In fact their decision is pretty mature and nice : they have enough to support the project costs but they don’t want the project to become their job and that’s exactly what money flowing over a hobby does : changing it to a job.
I think many have donated to Mozilla thinking they were donating to Firefox only to later realize donations never reach Firefox.
The Mozilla case shows why it's bad to not have transparency.
That signaled the last time I would ever donate to Wikipedia.
Still directly supporting the code running in the project. Balances out that people seem happier to donate to the UI/product layer than something like ffmpeg. Might be a bad example, but I’m sure some of their dependencies are underfunded.
Like others said, they're hobbyists providing a service in spare time. Asking them to be money managers is not a trivial ask.
May I ask which open source projects you maintain?
But as others have said, the hax office might not like it
(I also agree with various other reasons in other people's comments, most of all that this lets donors vote with their money on which third party projects that work on top of Jellyfin get the money, rather than Jellyfin having to decide which ones deserve what proportion of spare money.)
There are more deserving projects in the world than there is money. If you don't want to manage who gets the money directly (this could be called micromanage!) then something like united way which redonates to projects that you haven't heard of is probably a good use of your money. (United way is controversial and they do not support open source but they are still a good use of your money if you want to do the most good with the least thought)
Is a donation even if the other party is upset about it.
You have posted an observation about non-profit organizations and described a defining characteristic of donations that go to them. You have not given a defining characteristic of donations.
> This is how donations are SUPPOSED to work: contribute money towards a COMMON goal
You mean like shoring up the Jellyfin ecosystem?
> Donations are not free money.
Donations are free money. (When the donation is money; donated clothes are obviously not free money—they're free clothes.)
Why would anyone feel deceived?