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Re:Ikigai: What We Got Wrong and How to Find Meaning in Life by graemep on Thursday March 21, 2024 @09:46AM (#39778450)
This is hardly a novel idea in the rest of the world. It is an ancient one and widespread. It is discussed by many philosophers and is discussed in many religions.

It strikes me that westerners have lost the roots of their culture and are having to relearn it from elsewhere.

"ikigai doesn’t limit someone’s value in life to career and financial status"

Ancient Greek philosophers and their successors frequently discussed happiness and how to live life.

Assuming it is being explained correctly here, that is less anti-wealth than Christianity ("it is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle" etc) but similar in rejecting financial status.

Buddhism regards wealth as an attachment so I would have expected a slightly different attitude.

From middle eastern (possibly Hellenised) culture before Christianity read the book of Ecclesiastes.

"What does a man acquire from all his labor and from the anxiety that accompanies his toil on earth? For all day long his work produces pain and frustration,) and even at night his mind cannot relax! This also is futile! There is nothing better for people than to eat and drink, and to find enjoyment in their work."

Re:Ikigai: What We Got Wrong and How to Find Meaning in Life by Oioioioiio on Thursday March 21, 2024 @12:39PM (#39780927)
Thats a very hard simplification in a complex modern world.

A world like now never existed before: Millions of people living in cities were they are not able at all to live in nature or can't afford to move away or into the cities.

A world with high speed communication.

A world with unlimited possibilities.

A world were you grew up without ever having to learn were your water comes from and how your food is made.

The world doesn't need most of us, this was never the case in the past. I'm a smart person, i'm not needed because there are still enough even smarter people.

And regarding your quote of the Christians: They don't live it either or never lived. The dark ages produced a lot of christian focused 'art' full of gold.

And in the past, if you had any mental illness, you just might have been killed or put in shackles.

Re:Ikigai: What We Got Wrong and How to Find Meaning in Life by graemep on Thursday March 21, 2024 @02:43PM (#39782694)
So why were people considering these questions so long ago? It s not the modern world that is the only problem.

> And regarding your quote of the Christians: They don't live it either or never lived.

Lots of people have. Not everyone was perfect, but it was an aspiration, and there are whole traditions of monasticism and other service based on it. It is no accident that the word organisations that help others is derived from a Christian theological term, charity.

> The dark ages produced a lot of christian focused 'art' full of gold.

The dark ages were not dark.

Art is one of the things that contribute to the community, and its creation leads the artist to fulfilment. Public art (which is what religious art usually is) is the opposite of hoarding private art.

> A world with unlimited possibilities.

Very few people have access "unlimited possibilities". Financial constraints, legal constraints, personal constraints..

Re:Ikigai: What We Got Wrong and How to Find Meaning in Life by a_bonobo on Thursday March 21, 2024 @10:08PM (#39786755)
>Very few people have access

"Man is born free and everywhere is in chains" - as Rousseau said 300 years ago.

Re:Ikigai: What We Got Wrong and How to Find Meaning in Life by Oioioioiio on Monday March 25, 2024 @05:51AM (#39814297)
'Charity' or helping others exists in all other cultures too. Thats not inherentliy christian.

Nonetheless, ikigai is more than just what christians wanted. Ikigai means different things for different people and the zeitgeist and your cirumstances are having a big part in it.

Dark ages were dark in sense of we have not that many records of it, there were little change.

'Art' was stuck and pressured from church and others. Art became art after all the revolutionary ideas and probably achieved the proper unlimitness of art today.

Re:Ikigai: What We Got Wrong and How to Find Meaning in Life by hosh on Thursday March 21, 2024 @01:02PM (#39781273)
> Thats a very hard simplification in a complex modern world.

Although I think the issues are complex, I disagree that the complexity of the modern world itself leads to this.

One of the core features of modernization has to do with the substitution of local communities with regional and global institutions. That alone changed many things.

