Yes you want to get sick, but the old fashion way. The way I think of it - if we get sick with healthcare services or without.
With healthcare services intact, I likely won’t know anyone who does from covid-19 (1/200, 50% infection rate, 1% fatality).
Without healthcare services I’m likely to know at least one person who’s died. (1/20, 50% infection rate, 10% fatality).
The more we flatten the smaller the denominator.
Nitpick: bigger (20 -> 200).
All of us getting sick in an orderly fashion has a huge benefit even if it turns out that’s the best we can do. But perhaps we flatten the curve for long enough we buy time for treatments to come online and to get closer to a vaccine.
Also, while a vaccine is far, medication might be nearer. So buying time is essential, beside not wasting that time.
But it’s a bit discouraging if this is the only benefit of flattening the curve. So we are all gonna get sick, but in an orderly fashion? And the mortality rate is unaffected?