Heck, I'm pretty sure I've gotten sales calls from them as well, though I never stay on the line long enough with those to be sure.
I use credit cards (in particular, an Apple Card) for almost every transaction. In fact, I seldom carry cash, which has been a problem, from time to time.
I won’t use Venmo, or PayPal with direct bank account connection. It has earned me scorn, but you really only need to have a problem once, to learn religion. I don’t use credit cards for Venmo or PayPal for cash transactions, because cash advance fees.
I always pay my account in full, every month. It also means I get Apple Cash, for a slush fund.
I do use direct bank account connection for a few things like utility bills, but that is a fairly primitive setup process, where there is no doubt about the other end. Even so, many outfits now allow bill pay, via credit card.
When I initiated a wire transfer, my bank did call me to confirm it.
What's worse, when I called back, I didn't reach the same department and it took half an hour to sort it through.
It was all legit, but was indistinguishable from a scam attempt.
It is not correct that banks will never call you in the US.