1. Take the most western-route to a traffic light, make a right, and then another right into the destination.
2. Take a more slightly eastern single-lane back road that puts me right out at the destination with still an immediate right onto the main road before getting there (danger factor in the single-lane aspect)
3. Take the most eastern route, make an unprotected left turn onto the main highway (often having to use the center median lane as a buffer for space), and then make another unprotected left into the destination.
Option 1 would show the most published crash data since it's a traffic-light intersection and is most busy by default, while I'd argue that it's also still the safest.
On the flip side, Apple Maps has led me to closed roads and routes that don't actually exist, while Google Maps has never done that.
No one solution will be perfect, as they don't have exactly the same goals.
This definitely isn't my experience. For me, Google consistently picks more dangerous routes even if they offer little to no time savings. The app consistently tries to kill me by doing things like routing me through crazy 5-way intersections when it could just as easily send me one street over for no additional time cost.
Most big cities publish data on their most dangerous intersections, so it's not like it should be an especially hard problem to fix.