It also does not help that our civilization keeps making this mistake: https://www.ribbonfarm.com/2010/07/26/a-big-little-idea-call... ... that is, the effort by modern institutions to make sense of the world in a legible way leads to imposing simplification on the world. The world was already complex, even in pre-modern times.

> The world doesn't need most of us, this was never the case in the past. I'm a smart person, i'm not needed because there are still enough even smarter people.

If we take a person's worth as a _quantity_, sure. We can reduce every person into a set of stats, similar to D&D character sheets, and every person fits into roles based upon those stats. Those stats make things more legible.

Each person, however, has a _quality_, and it is here one's unique purpose and contribution can be discovered. I didn't learn this from ikigai specifically; as one of the comments talked about, some form of this was widely known in pre-modernized cultures. Carol Sanford has been writing, talking, and practicing this as applied to the modern world for decades.

There's also the work of Christopher Alexander. His writings and work convinced me that modernity did not have to be designed this way.

Re:Ikigai: What We Got Wrong and How to Find Meaning in Life by UncleOxidant on Thursday March 21, 2024 @01:22PM (#39781593)
I don't think that Oioioioiio was saying that each person doesn't have intrinsic worth (quality, as you put it), more like that each of us has such a small piece of the puzzle now. In the past if you lost a community member who had critical knowledge and skills it would endanger the survival of the community. Now there aren't a lot of communities where that would be the case.
Re:Ikigai: What We Got Wrong and How to Find Meaning in Life by hosh on Thursday March 21, 2024 @02:52PM (#39782810)
I wasn't talking about intrinsic worth at all. That kind of framing is still looking at things in terms of quantity rather than quality. I'm talking about the difference in the very worldview and paradigm. I am certainly not just talking about the material production someone can contribute.

The unique contribution someone can make isn't necessarily about the survival of the community. When I say unique, it means once that person has passed, there will never be again that particular contribution -- at the very minimum, the environment, relationship, and moment is unique, as is the person. As such, the community also grows and changes over time, a living system as much as the individual people within the community are themselves living systems.

Re:Ikigai: What We Got Wrong and How to Find Meaning in Life by Oioioioiio on Monday March 25, 2024 @06:02AM (#39814359)
It doesn't help me to know that i do unique contribution by just existing.

The existence in itself needs a reason.

Re:Ikigai: What We Got Wrong and How to Find Meaning in Life by hosh on Monday March 25, 2024 @04:54PM (#39821157)
I wasn't talking about a contribution from just existing. I'm talking about bringing the inner purpose seeded deep in oneself and lining it up with the outer world.
Re:Ikigai: What We Got Wrong and How to Find Meaning in Life by Oioioioiio on Tuesday March 26, 2024 @05:00AM (#39825603)
Just because something is unique doesn't mean it has value.

Nonetheless its hard to follow your thought, perhaps you could elabore it more?

Re:Ikigai: What We Got Wrong and How to Find Meaning in Life by UncleOxidant on Thursday March 21, 2024 @01:12PM (#39781433)
> And regarding your quote of the Christians: They don't live it either or never lived. The dark ages produced a lot of christian focused 'art' full of gold.

There have always been Christians who at least tried to live it. They're in the minority and they weren't and aren't the ones you hear much about (or from) but that's kind of the point.

Re:Ikigai: What We Got Wrong and How to Find Meaning in Life by woliveirajr on Thursday March 21, 2024 @04:07PM (#39783754)
> The world doesn't need most of us

Perfect. It isn't even a matter of being replaceable: it's just that so many people might die, anywhere in the world, and you don't even notice it.

Re:Ikigai: What We Got Wrong and How to Find Meaning in Life by nathan_compton on Thursday March 21, 2024 @05:15PM (#39784504)
The world has never needed us, in my opinion. Other human beings may find you useful, love you, whatever, and you may find some kind justification for your own existence, but the world itself has never cared about people.
Re:Ikigai: What We Got Wrong and How to Find Meaning in Life by mihaic on Thursday March 21, 2024 @10:42AM (#39779058)
Sometimes truths have to come from the outside for them to be accepted by the closed minded.

