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Re:The data are clear: The boys are not all right by javajosh on Thursday February 10, 2022 @12:31AM (#30282773)
>Women, on the other hand, haven't been given the same advertising on the American dream that men have

There is a documentary, "Born Rich" [0]. It's interviews with the children of very rich people, done by one of their peers. I noticed that in the film there is stark difference between the girls and the boys: the girls were all well adjusted, enjoying their wealth, happy, satisfied, seemingly well-aware of their good fortune; but for ALL the boys wealth meant having a full-blown existential crisis.

This is oblique support for your claim: the classic American dream for women results in being taken care of by a wealthy man in a nice house, maybe with kids, where even house duties become negligible if he's really rich. But men and boys are supposed to work, first at learning then finding something you like then getting good at it. Your work defines you in a very profound way - a profundity that is reflected in our last names. If you're a rich boy, it's like you've been denied an identity. (I recall one of the young men who, to save his sanity, disavowed his inheritance to take a job as an oil field worker. And he seemed the best adjusted of the boys.).

0 - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Born_Rich_(2003_film)

Re:The data are clear: The boys are not all right by rrrrrrrrrrrryan on Thursday February 10, 2022 @01:15AM (#30282970)
It's a uniquely American thing.

I studied abroad for a semester in England, and in one of the classes I took there the (Australian) professor asked us what socioeconomic class we thought we belonged to. It was a good university, but most of the British kids answered "working class." When he asked "Why?" they answered, "Because our parents work."

That always stuck with me. In England, the aristocracy is alive and well. They don't have to work, and they don't pretend to. They do live comfortably, but they're highly educated and reasonably well adjusted. They don't have to partake in the charade that they pulled themselves up by their own bootstraps, and they generally don't blow their family's fortune over a debauched decade in Vegas like their American counterparts either.

Re:The data are clear: The boys are not all right by odshoifsdhfs on Thursday February 10, 2022 @07:26AM (#30285170)
Isn't this because British people see class a bit differently? Like you can win the lottery but don't consider yourself upper class because you weren't born in the right family/attended the right schools/whatever? Same as you can be down to your last penny, but you are from the Duke's family or whatnot and still consider yourself upper class?

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_class_in_the_United_Kin...

Re:The data are clear: The boys are not all right by tonyedgecombe on Thursday February 10, 2022 @05:52AM (#30284592)
That must have been a former polytechnic. I'm willing to be most university students in the UK would say they are middle class. Oxbridge is full of the upper class (although that is slowly changing).
Re:The data are clear: The boys are not all right by MagnumOpus on Thursday February 10, 2022 @09:11AM (#30286196)
The definition of "middle class" in the UK is different... Unintuitively middle class denotes a social standing well into the top decile - members of the middle class would be typically educated with a graduate or professional degree, top-5% salary, multiple properties, children in private schools. (Whereas in the US, any white collar person - so basically half the population - is "middle class".)

Yes, the UK middle class is over-represented at Oxbridge, but the definition is so narrow that they are outnumbered by the lower classes - state school kids and other riff-raff constitute two-thirds of Oxbridge classes, especially outside the upper-class signal subjects like Classics.

Re:The data are clear: The boys are not all right by tonyedgecombe on Thursday February 10, 2022 @10:36AM (#30287614)
>top-5% salary

Well that's hardly the middle is it.

Re:The data are clear: The boys are not all right by PeterisP on Thursday February 10, 2022 @11:41PM (#30297072)
It's not the median but not intended to be - it is in the middle between the upper class (<1%) and the lower class, which used to be more than 90%; it's a description of all the professional jobs (doctors, lawyers, merchants) which are neither serf/farmer/servant/laborer nor the upper class.
Re:The data are clear: The boys are not all right by pcmoney on Thursday February 10, 2022 @02:00AM (#30283184)
They also haven’t invented or built anything meaningful in several hundred years…
Re:The data are clear: The boys are not all right by bodge5000 on Thursday February 10, 2022 @03:08AM (#30283536)
The English or rich kids?

If the former, it might be worth remembering that ARM, which many consider the be the next big leap in computing (there was a thread saying it just yesterday) is an English company. Of course I could give many more examples, the technology you're using to post this comment for one, but I think I've made my point.

If the latter, I imagine thats too generic a group to say

Re:The data are clear: The boys are not all right by pcmoney on Thursday February 10, 2022 @09:55AM (#30286933)
The aristocracy. The staleness at the top has made Europe globally weak and bordering on irrelevant. (Not that the US in its current trajectory is all that far behind)
Re:The data are clear: The boys are not all right by nicbou on Thursday February 10, 2022 @02:57AM (#30283487)
The Royal Society would disagree
Re:The data are clear: The boys are not all right by barbecue_sauce on Thursday February 10, 2022 @03:57AM (#30283847)
I think the Royal Society could probably be considered biased.
Re:The data are clear: The boys are not all right by disgruntledphd2 on Thursday February 10, 2022 @03:16AM (#30283591)
Except for the WWW, of course.
Re:The data are clear: The boys are not all right by biofox on Thursday February 10, 2022 @05:29AM (#30284454)
Wasn't Alan Turing English and middle class?
Re:The data are clear: The boys are not all right by vmception on Thursday February 10, 2022 @01:13AM (#30282961)
Well thats depressing, I saw a similar documentary that didnt really have anything stark across gender lines, but did show how some private high school students in NYC had trouble reconciling their circumstance with the public housing across the street. The most apt similarity being how one boy took his life after pushing the school administration to lower admission costs for needy.
Re:The data are clear: The boys are not all right by Lammy on Thursday February 10, 2022 @03:57AM (#30283845)
"A million one, a million two / A hundred more will never do" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0XCQNpjWmRE