The happiest I've ever been

Re:The happiest I've ever been by anal_reactor on Saturday February 28, 2026 @06:42PM (#47201784)

The problem though is that relationships with others are risky. When I look at my social circle about half of my friends express some kind of regret related to their marriages. Call me an entitled prick, but I honestly believe that 90% of people are liquid crap. I realized that in order to have a good social life I need to filter very hard who I hang out with. Even if I could reproduce by budding, this is not an environment I want my kids to grow up in. "Dad, why did you make me into a world full of normies?"

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Re:The happiest I've ever been by Aurornis on Saturday February 28, 2026 @07:02PM (#47201972)

> When I look at my social circle about half of my friends express some kind of regret related to their marriages. Call me an entitled prick, but I honestly believe that 90% of people are liquid crap. I realized that in order to have a good social life I need to filter very hard who I hang out with.

Candidly, if half of your friends are in regretful marriages and 90% of the people you encounter are "crap" then I would be questioning your social filtering.

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Re:The happiest I've ever been by throwaway290 on Saturday February 28, 2026 @08:33PM (#47202675)

From experience I think 90% of people are really liquid crap. filtering can get it down to 50% or less but it also means you are WAY more lonely

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Re:The happiest I've ever been by N_Lens on Saturday February 28, 2026 @11:16PM (#47203646)

There’s an old saying regarding what you’re saying.

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Re:The happiest I've ever been by anal_reactor on Sunday March 01, 2026 @01:26AM (#47204210)

Higher social classes have always despised the lower ones. Imagine going to ancient Rome and saying that slaves should be given full citizenship and treated as equals.

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Re:The happiest I've ever been by throwaway290 on Sunday March 01, 2026 @10:45AM (#47207738)

"liquid crap" is obviously exageration but if you take a truly random slice of population 90% will be any combination of not interesting/not a nice person/hidden agenda or want to exploit you/have crazy views/...

many of them are higher class than me. in absolute numbers it's more lower class simply because there are fewer rich people than poor people but take 5 truly random people of either high or low, I think you would agree with me that only 1 at best you would want something to do with.

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Re:The happiest I've ever been by anal_reactor on Sunday March 01, 2026 @12:12PM (#47208579)

In low socio-economic communities shit behaviors are more tolerated.

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Re:The happiest I've ever been by throwaway290 on Monday March 02, 2026 @02:39AM (#47214948)

Disagree. I think it's about the same

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Re:The happiest I've ever been by eastbound on Saturday February 28, 2026 @10:41PM (#47203459)

Did you just try to illustrate his point? Not emphasizing with someone’s difficulty and trying to turn his difficulty into a flaw of his character is a good example of how society is destructuring itself.

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Re:The happiest I've ever been by popalchemist on Saturday February 28, 2026 @08:04PM (#47202465)

The world is always full of danger. This moment in time is exceptional only in the form of that danger, not in its substance.

When those of us with noble traits -- intelligence, empathy, morality and so on -- refuse to reproduce, we do so at the cost of allowing the OTHERS who lack those traits to make up a larger and larger percentage of the population. They WILL reproduce.

Food for thought.

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Re:The happiest I've ever been by rixed on Sunday March 01, 2026 @12:24AM (#47203979)

Are we back to the beliefs into inherited nobility already?

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Re:The happiest I've ever been by johnmaguire on Sunday March 01, 2026 @01:56AM (#47204348)

This could also be read as a take on the nurture aspect of childrearing.

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Re:The happiest I've ever been by anal_reactor on Sunday March 01, 2026 @01:36AM (#47204256)

There are things that aren't true but the wider society must believe to be true in order to maintain social order. Think of religion for example. "We are all equal" is also one of those things.

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Re:The happiest I've ever been by popalchemist on Sunday March 01, 2026 @03:19PM (#47210271)

It is literally just game theory. If you don't act, others still will. Multiply that times 8 billion and you have an evolutionary process that rewards the dumbest amongst us.

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Re:The happiest I've ever been by littlexsparkee on Sunday March 01, 2026 @03:25AM (#47204803)

So just teach those traits to other people? You don't need to have kids to help.

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Re:The happiest I've ever been by popalchemist on Sunday March 01, 2026 @03:20PM (#47210277)

Yes, that is possible, and I didn't claim that having kids is the only way to influence humanity... obviously.

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Re:The happiest I've ever been by jimbokun on Saturday February 28, 2026 @11:56PM (#47203858)

Let me guess: you are somehow NOT part of the “liquid crap” category?

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