> This whole things reads like slightly deranged red-pill nonsense, but this part... Is just gross.

Very likely you don't even know what "red-pill" actually is, nor who is or isn't. Gross rejection of reality and hiding a lack of life experience behind throwing out labels, is the true nonsense.

You can believe in and live in whatever reality you want, that doesn’t make it everyone else’s reality. I lurked around the red pill community for a while to understand what a good friend was talking about. Your comments have a lot in common with what I saw there.

I have several friends with ideas like yours, and they can’t or couldn’t figure out why they struggle with women so much, but they also reject any notion that it might be because of how they think about women and how that might manifest in their actions.

I'm not part of the "red-pill" community, stop spewing labels and trying to place them on people that you know nothing about it. Save the energy of your misplaced anger against the opposite sex and reality, so that you can fix your life and boss yourself around, not others. If you can't do that, feel free to seek professional help.

This "conversation is over", look in the mirror, then fume and fuss with the person that you see there.

Instead of spewing labels, ignorance on subjects you know nothing about, lurking, or trying to boss around those that you can't, save that energy to fix your life and get some control over yourself. If you can't do that, feel free to seek professional help.

This "conversation is over". If feeling the need to continue, look in the mirror, then fuss and fume with the person that you see there.

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