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Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by decasia on Thursday October 11, 2018 @07:49AM (#18192682)
The thing I keep thinking is that I want to have social software built on a co-operative model (like a food co-op): you all pay some nominal membership fee (could you fund servers and developers on $5/year/user?), and the software would then be developed to fit the agreed-upon needs of the community, without dark patterns or behavior modification projects, openly, and with some kind of community governance (which need not be exclusive of technical leadership).

Obviously this would probably never get the global reach of a no-fee Facebook, but I would use something like this in a second, many of my friends would too, and I sometimes daydream about what I would need to do to get it off the ground.

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by pjc50 on Thursday October 11, 2018 @10:11AM (#18193664)
Twenty years ago I was involved in founding something similar, the SRCF: https://www.srcf.net/faq/about#why

The intention was to provide hosting for web pages relating to university societies, with good facilities for transfer of ownership (since there was annual turnover of the society administrators). Nowadays this role would be filled by Facebook pages, but the SRCF is still there and still useful.

I believe if you want to get the co-op model off the ground you have to start with a particular user community that you're a member of. Then you can start scaling it to other communities. But crucially this process must be lead by thinking of the user community and their needs, not the technology - the technology is secondary and you can always tape together a solution somehow.

(We "nearly" came up with Facebook, called people.ucam.org, but we weren't even the only people in the university looking at the question of "how to stay in touch with your friends after graduating"; it was a common problem of the time)

Another example of a community-driven content hosting site / social network is "Archive of our own": AO3, for fanfic (often NSFW)

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by JepZ on Thursday October 11, 2018 @09:23AM (#18193295)
Well, while I dream the same dream, it feels awkward asking my family and friends to pay 5€ per year so that we can share the cost of running our XMPP-Server. Currently, I pay all the bills and manage the server myself (so no cost/effort for them), and they still keep using WhatsApp with most of their contacts.

I don't know what the root of that evil is, but there are undoubtedly multiple factors involved. First of all, most people have WhatsApp already.

Secondly, it is effortless to use. With federated systems, you always have to choose a provider. Once you have overcome that hurdle, the privacy-sensitive people like us do not want to share their address book with the server so finding your people is a manual setup for everyone (another hurdle).

Last but not least, the client landscape of XMPP is still far from perfect. If you want to use end-to-end encryption (e.g., OMEMO) there are finally some clients which work with each other (Android: Conversations, iOS: ChatSecure, Desktop: Gajim), but configuring all that stuff (Server + Clients), is not as easy as pushing a button. Other features like video calls are still very fragmented and rarely work if different clients are involved.

I think it would take ten dedicated developers about a year to fix all those problems (if they would agree on common goals and focus on those) and even after that, we would still have to sell the product.

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by athenot on Thursday October 11, 2018 @09:43AM (#18193435)
This is all summed up in one word: friction.

What the big platforms have done is eliminate friction at all the critical parts, to make it easy for users to onboard, easy to share, easy to grow within the platform, and of course hard to leave.

I've been thinking about a low cost but not free platform too. If it ever happens, it will have to be AT LEAST as frictionless and enticing as the existing platforms. The table stakes are very high. Since cost in of itself is a source of friction, that means the rest of the platform needs to be even MORE frictionless.

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by decasia on Thursday October 11, 2018 @09:58AM (#18193553)
I think this is exactly right. Users expect a really nice, contemporary-feeling UX. And for something that cost money it would have to be above and beyond.

That said, the fact is that the mainstream alternatives are handicapped by their own success and are afraid to change anything of their core features. Starting a new platform would be an opportunity to revisit many of the original design choices, and perhaps one could do surprising new things at that point.

I think the co-operative model is interesting economically as well because as far as I can tell, there are at least some cases where it does work out to be economically stable on a reasonably long term basis (decades anyway), and I presume it changes things a lot, organizationally, if the main goal isn't just "lowest common denominator software for the sake of maximal mass adoption and growth."

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by athenot on Thursday October 11, 2018 @10:13AM (#18193681)
The angle we can exploit is to find all the places where UX is degraded by advertisement, and attack them. With increased competition and shareholder expectation, Facebook will have no choice but maximize the value they can extract out of each user. Right now they are doing a fairly good job at keeping things minimally intrusive, but I think that boundary is going to shift with time.
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by sizzle on Thursday October 11, 2018 @12:40PM (#18194949)
I'm curious, can anyone estimate the developer hours it would take to clone WhatsApp's UX, features and functionality? Would it be doable since it's already developed and they solved the hard problems for syncing messages across timezones and it may be feasible to follow their tech stack as a blueprint/starting point?

