IMO people freak out about spam way too much. I'd rather have something that works with occasional spam than have to put up with the insanity of modern IM. Having push notifications from 10 proprietary IM apps is worse spam than a couple of emails a day from some retard trying to get me to download a "pdf." I don't block spam at all in my personal email (although I have a couple of tools automatically label it.) I'd rather have everything delivered.
I got spam to postmaster once for some reason. That's a nice way to make admins aware of your spam campaign.
Spam is presumably more of a problem when you're more well-known and you don't have the option to control your own filters.
Other than that it looks like I get like 4 spams per week.
Mind, i don't publish my email anywhere. If you look at my profile on here you'll get a gmail address.
So I would say it's a low priority feature in the backlog.
Edit: Also this wasn’t about collecting phone numbers, but about providing one for your business if you host a publically accessible site
You see, most EU countries decided some time ago that allowing people to own mobile numbers without a background check was simply too dangerous. What if someone used a burner phone to commit fraud, or worse — say something mildly controversial on the internet? To prevent such dystopian chaos, SIM registration laws were born. Now, whenever you purchase a SIM card in France, Germany, Spain, or pretty much anywhere with croissants, you have to offer your passport, soul, and, ideally, a letter of recommendation from your local constable.-
The result? Your phone number in the EU is no longer just a string of digits—it’s basically your name, address, and social security number all rolled into one. It’s like a little snitch in your pocket, ready to identify you at the first sign of online mischief. Online platforms know this. That’s why so many of them, from social networks to AI models, insist on a phone number. They’re not just trying to text you cute security codes — oh no, they’re trying to make sure there’s a warm, squishy, legally-recognizable human on the other end. Preferably one without too many fake Twitter accounts.-
Technically, GDPR is supposed to protect your data. That includes your phone number. But there’s a loophole the size of Luxembourg: if the phone number is used to stop terrorism, fraud, bots, or people being mean in the comments, then suddenly it’s all hands on deck. Platforms benefit from the comforting knowledge that EU phone numbers are like digital dog tags: traceable, trackable, and just annoying enough to prevent the average troll from spinning up 50 accounts to yell into the void.-
Of course, this all raises philosophical questions. Like: should your right to privacy hinge on your desire to play Candy Crush in peace? Is a SIM card a person? Could it run for European Parliament? And should we perhaps explore more civilized alternatives to this “one phone number equals one identity” system, like zero-knowledge proofs or just asking nicely?
In the meantime, welcome to the EU: where the cheese is soft, the bureaucracy is hard, and your SIM card knows more about you than your therapist.-
There are several countries that didn't buy into the madness of registering SIMs, luckily. Most strangely, the UK, the master of CCTV. Apparently they realized that it's a useless measure and will just anger the people.
Or at least via a proxy.
So contact invitation can just be handled with use-once codes (or at least trivially burnable ones).
1. Manually screen who can send you messages like Hey[^1] and Apple[^2]
2. Basic filtering to ensure the promotional stuff gets blocked or put in a separate list [^3]
3. Rate-limit senders who are showing robot like behaviour
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[^1]: https://www.hey.com/features/spam-corps/
[^2]: https://support.apple.com/en-il/guide/iphone/iph203ab0be4/io...