Someone on HN many years ago recommended the book Learned Optimism saying that it changed their life. It did the same for me.
I can take a look and give that a read though.
I enjoy drinks too much on flights, would be better off without them.
Also it's kinda public space, occasionally with little kids - I'd prefer them not to be around alcohol.
Finally, having different areas of economy kinda solves this - half plane for young and ready to party, other half - for quiet and chill. Separate area for kids too. All of this is trivial to solve in booking software.
It took me a moment to avoid the typical criticism of “think of the children”.
This is the real world. People drink. People do drugs. People do a lot of things.
In my opinion putting blinders on your kid is bad parenting.
I really don’t care what kids see me do. Keep the drinks coming for me!
Having two drinks on the flight just means another 500cc of water, but yeah, skip rehydration after flying and you're going to have a bad time. Add booze, it will be a worse time.
I’ve only done it once but we sat on the runway for over an hour and I didn’t care at all.
The other time I was on the runway for awhile I had to take a spirit or southwest flight and that was awful.
I’m always so uncomfortable and I’m not even a big person, 5’11” and 200lbs.
The only thing that has ever made a flight decent besides first class was taking etizolam and being knocked out the whole way through the flight.