Facebook and Instagram had no trouble stealing the concept of 'stories' from Snapchat and Facebook also copied their augmented face masks.

Did WhatsApp use a lot of open source stuff under the covers that we could leverage in building our own secure person to person/ group chat platform?

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by athenot on Thursday October 11, 2018 @02:34PM (#18195947)
WhatsApp's popularity originally came from how it ran on many WAP phone systems, not just iOS and Android but also all the feature phones. What they did looked crazy from the outside but they effectively re-implemented SMS at a lower cost, for nearly all phones. That was not a trivial amount of effort, but it produced a lower financial friction than competition.

A disrupter would have to have even less friction but would be competing against a product that already has a significant network effect and a very generous backing by Facebook. I'm speculating that FB will eventually nudge WhatsApp users to Messenger, or find a way to gradually merge the services to the point where they are identical, especially w.r.t. advertisement.

In that respect, it was brilliant of FB to acquire WhatsApp: not just for the users, but to make it hard for any newcommer to disrupt things (hard to compete againsts free and frictionless).

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by MattJ100 on Thursday October 11, 2018 @01:07PM (#18195188)
WhatsApp was originally XMPP, and may still be some hacked up version of it.

There are many (open-source) solutions for building your own secure messaging system, XMPP and others.

I'm happily running (I should also disclose: developing) my own server and talking with friends and family who use e.g. Conversations as an alternative to WhatsApp.

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by efields on Thursday October 11, 2018 @04:32PM (#18196816)
Craigslist is an interesting comparison for friction/UX. Still looks like it's from the early 00's, but has stayed just usable enough on all contemporary devices that it never went out of style.

The only friction to the end-user is the same email/password request every other service makes, but you want to use CL because it's the de facto place for listing your apartment or whatever.

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by vel0city on Friday October 12, 2018 @03:22PM (#18203987)
I'm not sure if its true of every area, but in the cities where I've used craigslist it does not require a username or password to create or reply to a listing. It will confirm an email address when generating the listing. The link in the email contains the token allowing modification and deletion of the posting.
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by loceng on Thursday October 11, 2018 @01:07PM (#18195190)
Or enough differentiation and/or other enticing reasons to join the network.

The table stakes are another reason why this endeavour won't happen as a small effort.

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by Chris_Jay on Thursday October 11, 2018 @04:04PM (#18196627)
The only thing I could possibly see working for what you're envisioning is building it on top of the Neuralink if a version 1.0 ever comes out.
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by wolco on Thursday October 11, 2018 @03:01PM (#18196139)
What about a facebook clone with regular ads?
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by decasia on Thursday October 11, 2018 @09:32AM (#18193357)
I don't know if I would build something from scratch that was based on XMPP or even on the idea of messaging. I keep thinking that the Twitter/FB/chat models of socializing is a very limited form of online sociability and that we could do better.

I think it would be better to build something that was sufficiently compelling and had enough new features/UX that people would want to use it all on its own, as something better than the existing ad-supported options, and then we would enable federated options as an alternative form of access. But I think the primary UX has to be "log in to web app" or "install mobile clients," not "fiddle with XMPP settings" (because that is too fiddly, like you're saying, and you have to meet people where they are).

This being said — it's excellent that you run your own server and managed to get some of your social network to actually use it!

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by Leace on Thursday October 11, 2018 @09:42AM (#18193433)
I think the parent referred to fiddling with OMEMO fingerprints, that a) is automated in "good clients" (Conversations) b) can't be easy and paranoid-secure at the same time.

I also run XMPP server for friends and family and actually all of them are very happy with it. With Conversations this entire experience looks like any other modern messenger.

Network effects are of course a problem in any decentralized environments but looking at how quickly companies drop their solutions (Google?) or abuse the data you give them (Facebook?) I don't see any other reasonable option. Today Signal is nice and kind, tomorrow they are bought by Facebook and start "fiddling" with the app...

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by john-aj on Thursday October 11, 2018 @04:32PM (#18196811)
> I also run XMPP server for friends and family and actually all of them are very happy with it. With Conversations this entire experience looks like any other modern messenger.

Does Conversations do something extra to support sending messages to people who are offline? If so, how well does it work? Because that's what I find to be the biggest gripe people have (myself included) with XMPP.

