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Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by aklemm on Monday December 09, 2019 @08:57AM (#21742621)
All this back-and-forth about whether and how it's nature or nurture. The point of modern gender freedom is not to deny there is a strong nature influence, it's to nurture kids to go whichever directions they like.

All these anecdotes about how this kid and that kid displayed common traditional gender preferences seem to be offered as an argument against trying to upset the traditional nature of these preferences. Sure, maybe only 5% of girls are ever going to want to race cars, but the idea is to make room those 5%, and that takes conscience effort.

Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by pbhjpbhj on Tuesday December 10, 2019 @09:00AM (#21752453)
That's the correct way to see things but it's contrary to public policies that say things like "there are less girls doing physics, so we're going to make quotas to get more girls doing physics". That's not supporting individual propensities at all.

Overwhelmingly the feminist position that's pushed to the fore is "any lack of equal representation of females in a roles that're desirable is down to patriarchal actions and unrelated to any natural differences between the sexes; which differences are an illusion".

Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by smush on Tuesday December 10, 2019 @09:26AM (#21752686)
Wow, parent comment and this one summing up what often turn into X000 comment flame wars that dang has to bag up and send out to the flag truck, now that is a feat of summarization.

> Overwhelmingly the feminist position that's pushed to the fore is "any lack of equal representation of females in a roles that're desirable is down to patriarchal actions and unrelated to any natural differences between the sexes; which differences are an illusion".

How do we as a society address this point? Whether one argues that the above statement has merit (me) or not, many people on both sides (and probably me in many cases) have such emotional investment in their points that attempting to soberly look at where society is and where society should be on the spectrum between 'the above statement is categorically true globally in 100% of cases' and 'the above statement is categorically false globally in 100% of cases' can feel to me like trying to do laproscopic open-heart brain surgery.

Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by dhshahsndeisjwn on Tuesday December 10, 2019 @09:40AM (#21752829)
I'd have more sympathy for critiques of feminism (and similar policies designed to help minorities) if even basic indices of equality like pay for equal work were fixed, and there wasn't clear evidence of discrimination on grounds of gender in interviewing, police treatment etc.
Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by pbhjpbhj on Tuesday December 10, 2019 @10:56AM (#21753591)
In the UK equal pay for equal work is a legal requirement, and many women have successfully sued for it.

"Equal pay" statistics here purposefully ignore choice of occupation. Also the equal pay stats show (or did last year, they're put out monthly) that even ignoring occupational variations women under 30 got almost the same pay as men, and indeed that men lag behind women in wages for part-time work. I strongly suspect of you discount upper management that you'd find wages very equal -- in which case it's primarily an issue of wealth gap, so not really about sexual disparities in the general population but about sexual disparities in the C-suite (still an issue if there are artificial barriers there based on sex) but it might be busy as hard to break in for someone of the wrong class as anything else.

Which might make harping on "equal pay" (which we have) move focus away from the primary factor of income disparity.

Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by kbutler on Tuesday December 10, 2019 @11:14AM (#21753798)
If you account for education, experience, and hours worked, equal pay for equal work is already here (or the pay gap is reversed for asian women).

Education and experience bring it to 98% parity overall, with asian women getting to 102% parity. https://www.payscale.com/data/gender-pay-gap

"job market forces and gender preferences in relation to marital status and parenthood could explain almost all of the pay gap. Most of the gap is not the result of gender discrimination" https://towardsdatascience.com/is-the-difference-in-work-hou...

"Because men tend to work more hours than women, especially if they are married, and even more if they are married parents, this could explain a large portion of the pay gap."

"As years pass, men accumulate more practice and training than women. The job market pays more if the worker has more experience. In other words, the gap widens as men acquire more experience than women."

Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by aklemm on Tuesday December 10, 2019 @01:29PM (#21755267)
Why do men choose to and why are they allowed to do all those things differently? The reason is gender roles, that’s part of the equal pay discussion. Probably the biggest part, in fact.

The “multi-variable” is no answer at all. Each of those variables is part of the discussion.

Seems like everybody has a comical view of the pay gap: a big fat cigar chomping man conspiring with his cronies to set low wages for women. It’s far more broad than that, so please get serious about those variables before trying to blow the whole thing off.

Starting point: how do we better make care work less gendered and pay appropriately?

Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by manfredo on Tuesday December 10, 2019 @05:12PM (#21757451)
> Why do men choose to and why are they allowed to do all those things differently? The reason is gender roles, that’s part of the equal pay discussion. Probably the biggest part, in fact.

