I know this struggle, and the best I've been able to do is to push every time for limited scope. Let's just get pizzas instead of cooking 3 different mains and having a cheese plate, 4 bowls of chips, etc. Social media has really done a number on people (see also those omnipresent balloon arches)
Cleaning your house before a party is a reasonable ask.
Re:The Death of Partying in the USA
by bluefirebrand on Saturday July 12, 2025 @05:46PM
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It reallllllly depends on how dirty the place is
Why clean it thoroughly both before and after a big party? Why not just after?
I’m like here’s a giant thing of ice cold booze have fun.