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by Leace on Friday October 12, 2018 @06:18AM (#18200414)
The messages for offline users are stored on their servers and delivered when they connect. Interesting that you list this as a problem because this worked for ages (given server support for offline messages).

Conversations can display a "tick" on the sender's side so you know that a message has been delivered to the user (not just stored on a server).

I guess it works well as I've never heard about a lost message.

You can check the server with compliance tester: https://compliance.conversations.im

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by Joe-Z on Thursday October 11, 2018 @01:06PM (#18195180)
>I think it would take ten dedicated developers ... if they would agree on common goals and focus on those

Well, then it will never happen :D

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by benjaminjackman on Thursday October 11, 2018 @09:55AM (#18193527)
Do you have a recommended guide for setting an XMPP server that supports end-to-end encryption?
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by JepZ on Thursday October 11, 2018 @10:30AM (#18193804)
Sadly I don't. I have mine running since a while, and some things might not be state-of-the-art anymore.

The server doesn't really have to support end-to-end encryption as that is part of the clients (in fact, there are some server-side extensions which have to be present, but those are mostly enabled by default).

Afaik, the default ejabberd configuration is very close to what you need, and there is just one part that you have to remove to enable OMEMO [1]. I don't understand why but recently the ejabberd devs introduced that part to their default configuration which makes it harder to use end-to-end encryption.

Nevertheless, if you are very interested in a detailed guide, I could write one as I am thinking about setting up a secondary server as a testing environment.

[1]: https://github.com/processone/ejabberd/blob/master/ejabberd....

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by upofadown on Thursday October 11, 2018 @04:22PM (#18196749)
Here is some discussion of how to easily use Let's Encrypt certificates with the prosody XMPP server. That gets you C2S and S2S encryption which is more or less mandatory these days. End to end (OMEMO) doesn't need the server to do anything special so there isn't any setup to do past just getting the server running.

* https://prosody.im/doc/letsencrypt

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by krabzzz on Thursday October 11, 2018 @10:33AM (#18193831)
Why would you want E2E if you run the server, and so can be trusted?
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by JepZ on Thursday October 11, 2018 @11:07AM (#18194103)
If you run a federated server, not all contacts might use the same server. With end-to-end encryption that doesn't really matter.

EDIT: Moreover, trust is not binary. So while your family might trust you, maybe your dad doesn't want you to be able to read everything he writes your mom or so (you get the idea).

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by darkerside on Thursday October 11, 2018 @08:44AM (#18193000)
I'm not a big government advocate, generally speaking, but enacting this at a federal level, would be akin to a modern day postal service. Social media communication without the bells and whistles--or the obsession with engagement. I'd be all for it.
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by decasia on Thursday October 11, 2018 @09:23AM (#18193289)
Not sure why you're getting downvoted. I don't think it's likely that government-provided social software would work all that well in the contemporary USA (unless they built it with better security and privacy than they have ever wanted to see in the private sector), but the government can be seen as a version of cooperative funding and it's certainly worth thinking about.

I would like it if my local government funded an alternative to Nextdoor, for instance.

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by amanaplanacanal on Thursday October 11, 2018 @11:06AM (#18194092)
I think the bigger problem in the US would be how to deal with free-speech issues. It either has to be moderated (sorry, no free speech here!) or it will be overrun by trolls, spammers, and other evils.
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by Reelin on Thursday October 11, 2018 @04:06PM (#18196651)
I think this is a false dichotomy.

I agree that the issue arises for current systems that allow broadcast (one-to-all) communications such as this forum. I also acknowledge that it exists for email (one-to-one), but I think only because in that case it's so cheap and easy to mass mail something that one-to-one has effectively been automated into one-to-almost-all. I'd also note that modern spam filters are quite good at their job.

But for example, SMS isn't meaningfully moderated in any way yet when was the last time you had cause to blacklist a number?

I don't see any reason why a newly designed system couldn't apply different techniques to (mostly) avoid the problem. Just off the top of my head there's personal whitelists and blacklists, federated systems (pick the centralized ruleset that works for you), community moderation (ex StackExchange), web of trust, the subscription blacklist model that adblockers use...

