In fact, I see a lot of people advocating for using centralized resolvers, and not even once have I seen a counter-argument in the form of DNSSEC validation being a problem.
Many recursive servers do validate DNSSEC, but disable it on a per-zone basis when validation failures happen and users start to complain.
tptacek raises an additional good point that DNSSEC does nothing to protect the last mile of a query. It also provides zero confidentiality.
dnscrypt was always a superior implementation, but saw little uptake because people blindly believed the DNSSEC propaganda.
If validation failures were that common, I would think I, working at a domain registrar and authoritative DNS provider, would hear about it. The last mile problem would be solved by DoT/DoH, no?
If anything is a “dead horse”, it’s dnscrypt. Are you claiming that DNSSEC is some sort of industry conspiracy?
Unfortunately the user experience for a DNSSEC signature failure is so bad, the only option if you run a large ISP or corporate network is to just use the answer you get anyway.