You can't dump everything to the soil and say "that's your problem now, nature. Cope!".
As opposed to eg 'wasting petrol', where the petrol really is gone afterwards. At least it has been chemically transformed.
Nature couldn't care less. Nature works on much larger timescales than humans. It's the humans that are impacted.
Just like climate change, plastic, and all other environmental issues -- humans are paying (or will pay) the price, not nature.
If your waste water isn't treated, and is discharged to water ways as-is, the more water you use, the more dilute your pollution.
If you've got a septic system, I dunno? Probably doesn't help, but if your system is well sized, no big deal? Some of your outflow probably recharges aquifers, so it's kind of circular (although a lot of the outflow evaporates, so less directly circular there)
It's easier to process per litre, but it is easier to process in absolute numbers?
When they dilute at the treatment plant, they can use somewhat dirtier clean water.