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by darkerside on Thursday October 11, 2018 @12:05PM (#18194658)
That's a great point. No need for moderation through postal mail because it's all 1-to-1 communication. OTOH, all broadcast media is heavily moderated today.
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by template3 on Thursday October 11, 2018 @02:55PM (#18196098)
Lol postal mail has a long history of moderation. A lot of first amendment case law with respect to obscenity and fraud comes from postal cases.
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by darkerside on Friday October 12, 2018 @07:47AM (#18200741)
Do you have some examples of what you're talking about?
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by professorgerm on Friday October 12, 2018 @10:22AM (#18201599)
The Comstock Laws [1] are probably the most famous US example, which made it illegal to use the USPS to send any obscene materials, including personal letters with sexual content.

[1]:https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Comstock_laws

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by tomatotomato37 on Thursday October 11, 2018 @04:49PM (#18196925)
A lot of that could be solved by just only allowing one account per person (no corporate/organizational at all) and requiring your real name, with any trangressions handled through the usual mob rule chaos. Nothing says this has to be a platform for healthy discorse, it just needs to hold well enough to announce block parties and post pictures of your dog
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by danShumway on Thursday October 11, 2018 @11:58PM (#18199094)
Every company that sends me unsolicited emails is forced by law to have an unsubscribe button on those emails. I have a huge amount of control around filtering spam and blacklisting and whitelisting specific addresses.

There is no way for me to stop the US postal office from delivering me giant catalogues of advertisements multiple times a week. I regularly get mail addressed to "current resident." I ought to be able to go to the postal office and say, "If someone doesn't know my name, just don't deliver the letter." It's friendlier for the environment, it would make the experience of checking my mail more pleasant.

The reason I can't do that is because spam is a giant source of revenue for the US Postal service. Coincidentally, the US Postal service has a number of services specifically designed to make it easier for advertisers to get mail into my mailbox. There is, in my mind, no reason to believe that a nationally owned social media platform would have any different incentives than Facebook would.

Email, a federated service that doesn't really make the government any money, doesn't have those incentives. So open protocols that are unaffiliated with any single organization (government or company) work better in my experience, unless whatever service is created is isolated from making profits in traditional ways. There are some good examples of that, but I'm not completely sure the Post Office is one of them.

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by darkerside on Friday October 12, 2018 @07:51AM (#18200759)
Completely different example. Those advertisers are a customer of the service just like you. In most social media, we're not paying to post, but advertisers are. The rules of the game might be stretched to allow benefit to advertisers, but it's not rigged like you seem to think.
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by snikeris on Thursday October 11, 2018 @03:13PM (#18196226)
The NSA would build it for us, free of charge!
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by darkerside on Thursday October 11, 2018 @03:35PM (#18196381)
I know you're joking, but there needn't be anything private to be hidden on this network. That would seem to make this of limited use to the NSA.
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by edhelas on Thursday October 11, 2018 @08:35AM (#18192941)
In some extends this is what the Movim project (https://movim.eu/) is building for several years now. A light solution that you can deploy on a server and that handle the communication of a small community (10 to a few hundreds people).

The good thing is that it relies on XMPP for all the communication, therefore all the instances are still connected to each others allowing communication between all the users of the network and with all the existing XMPP applications.

It offers social features (publications, blog, comments), chat (chatrooms, stickers...) and video-conferencing.

P.S. I'm one of the contributor of the project.

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by decasia on Thursday October 11, 2018 @09:39AM (#18193401)
This looks excellent, I'm really glad to see this out there and will explore!
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by Maximus9000 on Thursday October 11, 2018 @08:51AM (#18193048)
> $5/year/user

I think facebook has each user valued at about $200USD/year. A 2016 article from the Guardian puts it at $60/year... so I'm not sure which number to believe.

https://www.kqed.org/news/11661387/heres-how-much-you-are-wo...

https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2016/jan/28/how-much-...

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by dwighttk on Thursday October 11, 2018 @09:05AM (#18193156)
That's revenue though, right? Parent was asking about cost. This network would have no ad revenue.
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by decasia on Thursday October 11, 2018 @09:35AM (#18193381)
Yeah, from the perspective of starting something cooperatively funded from scratch, I think it's basically about "what would it cost to get something running and keep it worth using," balanced against "what would people actually be willing to pay?"

In my dreams, if the price point were low enough, like "the cost of two coffees per year" or something, and it wasn't irritating to pay it, there are plenty of people who want out of FB and could afford that.

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by WrtCdEvrydy on Thursday October 11, 2018 @10:00AM (#18193576)
The issue isn't often the cost but payment friction.

When I started using privacy.com, I found it a lot easier to fund stuff because it was frictionless to generate a CC and drop it into a payment form automatically.

