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Re:What do wealthy people buy, that ordinary people know not... by drewcoo on Sunday May 18, 2025 @03:04PM (#44023600)
And it would be heartless not to. Those housekeepers need jobs and incomes.
Re:What do wealthy people buy, that ordinary people know not... by mauvehaus on Sunday May 18, 2025 @05:29PM (#44024436)
Perhaps not exactly comparable, but I went to a talk at wlog REI from some relatively ordinary person who climbed some famous, but accessible peak (Kilimanjaro?). I asked about the practice of hiring local porters, and got basically this answer.

The local economy pretty much depends on the influx of foreign money from the people climbing. A fit person would be physically capable of carrying their full load, but it simply isn't done because of the economic disparity between the foreign climbers and the local porters. I don't know if that was enforced by law or custom, but the presenter was quite clear that it's not really possible to climb without local porters.

Re:What do wealthy people buy, that ordinary people know not... by normie3000 on Monday May 19, 2025 @02:33AM (#44027009)
On Kilimanjaro you must employ a guide, a cook for the guide, and a porter to carry the gear of the cook and the guide. You are welcome to carry your own gear but at this point you've already got a support team of 3 people and are paying $1500+. An extra porter is probably around $100.
Re:What do wealthy people buy, that ordinary people know not... by tuatoru on Sunday May 18, 2025 @05:29PM (#44024439)
I don't know why you are getting downvoted. Over the years I have heard several anecdotes from "expat" wives in various places (Kenya, Philippines, New Guinea) of being taken aside by a local headman soon after arrival and being told that they will hire a cook and a housekeeper and a laundrymaid.

On the mediocrity principle, I think this is how things worked in general. Necessary to the local economy.

Re:What do wealthy people buy, that ordinary people know not... by JohnBooty on Sunday May 18, 2025 @11:53PM (#44026389)
Yeah I think this is something that people in countries like the US don't instinctively understand, or at least I didn't.

My Filipino friend explained to me that back home, if you have more than a certain amount of money, it's seen as incredibly selfish not to employ people as housekeepers, etc.

I'd imagine that's true in a lot of places with income disparity and/or high unemployment numbers. It made a lot of sense to me.

Re:What do wealthy people buy, that ordinary people know not... by bombcar on Monday May 19, 2025 @01:42AM (#44026756)
We have that in the USA for some things - depending on where you live.

Some places if you’re the only house on the block who mows their own lawn, you’ll be considered stingy or weird.

Re:What do wealthy people buy, that ordinary people know not... by magicalhippo on Monday May 19, 2025 @03:15AM (#44027218)
My mom visited a professor in an African country a few years back, as part of a project.

She told me the professor had a guy employed to open and close the gates for when he drove to work and came home in the evening. That's all the guy did. Full time job.

Sounded so preposterous at first, but after thinking a wee bit I came to a similar conclusion that the alternatives might be a lot worse. It was steady income, albeit not a lot.

Re:What do wealthy people buy, that ordinary people know not... by lazyasciiart on Monday May 19, 2025 @04:10AM (#44027532)
I assume he also stayed actively present at the gates during the day and/or night and functioned as some kind of watchman?
Re:What do wealthy people buy, that ordinary people know not... by ricardobayes on Tuesday May 20, 2025 @07:11AM (#44040169)
Sounds like any gated community with a security guard post at the entrance.
Re:What do wealthy people buy, that ordinary people know not... by 47282847 on Monday May 19, 2025 @04:12AM (#44027544)
I understand where this is coming from but that argument simply doesn’t make sense. There are many ways to give back to society; providing low-status jobs is only one of them. And a poor one, because it locks people in that status and heteronomy. Within 10 minutes, anyone can come up with some ideas that would contribute to their development and growth in a more sustainable fashion.

It serves other purposes. That narrative is a convenient collective lie, full stop.

Re:What do wealthy people buy, that ordinary people know not... by rglullis on Monday May 19, 2025 @08:46AM (#44029273)
> And a poor one, because it locks people in that status and heteronomy

What is the current alternative? Are they any better?

When I was kid growing up (in Brazil), we had a live-in housekeeper. She moved to São Paulo from some poor rural area in the South of Brazil. As many people from poor rural areas, she was forced to drop out of school on 3rd grade to help her family.

If I remember it correctly, she was 21, 22 years old when she first moved in. The agreement was she would get minimum wage + regular benefits + free housing. She would work from ~7:30am until 3pm, get a break in the afternoon and then go to night school from 7 to 10pm. On weekends she was free, so she could either be out with her friends or coming along our weekend camping trips.

She worked with us for 5-6 years, finished school, moved out of our home when she got married. Had two daughters, the oldest one just finished college. I know all that because 30+ years later my mom and her still keep in touch.

Possibly stories like these are not the majority, but they were pretty common. Today, this would be unthinkable not because economic inequality has diminished, but because whatever we had that passed for "middle class" in Brazil got completely squeezed out by governments over the last 25 years.

