This is far away from "hardware fix is impossible" though. In reputable hardware, hardware vendors are expected to maintain correctness in spite of performance advances.

Also, DDR3/4 DRAM is glacially slow in latency terms, it's far from clear that there would be appreciable slowdown. There are already big latency compromises in the standardized JEDEC protocols that are not inherent in DRAM - it would be very two-faced for DRAM vendors to say they'll only trade off latency over backward compatibility or tiny cost savings, but not over correctness.