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Re:Apple's director of machine learning resigns due to retur... by thefz on Sunday May 08, 2022 @07:23AM (#31303084)
Warning: Hot Take.

Not all jobs require you to form meaningful relationships with colleagues and those relationships can be kept at a distance.

I'd hate to have "friends" on the workplace.

Re:Apple's director of machine learning resigns due to retur... by gitfan86 on Sunday May 08, 2022 @07:32AM (#31303120)
Humans are complex.

I have met people who seem to have terrible marriages and seem to spend as much time away from home as possible due to that situation. I have also met people that enjoy working on group projects and enjoy building relationships through that process.

I've worked from home for most of the past 17 years and would never go back to 100%, but I also miss making friendships at times.

Re:Apple's director of machine learning resigns due to retur... by hackflip on Sunday May 08, 2022 @11:00AM (#31304684)
The best friendships I've made in adulthood are mostly ex-coworkers.
Re:Apple's director of machine learning resigns due to retur... by nchi3 on Sunday May 08, 2022 @08:45AM (#31303532)
Why? You'll spend a huge time of your life working, why is it not worth it to build relationships? You don't have to meet them in your free time to consider them friends.
Re:Apple's director of machine learning resigns due to retur... by paulryanrogers on Sunday May 08, 2022 @09:38AM (#31303857)
In the US you may have to change jobs frequently or accept pitiful raises. If your healthcare and social circle become too tied to one employer then leaving or being fired could be a huge change.

Building a professional network is important, and some bonding is natural, so I don't mean to discourage them. Though I do prefer seeking most social fulfillment through other means.

Re:Apple's director of machine learning resigns due to retur... by nchi3 on Sunday May 08, 2022 @10:39AM (#31304445)
I agree, but I'm not saying anyone should only have friends where they work, but rather that you can have both.

I don't live in the US, and almost all of my friends I meet on my free time are not through work, but I do have colleagues who I consider friends and it makes work a lot more enjoyable. That being said, there's only very few of them who I would be likely to keep in touch with if they or I quit.