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by CaptainZapp on Thursday October 11, 2018 @09:18AM (#18193241)
I think it depends on geopgraphy.

North American and European users are worth a lot more than users in developing countries.

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by ams6110 on Thursday October 11, 2018 @01:55PM (#18195634)
At the same time, how many Facebook users would pay even $1/month to use the platform? I bet less than half.
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by znpy on Thursday October 11, 2018 @03:31PM (#18196349)
Whatsapp users were paying $1/year and they were doing pretty good.
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by timdavila on Thursday October 11, 2018 @02:08PM (#18195732)
Way less. Isn't 2% conversion a good rate in this industry?
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by rsync on Thursday October 11, 2018 @11:18AM (#18194188)
"The thing I keep thinking is that I want to have social software built on a co-operative model (like a food co-op): you all pay some nominal membership fee (could you fund servers and developers on $5/year/user?), and the software would then be developed to fit the agreed-upon needs of the community"

No fees, no development needed, lightweight and has been working for decades:

A listserv.

Everything else is just candy.

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by warkdarrior on Thursday October 11, 2018 @12:19PM (#18194789)
Candy is what attracts and keeps people on Facebook, instead of using a listserv.
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by tomcooks on Thursday October 11, 2018 @05:40PM (#18197237)
People want candy though
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by lucideer on Thursday October 11, 2018 @12:13PM (#18194730)
This is different, but with some minor modifications this sounds a lot like Scuttlebutt. Have you tried Patchwork?

> you all pay some nominal membership fee (could you fund servers and developers on $5/year/user?)

People individually run "pubs", which are servers (with hosting costs), but every user also acts as a potential server, caching and proxying encrypted communications on behalf of other users, which acts as a sort of "cost", though it's not directly monetary.

> software would then be developed to fit the agreed-upon needs of the community, without dark patterns or behavior modification projects, openly, and with some kind of community governance

Apart from the central protocol, niche needs are met by various clients—e.g. there is a dedicated chess client for users who just want to play chess over the social network.

> need not be exclusive of technical leadership

While the SSBC is in no way dictatorial and even often jokey, I think their clients demonstrate exceptional technical leadership. The strategy of having a protocol with many clients usually leads to having many disparate clients of low quality. On the contrary, most users use Patchwork, the main stable SSBC-maintained client; it's the most "Facebook-ish" of the clients and is very intuitive.

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by NeedMoreTea on Thursday October 11, 2018 @08:21AM (#18192853)
Before everyone had to be on Facebook, a few friends and relatives used a hidden forum on someone's spare domain, and it worked really nicely.

A co-op social network sounds an interesting idea. Doubly so if it gave only the sort of features early Facebook had - i.e. the ones useful to the users, before it became about the algorithm, engagement and so on. Wouldn't be surprised if there's something along those lines on github.

It would be really nice to have some choices that actively reject the "users are data cattle" model, even if it goes back to the BBS world of lots of little, barely connected, islands.

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by leephillips on Thursday October 11, 2018 @09:38AM (#18193395)
I'm not on Facebook. I know plenty of other adults who don't have an account. My daughter tells me that the young folks have completely abandoned it, a good while ago.
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by znpy on Thursday October 11, 2018 @03:34PM (#18196373)
Indeed, and I quite understand this: once relatives (parents and grandparents) joined the Facebook bandwagon, the fun was over. What once was some youngsters'-inner-circle has become the new sons-and-daughters-surveillance service.

And as with all the forms of surveillance, kids are escaping it.

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by wyclif on Friday October 12, 2018 @05:07AM (#18200208)
Parental or familial surveillance isn't the reason at all.

I'm in SE Asia right now, in a country where Facebook Zero makes it available to everyone regardless of income, and guess what? Not only does everybody have a Facebook account, many women have at least three: one for friends, one for family, and one that is anonymous to hide their activity from their friends and family.

I know it's against Facebook's TOS, but it's so easy to create a pseudonymous username. So it's the same for American teenage kids: they just create a new account with a fake name. If they are abandoning Facebook it's because they like Instagram or Snapchat more, not because their parents are on Facebook.