Re:What do wealthy people buy, that ordinary people know not... by JohnBooty on Tuesday May 20, 2025 @10:30PM (#44047781)

    There are many ways to give back to society
Right, but ultimately what (nearly all) people want is frigging jobs. Or to be even more specific: steady, dependable income.

    because it locks people in that status and heteronomy
Yeah there's so many incorrect assumptions here.

I can tell you that here in the US, my somewhat upper middle class aunt used to clean homes part time. Husband was an engineer, she was a housewife, kids were away at school. Not the type of person with hobbies and such. Was a bit bored.

Not sure of the specifics but I think she pulled in a couple of grand a month cleaning. Pretty handy when you're putting two kids through college. Or so I thought. Thanks to you, today I learned it was all "a lie." ((giant eye roll))

It's not an uncommon side gig for bored suburban housewives. There are a few women in my middle class town that do it.

I don't think full time housekeeping, which seems more common in other countries, necessarily locks anybody into anything. Anecdotally I think it's a fairly common thing to do when getting an education. I also don't know that it's always low-paid, either, especially if it includes nanny duties etc.

Re:What do wealthy people buy, that ordinary people know not... by ryandrake on Monday May 19, 2025 @02:57PM (#44033452)
> Yeah I think this is something that people in countries like the US don't instinctively understand, or at least I didn't.

Guilty as charged. I have the American mentality due to being raised here, and I would be horrified to hire a housekeeper or servant. The "well, it's better than nothing" argument, while true, feels icky and exploitative. "Better than nothing" is a terrible bar and a sign of a broken society, and I personally just don't want to be part of continuing that brokenness. Totally understand if someone grew up in a different culture, they likely have a totally different view on it.

Re:What do wealthy people buy, that ordinary people know not... by rglullis on Monday May 19, 2025 @04:22PM (#44034390)
Does it feel "icky and exploitative" to you to use Über/DoorDash/TaskRabbit?
Re:What do wealthy people buy, that ordinary people know not... by ryandrake on Monday May 19, 2025 @06:31PM (#44035653)
Kind of. I don't do food delivery at all, and only hire uber/lyft when all other options are exhausted, and when I do, I at least I feel sufficiently bad about it. I would definitely feel "icky" hiring a personal shopper or hiring a chauffer to drive me everywhere.

And yea, I know there are other less visible areas in every product and service value chain where people are exploited and yet I am part of society. I don't have an answer or solution to this that is politically feasible.

Re:What do wealthy people buy, that ordinary people know not... by rglullis on Monday May 19, 2025 @08:55PM (#44036662)
> I would definitely feel "icky" hiring a personal shopper or hiring a chauffer to drive me everywhere.

Do you feel "icky" by going to a supermarket and having a cashier scanning your products? Do you feel "icky" by taking a taxi? How about by taking a public bus, train or plane?

Do you go to restaurants or bars? Do you feel "icky" about someone taking your order, cleaning up your table, pouring out drinks for you?

Do you have kids? Have you ever hired a babysitter? Do you feel "icky" about someone else being temporarily responsible for the well-being of your child?

> I know there are other less visible areas (...) where people are exploited and yet I am part of society. I don't have an answer or solution to this that is politically feasible.

I'm honestly more concerned about people who think that they should have "an answer to this" than all the exploitation that exists.

I can tell you what it's *not* the solution. Eliminating all sort of manual labor is *not* a solution. Eliminating manual labor will lead to even more isolation and atomized individuals. It will put us all in different bubbles and make us completely unable to relate to other people and it will make us even more susceptible to be defined by what we consume.

If you are part of a society, it will be better for everyone if you start participating in it. Instead of looking down on people whose work is not as valuable as yours (because that's what honestly your "feeling icky about it" seems to boil down to), look at these interactions as opportunities for mutual, voluntary help. If you think their work is worth more than what they are getting, tell them so and back it up with your generosity. There is no point in "feeling bad" about it.

Re:What do wealthy people buy, that ordinary people know not... by cess11 on Monday May 19, 2025 @02:22AM (#44026951)
Are all jobs and incomes alike?
Re:What do wealthy people buy, that ordinary people know not... by impossiblefork on Monday May 19, 2025 @03:57AM (#44027464)
It doesn't heartless.

You can, instead of paying for a housekeeper pay for machines etc. made in the country in question, thus creating technical jobs there that might develop people more than housekeeping does.

Re:What do wealthy people buy, that ordinary people know not... by bluGill on Monday May 19, 2025 @09:35AM (#44029714)
The machines are more expensive than the housekeeper and the housekeeper doesn't have the education to make them.

In the US (and Europe...) labor is expensive so it make sense to have technical people design machines.

Re:What do wealthy people buy, that ordinary people know not... by ta1243 on Monday May 19, 2025 @05:33AM (#44027952)
Personally I'd hate the lack of privacy