The data says otherwise. Countries that are more egalitarian and have more equal gender roles (e.g. men doing more childcare and housework) actually see lower rates of women in fields like tech as compared to places like the Middle East and Indonesia with very strict gender roles.

This also plays out internally within countries. The United States had larger rates of women in tech during the 70s and early 80s, which saw stricter gender roles as compared to today. These rates of women in tech dropped during the 90s and 2000s during which time fields like law and medicine saw substantial growth in women's representation.

Making work less gendered and making pay non-discriminatory are two different discussions. The solution to the latter is straightforward: stop discriminating.

Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by kbutler on Tuesday December 10, 2019 @05:23PM (#21757538)
People (not just men) choose differently because they have different preferences and they are free to follow those preferences.

Saying the wage gap is because of "gender roles" is no answer at all - it suggests you should target the pay scale.

Multi-variable analysis is an attempt to piece out the answer. If the wage gap is $10, and the multi-variable analysis shows it is $2 education, $3 experience, and $5 career choice, then you can investigate why those factors differ, including possible effects of gender roles, without the specter of "gender discrimination in pay".

> Starting point: how do we better make care work less gendered and pay appropriately?

As with everything, either reduce the supply or increase the demand. As long as there is a sufficient supply of people willing and able to provide the service for a low price, the price will be low.

Remember that "price" is not a direct measure of "value". Air, water, and the first 1000 calories per day are incredibly valuable, but they are very inexpensive because there is excess supply.

For what it's worth, limiting supply and providing government subsidies is a great way to make things cost more - health care and the university education are prime examples. Note that these should be viewed as cautionary examples, not recommendations.

Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by mc32 on Tuesday December 10, 2019 @06:18PM (#21757903)
I wonder if any candidate for the democratic nomination would ever date to bring this view up for discussion.

My feeling is even bringing it up for discussion could be an automatic DQ, sadly.

I’m for pay equality, we all benefit, but I’m also for finding out what’s what.

Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by mcv on Tuesday December 10, 2019 @10:16AM (#21753206)
Exactly. While it's entirely possible and likely that some nature is involved, far too often that's taken as an excuse to actively exclude or discourage women in certain jobs, and that does make it patriarchal action holding women back. IF we can get rid of that and allow people to freely choose without getting judged by their gender (or ethnicity for that matter) on the way, and then it turns out people have different preferences, and that's totally fine. But we're not there yet.
Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by smush on Tuesday December 10, 2019 @09:47AM (#21752911)
In your opinion, is that viewpoint shared by a plurality or majority of what we can loosely define as the feminist crowd and adherents?

Admittedly, I don't have a big world-shattering new point to add or logical argument to segue to based on the results of the question, I'm just curious.

Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by pelliphant on Tuesday December 10, 2019 @10:34AM (#21753376)
I'm from sweden, and I would say that the answer is "yes" over here.

When actually talking to people that is, but if I instead looked at social media, tabloids and tv-talkshows, I would only find extremes.

Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by Symmetry on Tuesday December 10, 2019 @11:05AM (#21753712)
We have to be careful not to draw too strong a line between any differences in attitudes between the sexes and career choices. When the Hollywood stereotype of a programmer was a lab-coated professional working in a team on an idealistic project which runs amok then just as many women as men entered programming. When the stereotype shifted to a loan hacker in basement waging a solitary war against The Man gender ratios went lopsided. You can blame teenagers for being foolish in how they're affected by pop culture but it's more effort than most people expend to figure things out better at that age. And there is a real gender difference in that the archetype of the hacker is more appealing to men, but for the vast majority of programmers the old Hollywood stereotype is actually much more accurate.

So even if gender differences are in some sense causal in differential representation that doesn't mean that they're inevitable or that they're something we should just accept.

Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by kenforthewin on Tuesday December 10, 2019 @09:47AM (#21752910)
This take disingenuously ignores the fact that society has forced gender roles since the beginning. Policies like that aren't an attempt to disregard nature, they're an attempt to undo some of the damage that has been done by society.
Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by pbhjpbhj on Tuesday December 10, 2019 @10:58AM (#21753622)
Sexism now doesn't solve sexism in the past, it just adds more needless discrimination.
Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by cjblomqvist on Tuesday December 10, 2019 @11:52AM (#21754173)
I think this along with the two parent comments sums up the current challenge with feminism. Often things are made and optimized for the majority for natural reasons (efficiency). How do we the make (equal) room for the 5%? Equal rules tend to not create an equal environment, since it sure to natural reasons is skewed.

PS. As pointed out by another comment, there's of course a significant road we have to travel just to get to the baseline, like equal pay for equal work.

Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by Rerarom on Tuesday December 10, 2019 @07:59AM (#21752002)
> maybe only 5% of girls are ever going to want to race cars, but the idea is to make room those 5%

This is something that should be said more frequently, maybe packaged up in a catchy slogan, as it would enjoy nearly universal agreement. Whoever does that will end the culture war.

Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by atom-morgan on Tuesday December 10, 2019 @07:21AM (#21751770)
> The point of modern gender freedom is not to deny there is a strong nature influence,

Are you sure about that?

Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by aklemm on Tuesday December 10, 2019 @07:52AM (#21751938)
I hope so, but I'm more sure that claiming progressives are trying to deny nature altogether is a useful straw-man for detractors with evidence only from the fringes. But how could you and I be more sure of what's really going on?
Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by LanceH on Tuesday December 10, 2019 @08:31AM (#21752228)
Perhaps the progressive movement should dig a little deeper for "proof" that a mere difference in rates of participation. The mere fact more men do something seems to constitute both proof that there is systematic sexism and that those males who are over represented are sexist. It gets tiring.
Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by rtkwe on Tuesday December 10, 2019 @10:57AM (#21753606)
The problem is it's basically impossible to raise a kid free from acculturation about gender norms to get the best data on nature vs nurture, even if the home environment is set up to be neutral about gender roles they're going to interact with the outside world which still has a lot of gender bias in job roles.

My stance is if there is a natural preference it's probably slight and even if it isn't we should build a system that silos people into jobs because most people like them may prefer to do a particular thing.

Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by LanceH on Tuesday December 10, 2019 @11:06AM (#21753727)
It's not just about denying nature, but denying all the choices along the way by so many parties. You see something like, Company XYZ hires 2/3's men for something. They are called sexist, the people working there are sexist, it is a hostile work environment, etc... and it's the 2/3's number that is offered as "proof".

Further, just proposing that nature is the cause can get a person fired.

My stance is that lack of proof is being met with lack of proof by a group that is tired of being the target of constant accusations.

Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by mhuffman on Wednesday December 11, 2019 @10:22AM (#21763207)
> Perhaps the progressive movement should dig a little deeper for "proof" that a mere difference in rates of participation.

This is the basis of "critical X theory", the new non-scientific, default theory for all of society's woes! So if there are any differences between two groups of people, it is assumed from the outset that there is a systematic (evil!) force causing that difference, typically to the detriment of a (perceived, in the case of women) minority group!

So, for example, if there are more men in high-paying jobs, regardless of what the job is, that is Prima facie evidence of current systematic sexism against women to keep them out.

Same with the fact that there are higher rates of Black people in prison, or lower standardized test scores for Black children are, in themselves, proof that there is current systematic racial bias against them by White people.

This has resulted in incredible "solutions" from adherents to this type of theory to this, such as The Progressive Stack, in classrooms[2]

It is noteworthy, that this does not go the other way around! So, for example, the fact that such a small rate of East Asians are in prison, or higher rates of high salaries, or higher standardized test scores, are not evidence of pro-East-Asian bias, it is simply accepted as a combination of nature and nurture that works out for them! However, the fact that a small percentage of East Asians are represented in film and TV, is taken as evidence of coordinated, systemic bias to keep them out.

[1] https://plato.stanford.edu/entries/critical-theory/

[2] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Progressive_stack

Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by isolli on Monday December 09, 2019 @12:36PM (#21744540)
Agreed. You could make a similar point about race when it comes to sport abilities. It would be horrific to offer sports activities to children based on race, even though, in effect, some children will have a much smaller chance of becoming professionals at some sports than others. But let's never discourage a kid who wants to try whatever he or she likes!
Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by pbhjpbhj on Tuesday December 10, 2019 @09:03AM (#21752472)
>some children will have a much smaller chance of becoming professionals //

But not directly because of their race (except as much as racism applies).

Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by RaceWon on Tuesday December 10, 2019 @10:56AM (#21753593)
>Sure, maybe only 5% of girls are ever going to want to race cars, but the idea is to make room those 5%,

I love gals who race. I once had a female instuctor who was wickedly accurate in forumla ford; Molly could consistently put half the tire off the pavement without dropping it into the dirt, no mean feat that. Females are perhaps better suited to some forms of Motor sport than men are--they can be truly topline drag racers.

I don't necessarily agree with conscious effort sentiment however. Race drivers do Not discriminate against females on the track--we Hate every other competitor equally...it does not matter your race, creed nor gender.

Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by Pigo on Tuesday December 10, 2019 @09:22AM (#21752643)
Anybody that is not making room for girls to play with race cars, if they want, was is a jerk in the past, present, and future. Unless they are Betty Draper, I can't imagine a parent that would take a toy away from their kid.
Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by dhshahsndeisjwn on Tuesday December 10, 2019 @09:42AM (#21752865)
Except that many girls are made to feel abnormal for expressing an interest in stereotypically male activities (as are boys in reverse).

The key is to acknowledge first that our society is incredibly gendered (and racist) in ways we often oblivious to.

Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by magduf on Tuesday December 10, 2019 @11:18AM (#21753813)
I think that, these days, in western countries, it's much worse for boys. Girls are still actively shamed for stereotypically male activities within extremely conservative and religious groups, but outside that, there's been a big push to get girls interested in "male" things.

The same is absolutely not true for boys. Just look at what happens to a little boy if he decides he wants to wear girls' clothes or play with dolls. Whereas a girl wearing pants and playing with trucks will, at worst, be called a tomboy.

Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by chongli on Tuesday December 10, 2019 @11:54AM (#21754195)
Except that many girls are made to feel abnormal

How much of that is due to the efforts of men or boys? Or how much is due to bullying by other girls in middle school and high school?

As far as I can tell, schools have put in enormous effort to stop boys from fighting each other. I can’t find much evidence of their efforts to stop girls from bullying each other by spreading rumours. Girls are highly susceptible to peer pressure, particularly from other girls.

Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by Pigo on Tuesday December 10, 2019 @09:59AM (#21753046)
I've never studied parenting across the country, and I acknowledge that there are definitely cultures around the world where women are treated like property, but I've never witnessed a parent enforcing some gender stereotype for toys. It's hard to imagine a parent even caring what toy a kid is playing with, unless they are hurting someone.
Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by brazzy on Tuesday December 10, 2019 @10:35AM (#21753382)
Then your experience and your imagination are rather limited.

Just a few quotes from /r/Parenting:

"BUT his dad had a conniption when he found out that I bought him a baby doll and he thinks that he should not play with “girl” toys." https://www.reddit.com/r/Parenting/comments/b403o6/how_do_yo...

"A lot of adults (men, women, young, old) make snarky comments in my son's presence about his toy selections (doll houses, play kitchen sets)." https://www.reddit.com/r/Parenting/comments/b403o6/how_do_yo...

"Now, my husband generally doesn't mind that my step-son plays Barbies or dollies with his sister. However, he draws the line at actually buying "girl" toys for him." https://www.reddit.com/r/Parenting/comments/53p1ut/boys_and_...

"I'm constantly reminded my girl isn't very "girly". At times I'm even asked whatever I'm concerned about her enjoy so many "boy's things"" https://www.reddit.com/r/Parenting/comments/2ke89r/parents_w...

Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by shantly on Tuesday December 10, 2019 @11:07AM (#21753729)
The generous view of the dads worried about sons playing with girls' toys (no quotes around girls', because I guarantee the marketers intended them that way) is that they're concerned it'll signal "ostracize me and kick my ass, please; I'm an easy mark for gaining social status at the expense of another" to their peer group. Which doesn't make the effect any different, but the intent might not be to limit their sons' play per se.

[edit] what I mean is simply that those kinds of sentiments might be a reaction to perceived bias in culture, expressed as bias but not driven by same, if that makes sense. A kind of re-enforcing meta-bias. Again, doesn't make the effect any better.

Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by jedieaston on Tuesday December 10, 2019 @12:09PM (#21754340)
Lego used to have to ship a note to parents in the box of sets to make sure they didn't get mad about what toys their kids were playing with: https://www.telegraph.co.uk/men/11250366/Lego-letter-to-pare...
Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by rtkwe on Tuesday December 10, 2019 @11:01AM (#21753664)
It does still quite a bit, it's easy to forget how varied the US is. My cousin married a guy who's very into traditional toys for his son, a few Christmases back his son was playing with a doll with the other kids and he was not a fan of that at all.
Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by circlefavshape on Tuesday December 10, 2019 @10:11AM (#21753154)
It's much more subtle than that. A child isn't raised by his/her parents alone. If you have daughters, your family and friends (and their friends) will by default mostly buy them stereotypical girls toys
Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by ramblerman on Tuesday December 10, 2019 @07:34AM (#21751838)
> it’s to nurture kids to go whichever directions they like

Surely you mean to let them go whichever “directions” they like.

But I’m not sure that phrasing was accidental.

Re:Why Kids Love Garbage Trucks by aklemm on Tuesday December 10, 2019 @07:46AM (#21751908)
What?