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by martinmin on Saturday October 13, 2018 @10:22PM (#18211038)
Hey, can I contact you somehow? I got some questions to ask about a comment you made about your remote work arrangement? I work in tech in SF and am wondering how you managed to get to work from the Ph where my Fiance recently had to move back to. Thanks!
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by wyclif on Sunday October 21, 2018 @11:13PM (#18271918)
Sure! My email is in my profile.
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by leephillips on Thursday October 11, 2018 @03:56PM (#18196554)
A good guess, but that's not the reason. She and many in her group use Snapchat and Instagram (if I have those names right - I've never even opened a page, if they have pages, on one of these services) knowing that at least a handful of parents established accounts specifically to keep an eye on things. They don't care. They even happily interact with the parents on the platforms. They just don't like Facebook. When they want to have (what they think are) private conversations they use WhatsApp, etc.
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by Carlton87 on Thursday October 11, 2018 @09:35AM (#18193376)
Nobody has to be on Facebook. I deleted mine in 2008 and never looked back.
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by symfoniq on Thursday October 11, 2018 @10:51AM (#18193978)
Ditto. I've successfully avoided Facebook for a decade.
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by zaarn on Thursday October 11, 2018 @08:24AM (#18192874)
I personally favor the federated model.

In there, you can have some communities that run co-op and some that are free to use. It also makes the ecosystem more open compared to centrally managed software, even if it's transparent and without dark patterns.

(Plus, how do you police it if you're talking about a company that is well versed in the art of 'taking it over the line by 1 inch per year')

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by decasia on Thursday October 11, 2018 @09:19AM (#18193256)
Federated communities would be neat and basically are how the "real world" already interconnects, socially speaking. I don't think that's exclusive of what I had in mind.

But you have to actually have the communities before you can do the federation (this is also how it works in the offline world — it's not like people design interoperability protocols and THEN found villages).

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by hannasanarion on Thursday October 11, 2018 @09:25AM (#18193307)
So what you're saying is, we should try to convince the existing villages (Facebook, reddit, Twitter) to adopt interoperability protocols?
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by decasia on Thursday October 11, 2018 @09:38AM (#18193394)
Ha no, of course I think that is impossible.

It's more like: we could build nicer, community-funded, sanely run social software, and alongside them we could support XMPP type features for hackers who are able to use them, or to interoperate with other alternative online communities that may be emerging.

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by zaarn on Thursday October 11, 2018 @10:25AM (#18193768)
Nah, I would favor a pitchfork-and-torches approach to Facebook and Twitter, the entire company behind it is so unlikely to change that a radical rebuild is required.
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by styfle on Thursday October 11, 2018 @12:00PM (#18194610)
I think some mastodon[0] servers are run this way: users pay a small portion to cover hosting costs and there is usually some topic that brings that server/community together. However, you are not limited to a single mastodon community because they are federated (similar to email where gmail users can communicate with hotmail users).

[0]: https://github.com/tootsuite/mastodon

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by dvfjsdhgfv on Thursday October 11, 2018 @10:33AM (#18193834)
People are already doing that. For example one of the communities I'm involved in is using HumHub on a VPS. It's supercheap, something like 5€/month, so the per-person cost is almost nil. Nobody objects to paying for hosting and the platform itself is a pleasure to use - maybe because you can relax and know you're in a good company, and there's nobody to manipulate you.
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by hmhrex on Thursday October 11, 2018 @01:40PM (#18195482)
I like this idea. I might just try it with my family.
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by snikeris on Thursday October 11, 2018 @10:56AM (#18194026)
This reminds me of The WELL:

https://www.well.com/

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by rsync on Thursday October 11, 2018 @11:20AM (#18194218)
Actually, I have noticed recently that several online communities are approximating what I used to think of as a "BBS".

I think, specifically, of the lesswrong site and the collection of tools and user-created content that are collected under a single site there.

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by MisterOctober on Friday October 12, 2018 @12:38AM (#18199254)
^ brings back some memories. The WELL was the first social-internet thing I ever heard of -- in a TIME magazine cover story on, I kid you not, 'Cyberpunk' -- circa 1993ish
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by MaxBarraclough on Thursday October 11, 2018 @12:02PM (#18194622)
You need to address the question of federation.

If you have a thousand unconnected small networks, you're going to be unable to compete with worldwide networks.

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by tomjen3 on Thursday October 11, 2018 @10:03AM (#18193602)
If you could get the users together that model could work, but you still run into the winner takes all problem with social networks: nobody likes Facebook, but that is where all your friends are.

Of course, for some communities the value is that all your friends aren't there, but in general even if I was willing to pay for that service (and it would probably have to be 5 usd/month, not per year due to scale) most of the people I know wouldn't be willing to pay that and so the idea is DOA.

