The fact that DRAM older than a few years is effectively immune to RH suggests it is possible to manufacture such. Yes, it will cost more, but I think many would be willing to pay for it like they used to, for none other than the assurance of having more reliable memory.
https://arstechnica.com/information-technology/2016/03/once-...
ECC helps, and can be done at full rate, but isn't a complete solution for all possible problems. And anything you do in hardware at full RAM speed is expensive.
Also, DDR3/4 DRAM is glacially slow in latency terms, it's far from clear that there would be appreciable slowdown. There are already big latency compromises in the standardized JEDEC protocols that are not inherent in DRAM - it would be very two-faced for DRAM vendors to say they'll only trade off latency over backward compatibility or tiny cost savings, but not over correctness.