Tech Execs Who Raise Their Kids Tech-Free or Limit Their Screen Time

Re:Tech Execs Who Raise Their Kids Tech-Free or Limit Their ... by Sakos on Friday December 30, 2022 @02:28PM (#34188936)

I'm not sure any of us have figured it out. I grew up with the internet and video games. I was hopelessly addicted to Counterstrike for 15 years. I don't think kids should have complete (unsupervised) control over their own entertainment, but it's clear that strict limits aren't sufficient.

I think people have been looking at it from the wrong perspective and you hit the nail on the head. He was unprepared, yes, but... How exactly are we preparing our kids for the internet and video games? This is something we aren't talking or thinking about. Putting limits isn't enough. It's like forcing abstinence on kids without trying to teach them safe sex or about healthy relationships or character values. I think there should be some limits, but there also needs to be an effort to cultivate interests/skills/experiences outside of gaming.

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Re:Tech Execs Who Raise Their Kids Tech-Free or Limit Their ... by __turbobrew__ on Friday December 30, 2022 @02:52PM (#34189206)

I would recommend reading “Indistractible” by Nir Eyql if you are looking for more tools for this

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Re:Tech Execs Who Raise Their Kids Tech-Free or Limit Their ... by nonrandomstring on Friday December 30, 2022 @04:01PM (#34190039)

+1 for this. "Nir Eyal" btw. From excerpts, it's a very good guide with plenty of common sense psychology and practical advice.

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Re:Tech Execs Who Raise Their Kids Tech-Free or Limit Their ... by Sakos on Friday December 30, 2022 @05:52PM (#34191088)

Read a few pages and this looks useful, thanks.

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Re:Tech Execs Who Raise Their Kids Tech-Free or Limit Their ... by odessacubbage on Saturday December 31, 2022 @03:03PM (#34200177)

i really hope we reach a point where more parents play video games with their children, especially as a teammate rather than a hoverer. it seems like in most homes vidya is usually tolerated as a necessary carrot or a babysitter rather than something that is shared. kids learn from the people around them, this is why sportsmanship gets such heavy emphasis in junior sports leagues. we recognize that it is not enough for them to learn how to hit the ball, they need to learn how to be gracious competitors as well. imo this is equally true of games. if kids aren't given an example of what good habits & moderation look like, then why are we shocked if they emulate the grinders and the nolifers?

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