It is however quite possible that model would work for other types of software -- after all that model was exactly what Danish farmers used to fund the companies that could process their milk.

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by coffeefirst on Thursday October 11, 2018 @08:07AM (#18192779)
Global reach has also given us a global misinformation and harassment crisis that nobody has figured out how to manage effectively. We'd probably be better off if we moved the good parts to smaller platforms.
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by maze-le on Thursday October 11, 2018 @11:17AM (#18194177)
Misinformation and harassment also exists on smaller platforms, it is a matter how to deal with it. Smaller platforms usually have a more tightly bound user-group and moderation, so it is detected and prevented earlier. But this also means that someone you trust in the group needs to be the moderator or have certain privileges.

So, effectively it is more work per user to manage smaller groups than larger ones -- which is fine, if you find people who want to do this task. Another approach might be a community driven model -- where detractors could be ostracized. For very small groups this might work out well, but as the group gets larger, the potential for misuse rises also.

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by decasia on Thursday October 11, 2018 @07:51AM (#18192692)
My thought about the article is that basically the author has gotten too negative. He is so distracted with attacking the ad-supported social software we have that he gave up thinking about the software we need.
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by CaptainZapp on Thursday October 11, 2018 @09:22AM (#18193284)
He's one of two really relevant critical thinkers on tech and is critical of some of the aspects since literally decades. The other, arguably, being Evgeny Morozov (for a shorter time).

Lanier certainly has the chops, the background and the deliverables to be taken seriously.

I think those guys are super important as a counterweight to the fawning and gushing (in general) tech press and I for one wish that they have far more reach, impact and influence.

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by tangental on Thursday October 11, 2018 @12:57PM (#18195102)
There is another critical thinker I recently came across - Adam Greenfield - much better then Morozov IMO. Have a look at his latest book: Radical Technologies: The Design of Everyday Life

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/30724899-radical-technol...

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by jonjacky on Thursday October 11, 2018 @01:12PM (#18195225)
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by binarnosp on Thursday October 11, 2018 @08:00AM (#18192744)
We don't need software to socialize.

Some tasks of our life can be taken over by software, but others should stay with us.

Especially with the advent of AI, engineers are racing to automate everything: from suggesting us new friends, new music, with which dresses we look smart, and so on. Automating everything will cause the atrophying of our skills and we will become a bunch of lonely depressed, smartly dressed users with thousands of virtual friends and perfect music playlists that never deviate from our preferred music.

Automation is fine and dandy, but not for everything.

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by caymanjim on Thursday October 11, 2018 @08:20AM (#18192843)
Your response is literally a use of software to socialize. Of course we don't "need" it, but that's a meaningless statement. We don't need computers or electricity either.

The idea that we're all being duped and manipulated into using something we don't need so that we'll view ads is overblown. It's not false, it's just not a new thing and it's not a problem.

Media has been intertwined with market research, ratings, feedback, and advertising since before the electronic age. Advertising platforms have been getting incrementally better at learning what people want, how to push their psychological buttons, and how to retain customers.

There's a tendency to treat social media users as helpless victims of an evil empire who don't realize their personal details are being used to target them for exploitation. People aren't that stupid. They know what they're trading for these great free products we all use.

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by FabHK on Thursday October 11, 2018 @09:32AM (#18193362)
The fact that ads and news (!) are individually targeted is new, and I'd consider it a huge threat. Decades ago, some news and shows were watched by everyone. There was still plenty of variety to go off in individual directions, but there was a common ground. That is being threatened.

> People aren't that stupid. They know what they're trading for these great free products we all use.

Maybe for most HN readers, but I don't think that is the case for most users.

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by bizkitgto on Thursday October 11, 2018 @05:33PM (#18197211)
> People aren't that stupid. They know what they're trading for these great free products we all use.

I would say the average user has no idea what exactly they are trading for.

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by TeMPOraL on Thursday October 11, 2018 @08:41AM (#18192980)
To some extent yes, but then again, social media is public billboard meets address book. There's nothing in there that fundamentally shouldn't be automated, it's just the sum of those parts that enable a new dimension in social interaction.

Also: we don't need software for most things in life. But we like software, as it usually makes things better.