As the Enlightenment already absorbed eastern concepts into the western plane to some degree already (see the roots in Hume for instance), the relationship of westerners with eastern concepts as like hiring a consultant to tell you all the things that your employees were already saying, but which were ignored since they were merely grunts.

Re:Ikigai: What We Got Wrong and How to Find Meaning in Life by geye1234 on Thursday March 21, 2024 @04:32PM (#39784008)
Is the history of the Enlightenment's link with eastern concepts documented anywhere?

Clearly Hume uses eastern concepts ("I" am just a bundle of thoughts; causality is just a projection; etc). And the anti-Aristotelianism of the Enlightenment (hostility to concepts such as substantial form) could be seen as eastern too. I'm not sure if this history has ever been documented though.

The Enlightenment is seen as paradigmatically western, and in a way it is, and yet it tried to reject pretty much the entirety of western philosophy that came before it -- perhaps even under eastern influence.

Stuff is never simple, is it?

Re:Ikigai: What We Got Wrong and How to Find Meaning in Life by mihaic on Friday March 22, 2024 @02:55AM (#39788023)
Yeah, the story is always more complicated than what you generally hear.

I've never read about the eastern connection to the Enlightenment in any place, but lots of references pop up. A translation of the play Shakuntala by Kalidasa seems to have created a bit of stir for instance, even inspiring some of the structure in Faust by Goethe.

Re:Ikigai: What We Got Wrong and How to Find Meaning in Life by mistermann on Thursday March 21, 2024 @10:08AM (#39778703)
> This is hardly a novel idea in the rest of the world. It is an ancient one and widespread.

This (like so many other things) is a very ontologically tricky proposition due to the deceptive distinction between abstract and concrete "is-ness". It is true that at least one Human in each country possesses at least some knowledge of such things, but how well distributed is the knowledge? The so casually deployed symbol "is" makes no distinction, and Humans generally do not have the ability to consider such things.

Even weirder: Hard Whorfism "is" "false".

> It strikes me that westerners have lost the roots of their culture and are having to relearn it from elsewhere.

Absolutely agree....perhaps this is (at least in part) because we never learned in the first place (other than abstractly, and even there only for a small percentage of the population) the difference between abstract and concrete "reality", because such things are not taught in standard curriculum in school (see also: financial planning, how to be nice, categorization in general (ontology/taxonomy), etc).

I often wonder if all of the sub-optimalities in our "advanced, 'scientific' culture" are purely coincidences / oversights. That people seem to so reliably (in frequency, and form) have an innate and very strong aversion (a lot like how religious or anti-religious people get nervous/agitated if one is to call into question the truth of scripture) to discussing such matters in the context of concrete reality makes me more than a little suspicious.

Re:Ikigai: What We Got Wrong and How to Find Meaning in Life by divinie on Thursday March 21, 2024 @10:58AM (#39779297)
> a lot like how religious or anti-religious people get nervous/agitated if one is to call into question the truth.

You're recognizing the same bias. It's not that there are oversights so much as there are widespread ideas believed to be definitive. Rather than teaching people the "right ideas," at this point I feel it's critical that people learn how cognitive biases work, namely, authority bias. On the matter of beliefs, Crony Beliefs is a gem https://meltingasphalt.com/crony-beliefs/

Re:Ikigai: What We Got Wrong and How to Find Meaning in Life by graemep on Thursday March 21, 2024 @11:41AM (#39779984)
I agree it is a problem, but I do not think teaching people about cognitive biases will solve it. It is very hard to apply it to yourself, and any kind of critical thinking is hard.

A lot of people will not even make the effort. The motivation comes from existing values and beliefs, which will have been subject to biases themselves!

