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Re:I am rich and have no idea what to do by naming_the_user on Thursday January 02, 2025 @07:10PM (#42580541)
As a young(ish) man with retirement level wealth personally I don't understand this primarily I suppose because my main passions in life are not profitable.

Great, so now I don't have to profitmax every single thing and can rely on my investments. That means I can study pottery, languages, learn about cars, guns, travel, spend time with my old mum, family, start a small business, whatever it is, without care for whether it contributes to the bottom line.

It kind of seems to me as if the poster here has some sort of savior complex - like they can't just be well off and enjoy it, they have to somehow change the world. That's not necessarily a bad thing, but at some point why not take time for you and yours?

I do however identify with the "it's not relatable" thing. If you live off of investments then suddenly you are, well, seperate, from people who can't, in a way that you can try to hide but it leaks out, you can't explain away being able to travel wherever whenever you want, etc.

Re:I am rich and have no idea what to do by wepple on Thursday January 02, 2025 @08:11PM (#42581046)
This is how interpreted the post. Listing “throwing parties” as one of your hobbies shows they don’t really have deep passion curiosities like the things you listed can be.
Re:I am rich and have no idea what to do by fragmede on Thursday January 02, 2025 @08:39PM (#42581242)
Your parties must not be any good. People have entire careers just organizing events like weddings and corporate conferences. You can or as little or as much effort into throwing parties as you can pottery or any of the other things listed.
Re:I am rich and have no idea what to do by peterldowns on Thursday January 02, 2025 @08:12PM (#42581051)
Congratulations on having a level head on your shoulders. Sincerely, I hope you have a nice life :)
Re:I am rich and have no idea what to do by naming_the_user on Thursday January 02, 2025 @08:35PM (#42581209)
Thank you! I try! You too!
Re:I am rich and have no idea what to do by RonaldDump on Thursday January 02, 2025 @08:21PM (#42581114)
I sit in my mansion alone refreshing HN and 4chan all day.

It's not much but it passes the time. 50 years to go.

Re:I am rich and have no idea what to do by naming_the_user on Thursday January 02, 2025 @08:34PM (#42581196)
Do you also look at charts? I look at charts. Charts fun charts not fun. Line go up down.
Re:I am rich and have no idea what to do by RonaldDump on Thursday January 02, 2025 @08:46PM (#42581288)
How else would I know what mood to be in?
Re:I am rich and have no idea what to do by nick3443 on Friday January 03, 2025 @10:40AM (#42586563)
My soul mates right here.
Re:I am rich and have no idea what to do by teaearlgraycold on Thursday January 02, 2025 @08:47PM (#42581293)
Get friends?
Re:I am rich and have no idea what to do by FreePalestine1 on Thursday January 02, 2025 @08:53PM (#42581337)
Find a spouse
Re:I am rich and have no idea what to do by RonaldDump on Thursday January 02, 2025 @10:15PM (#42581948)
Sure, why don't I pop down to the spouse shop and pick one out from their extensive range?

There are almost no marriageable women around these days. Having $ does make getting laid very easy, but I'm not interested in that. Unfortunately it doesn't help at all in finding one of the good ones (perhaps it makes it even harder).

Re:I am rich and have no idea what to do by FreePalestine1 on Thursday January 02, 2025 @11:22PM (#42582399)
> There are almost no marriageable women around these days.

Would be interested to hear your definition of marriageable women and why there aren't any in your circles.

As an Arab Muslim, my POV is very different.

Re:I am rich and have no idea what to do by tennisflyi on Thursday January 02, 2025 @11:29PM (#42582436)
You just don’t want to signal you’re a provider. Weird hangup a lot of tech guys have
Re:I am rich and have no idea what to do by Trasmatta on Thursday January 02, 2025 @10:39PM (#42582126)
> marriageable women

What does that even mean?

Re:I am rich and have no idea what to do by BoingBoomTschak on Friday January 03, 2025 @05:44PM (#42590289)
If I guess his views correctly and mix them with mine: women with an exemplary life hygiene - maintaining a near perfect body, no addiction or unhealthy obsession of any sort (tobacco, alcohol, drugs, TV, social medias, smartphones, travels, pets, etc...), chaste compared to nowadays' standard libertinage - intelligent and cultured (and I'm not talking about pop culture).

Basically no one, then.

Re:I am rich and have no idea what to do by bobsmooth on Friday January 03, 2025 @12:51AM (#42582917)
Be Gatsby and host extravagant parties to hide your loneliness. At least that's what I'd do.
Re:I am rich and have no idea what to do by JansjoFromIkea on Thursday January 02, 2025 @08:24PM (#42581134)
tbh it sounds much more like he wants to be viewed as a saviour than actually improve anything significant to me.

"what I actually wanted was to look like Elon" feels like he's getting very close to grasping something fundamental about himself in a way that many similar dudes are incapable of doing.

Re:I am rich and have no idea what to do by fragmede on Thursday January 02, 2025 @08:42PM (#42581262)
> you can't explain away being able to travel wherever whenever you want

Just lie and say you work for an AI startup that's in stealth mode and that they're sending you there for a work retreat to bond with your coworkers. Few people in your life care that much about your job to dig deeper.

Re:I am rich and have no idea what to do by naming_the_user on Thursday January 02, 2025 @09:06PM (#42581433)
Sure, you can do that. That's what I mean by being unable to relate.

It's not like it's a one off "I took a couple of days off to build a table" or "I used my X weeks holiday to go to Thailand", all of your hobbies, interests, travel, museum visits, etc etc happen all of the time when most people around you are doing a 9 to 5.

"How was work today?" It wasn't, I don't work, I haven't worked for years, I can tell you about my entrepreneurship or my studying or whatever but then again, now you know I don't work.

That's at a lower level. If you have 50 million like the author then you may well have multiple homes or just live out of hotels if you choose to, it's constant.

Are you hiding all of that?

Re:I am rich and have no idea what to do by the_cat_kittles on Thursday January 02, 2025 @09:48PM (#42581752)
stop lying about being rich. its cowardly and self defeating
Re:I am rich and have no idea what to do by heresie-dabord on Friday January 03, 2025 @12:43AM (#42582883)
> the poster here has some sort of savior complex

It seems to be a problem with motivation and meaningfulness, not necessarily that he wants to save anyone. Or anything.