Re:ADHD headband treats symptoms in 20 minutes per day
by varispeed on Thursday September 19, 2024 @08:56AM
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Now that's some gaslighting here.
These products give false hope and are triggering for people susceptible for it which leads to abuse.
Re:ADHD headband treats symptoms in 20 minutes per day
by rendx on Thursday September 19, 2024 @05:21PM
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Can you explain what do you mean by "gaslighting" in this context? We seem to have a different understanding of what that term means?
Re:ADHD headband treats symptoms in 20 minutes per day
by varispeed on Friday September 20, 2024 @04:03AM
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Gaslighting is when someone manipulates you into questioning your own perception or reality. By dismissing the concern, minimising the abuse, and subtly shifting blame, you're continuing to do just that - making me question whether the emotional manipulation described is valid, which is exactly what gaslighting is.
Re:ADHD headband treats symptoms in 20 minutes per day
by rendx on Friday September 20, 2024 @12:15PM
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You are mistaken. Gaslighting is not simply someone sharing a different perspective than you. It requires an ongoing relationship and an orchestration. By using the term for simple situations like this, you are minimizing what actual gaslighting entails, and how destructive it can be for someone's psyche.
https://time.com/6262891/psychology-terms-misused-gaslightin...
How are you reading my comment as something where I make you doubt your perception? Can we not simply disagree, and share our different perspectives? Can we not hold different opinions about things, even concurrently, in our minds? I can unfold, and explain my position more, if you're interested. This is a place of discussion, after all.
To label it "abuse" immediately is modern, but not necessarily the most beneficial perspective if you want to grow with each other. You may also not always be in the position to choose who you interact with (e.g. relatives). Then you can still work on why (and how) you would care about _their_ problem, and not make it yours. Seems to be a confusion here about who has the "condition"/problem?