Re:Ikigai: What We Got Wrong and How to Find Meaning in Life by divinie on Thursday March 21, 2024 @06:03PM (#39784963)
Not claiming this is ethical, but the biases can be used on the person to generate the motivation and emotional response to recognize that they don’t want to suffer from exploitation of the biases

As for the reason it would help the issue, if the person is not susceptible to these, they will not be susceptible to the industries, governments, teachers that exploit these. They’ll recognize it before falling for it.

As for the difficulty level, it could be made simple. They aren’t complex, they are just unknown

Re:Ikigai: What We Got Wrong and How to Find Meaning in Life by graemep on Thursday March 21, 2024 @02:54PM (#39782842)
> I often wonder if all of the sub-optimalities in our "advanced, 'scientific' culture" are purely coincidences / oversights. That people seem to so reliably (in frequency, and form) have an innate and very strong aversion (a lot like how religious or anti-religious people get nervous/agitated if one is to call into question the truth of scripture) to discussing such matters in the context of concrete reality makes me more than a little suspicious.

I think you are right, but I am not sure what the underlying problem is. I wonder whether there is a bit of cowardice there and a fear of where the line of thought will lead - not wanting to turn the stone over for fear of what you will find. Our scientific culture is afraid of facing facts.

Re:Ikigai: What We Got Wrong and How to Find Meaning in Life by mistermann on Friday March 22, 2024 @11:03AM (#39791420)
> but I am not sure what the underlying problem is.

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> Our scientific culture is afraid of facing facts.

You are getting very warm! ;)

Re:Ikigai: What We Got Wrong and How to Find Meaning in Life by FrustratedMonky on Thursday March 21, 2024 @11:52AM (#39780191)
Yes.

With all of these examples. The trick seems to be in 'how'. Everyone can read this article, or a Buddhist text, or some Stoic essays, and agree and think it would be a good idea.

The 'how' to get there, seems to be the gap.

Everyone agrees having 'purpose' is great. The 'how to find a purpose' is the problem. Not just intellectually 'decide on a purpose', but 'believe in a purpose'.

Re:Ikigai: What We Got Wrong and How to Find Meaning in Life by hosh on Thursday March 21, 2024 @01:13PM (#39781447)
There is no procedural method or recipe in which would lead to someone finding their purpose like that. This purpose isn't a purely objective and externalized thing. To do otherwise, it would be no different than partaking in one of those FB quizzes that would, based upon some input, spit out which Harry Potter House you belong to, or what kind of D&D class you have.

You have to take the time to allow yourself to be aware of what's going on within yourself, and what's going on in the community around you. This "awareness" isn't the same as collecting data, or constructing thoughts that interpret things. It's not an easy thing to convey, since many people will take what I'm saying here and turn it into yet another recipe. And if I then say, it's more like mindfulness meditation, then all sorts of ideas and interpretation gets added to that, making it far away from I'm saying here.

I'm not very articulate about this. But maybe Carol Sanford's _Regenerative Life_ would better able to convey just how to find your unique contribution to that which is greater than yourself.

Re:Ikigai: What We Got Wrong and How to Find Meaning in Life by chasd00 on Thursday March 21, 2024 @04:43PM (#39784150)
> The 'how to find a purpose' is the problem.

zen would say the harder you try the further away you'll be. You do have a purpose only as much as you don't. ..."sense" isn't the right word but it makes sense to me, it's more like just something you realize.

Re:Ikigai: What We Got Wrong and How to Find Meaning in Life by divinie on Thursday March 21, 2024 @07:15PM (#39785586)
For years I denied all self-help books for missing the "how" part of the equation, this is now my main focus. All things considered, even if you have the intentions, the goals, the how to, I feel that most people do not have the consistency of themselves or a clear enough mind free from changing moods to pursue a purpose. [Another major part is not knowing how to listen to or access the Intuition regularly].

