That means that the "infinitely small" doesn't exist; "smallest apart from zero" doesn't exist either.
An infinitely small number is zero when projected onto the real number line. If you introduce an infinitesimal quantity to the reals, then for every number there is a unique real number to which that first number is infinitely close (that is, the difference between them is infinitesimal). You can use that real number as a (good) approximation of all the nonstandard numbers in its halo. (As long as you're comparing it to other real numbers.)
What does "infinitely small" mean?
> As in 1/∞ ?
What notion of division are we talking about here? The division most people expect is that of real numbers. ∞ is not a real number, so you'll have to specify what you mean.
Zero. Just zero. The difference is zero. 0. Because 0.999… = 1.
I think people intuitively see that infinitely zero equals zero.
If people accept the former, and that the RHS of the former is in fact 0, they've already also accepted that 0.999…=1. I don't see what the discussion is at that point
I don't have a direct computation for making the latter obvious, just indirect ones like 1 - 0.999... and 3 x 0.333...
How can they compute 1-0.999… when they clearly have no idea what 0.999… is?
Put 1.0 on top, 0.9 on the bottom. Start subtracting from left to right, and keep writing nines on the bottom as you go to the right. In no time you'll see that the answer is infinite zeros.
How do they know that that's a real number?