019 @12:43PM (#21444122)
Would you please not post in the flamewar style to HN? There are much better ways to honor your grandfathers.

https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html

Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by na85 on Monday November 04, 2019 @11:21AM (#21443041)
>But go on, tell us how Google ruined your Brother's future.

I didn't write or imply this in any way.

My point is that many boomers conveniently gloss over the fact that they benefited immensely from the economic climate of yesteryear, and the common refrain of millennials needing to just tug harder on their bootstraps isn't received well because of it.

Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by excalibur on Monday November 04, 2019 @09:23AM (#21441857)
Yes, it would be more appropriate to say "not robbed by their employers."
Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by falcolas on Monday November 04, 2019 @10:51AM (#21442714)
Funny, my pre-baby boomer dad had his pension raided by the leadership of his employer. Employers abusing employees is a tale as old as time.
Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by excalibur on Monday November 04, 2019 @12:56PM (#21444299)
Indeed. The labor movement in the early 20th century claimed a significant number of advantages for workers, and employers have been steadily chipping away at them ever since. The effect of this has been cumulative, with each generation both never seeing the benefits that were taken from their parents and having new ones taken from them personally. Pensions are long gone, unions are on life support, insurance is a debacle (though somewhat unrelated), wages have stagnated resulting in inflation-driven pay cuts, and the latest trend is to eschew employees altogether and treat everybody as an independent contractor (thus eliminating virtually all benefits).
Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by cmiles74 on Monday November 04, 2019 @09:32AM (#21441955)
The boomers also have a pretty strong sense of entitlement. Some would argue that millennial are entitled to feel "entitled".
Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by mieseratte on Monday November 04, 2019 @09:36AM (#21441998)
> Some would argue that millennial are entitled to feel "entitled".

Some of us would argue that is a garbage mentality at the root of the problem.

I would sooner wish to emulate the "Greatest Generation" than the Boomers.

Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by ohduran on Monday November 04, 2019 @09:20AM (#21441823)
People selling OK Boomer stickers like Pepsi selling the "Pepsi Generation". Old dog, same tricks.
Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by Clubber on Monday November 04, 2019 @09:33AM (#21441972)
Those were all divisive articles written by the same media companies trying to fill in ad space. They're playing both sides. Maybe it's time to stop taking many news articles at face value and realize they're trying to make a profit.
Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by dogsgobork on Monday November 04, 2019 @09:15AM (#21441768)
It's like how class warfare is only when the poor fight back.
Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by notacoward on Monday November 04, 2019 @11:53AM (#21443527)
The group that's first to offend is rarely aware of it. The same phenomenon is readily observable in race and gender relations where "everything's fine" until the "uppity" out-group starts fighting back. It's a form of privilege, and "old white guy" is like the trifecta with "old" in there for a reason.
Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by bgravinz on Monday November 04, 2019 @09:25AM (#21441869)
Generations are not classes. They span classes.
Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by HeWhoLurksLate on Monday November 04, 2019 @09:35AM (#21441989)
That was a simile.
Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by enriquto on Monday November 04, 2019 @09:20AM (#21441818)
wait, what's the problem with avocados?
Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by lawlessone on Monday November 04, 2019 @09:47AM (#21442102)
Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by enriquto on Tuesday November 05, 2019 @08:14AM (#21452028)
regular news are becoming indistinguishable to the onion
Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by mieseratte on Monday November 04, 2019 @09:26AM (#21441886)
> Really? i thought i ended when everyone was talking about how millennials are ruining companies by not buying affordable products.

I think it's important to differentiate between "media-driven narrative" and real-world relations, though that line is a bit blurry. It seems the former often creates the latter.

Right now I'm not sure that "Ok Boomer" is anything more than a meme.

Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by HeWhoLurksLate on Monday November 04, 2019 @09:37AM (#21442008)
People do take it too far, as usual.
Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by mieseratte on Monday November 04, 2019 @09:44AM (#21442070)
As always, the question is how many and to what degree.
Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by swalsh on Monday November 04, 2019 @09:19AM (#21441801)
On a side note related to this idea, I wonder if Millenials overcompensated by going to the extreme on the opposite side of the triangle (quantity, price, quality). On Saturday I went to a beer/wine store that's in a predominately young professional/student neighborhood. When I lived in the area about 8 years ago there were maybe 20 craft beer brands. Beer came in 6-packs, and was priced at about $11-15.

Today, there's maybe 100 brands. Almost all come in 4-packs, and are priced between $15-$20.

Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by djsumdog on Monday November 04, 2019 @09:23AM (#21441845)
I don't think those are remotely related.

Price increases may just be inflation and even 10 years ago you could find tons of craft beer stores with huge selections in cities big and small. (Beer is one of the easier small businesses to get into; still expensive but they tend to be less likely to fail if you get the consistency of batches right).

Maybe that store just decided to expand from a small selection to attract more craft beer people. That's a really freaking weird conclusion to draw over the history of one bottle shop.

Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by Frondo on Monday November 04, 2019 @09:56AM (#21442165)
I don't know about that. My millennial friends, when we're buying beer, go for the 24-pack of keystone light. The craft beer's always a treat, like something you might get a four-pack once a month.
Re:‘OK Boomer’ Marks the End of Friendly Generational Relations by rco8786 on Monday November 04, 2019 @09:22AM (#21441839)
$15 for a 4 pack is insanely expensive