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by bizkitgto on Thursday October 11, 2018 @05:34PM (#18197215)
Is software making us better or lazy?
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by TeMPOraL on Thursday October 11, 2018 @06:14PM (#18197457)
Is it laziness, or efficient use of time, which could be put to a more productive use? It's a tricky question.
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by bizkitgto on Thursday October 11, 2018 @05:27PM (#18197168)
We don't need social media...or software to live happy lives.
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by frio on Thursday October 11, 2018 @05:15PM (#18197097)
https://social.coop/about is just that :). Although I see they've killed their front page and closed registrations for a while.
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by icebraining on Thursday October 11, 2018 @08:02AM (#18192754)
I think that was the goal of App.net. It shut down last year.
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by reitanqild on Thursday October 11, 2018 @08:18AM (#18192838)
I had to look that up. I thought that app.net (despite the name) was a twitter clone except that you could write somewhat bigger messages and had to pay for it.

Searched for it on ddg and here is what the excerpt from Wikipedia says: "App.net was an ad-free online social networking service and microblogging service which enabled its users to write messages of up to 256 characters."

Turns out that they did a lot of stuff later that I would have liked but by then I was probably using WhatsApp.

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by decasia on Thursday October 11, 2018 @09:41AM (#18193421)
A cautionary tale for sure.

My thought is that something new would need to not replicate the UX of existing social software, but would need to think of better alternatives. Competing with existing giants on their own terms, but with a different business model, is a hard sell, probably too hard.

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by mackrevinack on Thursday October 11, 2018 @09:46AM (#18193469)
if the SafeNetwork ever gets released we could easily have things like that. with monetisation being built in it will be fairly frictionless for poeple to pay or for an app or service to take a micropayment any time you use it.

so if getting more users means getting more money, then the focus could be just on making the best service possible instead of focusing on ads and tracking to keep things running

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by pdog on Thursday October 11, 2018 @09:59AM (#18193554)
Why charge users at all? Social software could be funded entirely by voluntary donations or a small foundation.
Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by decasia on Thursday October 11, 2018 @10:05AM (#18193624)
It's a good question. I guess I would say that in my limited experience, co-operatives that fund by providing products and services (food, housing) seem to accumulate less organizational bloat and overhead, because their continued funding is directly coupled to providing a good user experience.

But in foundations and donation-based nonprofits, what you see is that they become organizationally focused on chasing donations, they have more and more irritating "please donate to us" fundraising staff, they may have to bend their mission towards whatever can please the local philanthropists, and they sometimes end up seeming more worried about organizational survival (via procuring money) than with whatever their mission is supposed to be. Another way of putting this is that it seems pretty hard to make voluntary donations provide stability, and organizations like stability.

I'm open to having my mind changed about this, but it seems to me that it creates some major new organizational failure modes when you decouple the mission from the source of revenue.

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by Jaruzel on Thursday October 11, 2018 @10:55AM (#18194015)
Based on how often Wikipedia runs banners asking for donations, I'm not sure the 'voluntary donation' model actually works.

The plain truth of it is that most people[1] want their internet fix for free, and are prepared to expose all manner of personal information in order for it to STAY free. The moment Facebook actually starts charging for features, people will start to jump ship en-mass to the next free social platform.

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[1] Us lot on HN are not 'most people'.

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by Loughla on Thursday October 11, 2018 @11:13AM (#18194151)
I would argue that people are only willing to share all manner of personal data for free because they don't actually understand what is out there about them.

I live where HN has absolutely no audience, think middle of nowhere midwest. And I can 100% say that not one person I talk to has any idea what data is available about them, for sale, right now. They don't even understand why it's important to know what permissions your apps on your phone ask for.

I think if tech folks made an effort to get people to understand, in language they can access, what data is out there, we would see a massive (attempt at a) shift in how people use the internet

Edit: Proof of what I say, that i just remembered. My father is extremely right wing, pro-Trump. He was told, by whatever 'news' agency he happens to listen to on AM radio (Maybe Laura Ingram?) that Facebook was doing awful things and they explained, in the most basic terms, what kind of data Facebook may have on you. So father dear deleted his Facebook account.

And opened an Instagram.

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by detaro on Thursday October 11, 2018 @11:08AM (#18194109)
Wikipedia has and spends a lot of money though. 250+ employees, $50+ million yearly expenses, $10+ million yearly profits.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikimedia_Foundation#Financial...

Re:Delete Your Account Now: A Conversation with Jaron Lanier by wsy on Thursday October 11, 2018 @11:28AM (#18194291)
1) It would validate the approach. If somebody is not willing to pay $1 per month, the value of the service for them is obviously too low.

2) it would make abuse much harder: registering 1M fake users becomes costly, and the payment leaves a track to a real credit card.