For me something like looking at life from a constant meditation on your future self [Alex Harmozi] or Gurdjieff's Self-Remembering or Vigyan Bhairav Tantra: Meditation Technique No. 33 allows this kind of consistent clarity.

Re:Ikigai: What We Got Wrong and How to Find Meaning in Life by UncleOxidant on Thursday March 21, 2024 @01:08PM (#39781361)
Ecclesiastes, probably the first existential text that we have. In a lot of ways it seems really contemporary.
Re:Ikigai: What We Got Wrong and How to Find Meaning in Life by graemep on Thursday March 21, 2024 @02:50PM (#39782789)
There was a question some months ago on the Academic Bibical Reddit asking what religious text non-religious people there liked the most and it was by far the most popular with them.

I read a bit again recently because someone quoted part of what I quoted with regard to work and education, and it really does feel contemporary. That said, it is not that uncommon for ancient texts to feel relevant. I do not read a lot of ancient texts but one I did recently, pseudo-Xenophon's Constitution of the Athenians had several things, including a great passage about the rich and democracy.

There is a lovely reading of it by David Suchet that is on Youtube.

Re:Ikigai: What We Got Wrong and How to Find Meaning in Life by jmbwell on Thursday March 21, 2024 @01:26PM (#39781645)
Sure, but it's not like humans in all parts of the world haven't been proposing models for understanding happiness in some form or another since before the written word.

If it were possible to compare every model for happiness ever conceived, they'll likely have a few things in common. Mostly, they will propose factors that are familiar within a group's common frame of reference, those factors will address that group's common experiences and habits, and the formula will project a roadmap for making changes in those habits to realign the experiences with "happiness."

In other words, "we all tend to do one thing, but doing another is probably better, and it's easy to forget, so here's way to remember." If it's useful to anyone at all, it's of value. If it's useful to larger group, then a utilitarian might say it has greater value. But even the assessment of value is culturally-dependent, so it's kind of pointless to argue about the virtues of different models on the basis of their cultures of origin.

So of course different cultures present things differently. It doesn't have to mean anyone is losing the roots of their own culture. Foucault would argue that being anything other than a part of your own culture is impossible. Even if you reject your own culture, you're rejecting the culture you're a part of, and that becomes a part of that culture. You just can't _not_ be who you are, where you are, and a product of your experiences.

If the differences in habits among various cultures become more apparent in a direct comparison, that's mostly down to the different frames of reference that determine the signs and signifiers used to express and internalize the models. But within each culture, the mechanisms themselves are often fundamentally the same. We manage resources as a group, we figure out who's us and who's them, we defend the group against threats, and we generally aim to reproduce. Whatever else goes on, our culture is how we communicate among ourselves what to expect from each other as we all go about those activities. It gives us the language we use, which Pinkerton et al might go so far as to say shapes the very ideas we have about ourselves and each other, including our "secrets to happiness."

The point is, there are many models for understanding happiness. Some we know more about because they've established a large socio-economic footprint, like the major religions, and some are more academic thought experiments, like what the ancient greeks tended to get up to. Others are more directly products of and by their host culture. Ikigai is this. If people find it accessible and useful, that's nothing but great. Is it a very Japanese way of looking at it? Sure. Is it some innate universal truth and wisdom? I dunno, but I bet someone pushing that narrative has a book or a seminar to sell.

In any case, for most purposes, the meme is probably enough. Do what you can to do what you love, that you're good at, that helps you survive, that helps your group survive.

In "westerner" kindergarten, they simplify it even further: do only what is necessary, helpful, and/or kind. Don't even need a graduate philosophy degree for that.

Re:Ikigai: What We Got Wrong and How to Find Meaning in Life by MenhirMike on Thursday March 21, 2024 @04:37PM (#39784071)
> It strikes me that westerners have lost the roots of their culture and are having to relearn it from elsewhere.

Rome defeating Carthage was legitimately one of the worst things that ever happened in history.