B) Many with experience with milk-generating livestock will cite that the feed has a meaningful effect on the flavor of the milk.
Why would human breast milk be the exception to both of those premises?
The real danger of alcohol for breastfeeding is that it can impair the mother’s ability to properly hold the child, among other things.
Obviously I don’t advocate drinking and nursing, but if mom does have a couple glasses of wine with dinner she shouldn’t be wracked with guilt if she has to nurse.
[1] https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1709087/?page=1
On the cruciferous vegetable thing, I can say that it is a real phenomenon at least for some babies in certain circumstances. One of our babies was particularly prone to gas, and we had a few horrible nights. Finally, after the worst night of crying we'd ever had, it dawned on us that my wife had eaten a salad with raw brussels sprouts and also eaten cooked brussels sprouts that night. Once she cut out the brussels sprouts and went easy on the broccoli, the problem mostly went away.
Whatever the chemical in brussels sprouts that causes gas is, evidently it is active at pretty low concentrations at least for certain babies.
We actually had some customers tell us later that they wouldn't have kept buying our milk due to the unpleasant flavor, except that they knew it was temporary.