"Grinding leetcode" is a phrase for a reason!
Think about it: you are passing an exam. Why wouldn't you study the questions that you know are going to get asked?
It got even worse lately since every candidate does this, it raises the bar for the expected solution.
maybe the people you know there don't want to admit they spent some time studying questions? Maybe they bought into the cult of the "Google only hire the top 1%?" (which is very far from being the case).
FAANGs interview are the most predictable tech interview in the industry, why wouldn't you do it?
Looks like you got rejected and found a reason to attack everyone who works there. Like I said, this works both ways.
This is the exact attitude that makes people have terrible interview experience.
The vast majority of people who work at FAANG type companies do not do any of this.