Except legally you can’t simply not take tour kids to school. Doing it in a “non anxious” way is a challenge

I most areas you can homeschool, which is whatever you and your kid want as long as they pass some tests and file some paperwork.

Which gives you way more ability to pass the anxieties. Cause then OP would be doing the teaching and choosing curriculum instead of coding. OP would also do motivating and asking questions still, much more of that actually.

In Europe you mostly can’t homeschool.

Hm the data for Greenland is wrong.

Like, apart from the whole Europe.

Europe isn't a monolith. Have you read through the notes for countries with more restrictive regulations, particularly the yellow and blue labels? With reasonable-enough provisions to ensure equivalency to the public school system, it seems like most countries permit homeschooling.

Germany and Sweden are not "the whole Europe"