Which is understandable in many cases if the family actually needs the money before someone goes to college.
In general, something that happens at scale and consistently is not an individual problem.
You have whole armies of very well funded designers of things like processed food, or games, working to deliberate find the faults in human brains, and to make politicians make the laws that lets them do it legally, and you say it's the fault of the individual that falls for it?
I hope you can see how this kind of argument on themselves don't make anyone extend their perspective if no one challenge its own preconceptions.
But seriously, mental illness exists. Other sorts of things affect the brain - hormones, cancers, dementia, injuries, etc. Some things really are completely out of your control and no amount of "personal responsibility" is gonna get you out of them nor avoid them.