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Re:Parents of daughters are more likely to divorce than thos... by User23 on Saturday February 06, 2021 @11:59AM (#26047789)
I think people without sons may seriously underestimate the ingenuity, energy, and frequency with which boy toddlers attempt to kill, maim, or otherwise seriously injure themselves.
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Re:Parents of daughters are more likely to divorce than thos... by testfoobar on Saturday February 06, 2021 @04:02PM (#26049909)
Ha! I tried to explain this to parents who have only daughters. They would offer advice like "you need to give them more projects to do or you need to listen more to them." They would look on with a judging attitude as my sons would tear around playgrounds looking for sticks and rocks to arm their fort. Or they would play on the "outside" of playground structures. Imagine a 15 foot tall covered slide. They would climb on the outside of the slide - risking a serious fall.

I've already seen the tables turn. Parents with teenage daughters describe things that make me shudder. At least I now have the wisdom to not judge the parents.

It seems to me that the worst bullying behaviour that I hear in my social circle is perpetuated by teenage girls towards other teenage girls.

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Re:Parents of daughters are more likely to divorce than thos... by cycomanic on Saturday February 06, 2021 @04:34PM (#26050170)
I think there is a strong selection bias there as well, there's significant research showing how girls and boys are treated differently when getting into "dangerous" situations. It's been my experience as a father of 2 girls that they also love to climb on the outside of playground structures.

However what I see with a lot of the parents of other girls (compared to boys) is that they caution the girls a lot more and then they say my girls are so self-confident and "brave".

That is not to say that there is no difference between girls and boys, but you there are also huge variations between individuals as well, the way my two daughters are in their "wildness" is so different you would not guess they are siblings.

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Re:Parents of daughters are more likely to divorce than thos... by supergirl on Saturday February 06, 2021 @04:55PM (#26050354)
ye it is pretty f up how girls are treated. everything must be pink, all the toys are dolls, wear dresses and have long hair which make it harder to play. plus adults are much more friendly to girls. it all starts then.
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Re:Parents of daughters are more likely to divorce than thos... by da_big_ghey on Saturday February 06, 2021 @12:16PM (#26047968)
Even moreso with multiple sons close in age. Thinking about the trouble my brothers and I caused on our own versus in groups versus all together, there seems to be a superlinear growth in the amount of trouble a group of boys can cause.
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Re:Parents of daughters are more likely to divorce than thos... by toast0 on Saturday February 06, 2021 @05:40PM (#26050734)
Not just themselves, but those around them as well. The only defense is that they usually telegraph their headbutts, if you keep your eyes on them when they're within striking distance.
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Re:Parents of daughters are more likely to divorce than thos... by de_Selby on Saturday February 06, 2021 @12:10PM (#26047912)
I have a son who is a toddler right now, very well put - "ingenuity" made me laugh.
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