1. Squat - 505lbs 2. Bench - 355lbs 3. Deadlift - 540lbs
Also, eat big!
1. Breakfast, a cup of espresso with milk, 6oz NY Strip, 1 cup of grits with butter, 16oz whole milk.
2. Lunch, 6oz NY Strip, 2 eggs, 16 oz whole milk
3. Snack, 2 - 4 pieces of fruit e.g, 3 apples with peanut butter.
4. Dinner, 2 - 3 pieces of fried/grilled chicken, collard greens, sweet potatoes.
5. Desert - a quarter slice of pie with 16oz of milk
I didn't take any supplements, just ate whole foods I cooked at home. Everything was made from scratch. The pies used lard we rendered at home from leaf fat (fat near the kidney).
It's a bit harder for vegans, but still doable. Look up Clarence Kennedy, the vegan Irish weightlifter.
For a deeper dive, I'd recommend this excellent article: https://www.strongerbyscience.com/vegetarian-and-vegan-athle...
I was also supplementing with whey (mainly casein) and creatine.
With the baby I've been eating a lot of crap sugars and put on 5kg of fat. I'm trying to drop 20kg of bodyfat now to get to down to 10-12% body fat. So far I've been able to drop without any real muscle loss as long as I still lift regularly.
I was strictly concerned with being strong, not being cut, so carrying around a little extra wasn't a big deal. The main thing, no one will think you are fat when you are strong, it is quite noticeable. Lastly, the meal I posted was at my strongest, lifting the heaviest. If I wasn't lifting those weights I would have gained quite a bit of fat.
If you are taking a few months off due to a baby, cut back on eating. Always think long-term. Two months off while you adjust to a newborn will do wonders when you get back into it. If you try to do it all, you'll be stressed and not enjoy lifting - or anything for that matter.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hHrysja5lYw
Also another one of his videos
Leucine also spikes the insulin level regardless the source, it is better to take it with fibres and a bit of fat, e.g. avocado.
If you still struggle, you might give a try to a constant glucose monitor (GCM) to see what crosses your efforts.
It's not exactly the same topic, but Mark Rippetoe gets to the spirit of it "My opinion about barbell rows is as follows: fuck barbell rows. Really. Fuck them. Stop wasting time worrying about barbell rows and get your deadlift up to 500. By then you'll have your own opinion and you won't have to worry about mine."
Until you get to the point of at least a 350lb squat and 400lb deadlift, it's far more useful to just stick with a program you can stick with than worry about optimizing it based on what "professional" athlete you want to be like.
It doesn't make sense to perform routines that don't aim to achieve the results you want and the routine you're most likely to stick with is the one that promises the results you want, has people who have done it and achieved the results you want, and is created by a guy who has the results you want.
Explosive strength and strong is more subtle. You basically have two sorts of muscle fiber: one is for short explosive strength the other more endurance. Different training results in a different mix of these fibers (as does genetics!). It's a case of getting the right kind of fiber in the right muscles for your sporting goal.
There are some fantastic youtube videos from people who are experts (for me it's a hobby), I can recommend Shredded Sports Science for the theory and Athlean-X for a mix of both theory and practice.
Do you want to get big? Then train heavy enough that you can do 10-15 reps with good form.
Do you want explosive strength for sports? Then look for around 15-20 reps but do the pushing part explosively.
Do you want to get strong? Lift heavy. Do 5 sets of a weight you can lift for 5-8 reps.
Going for endurance? Then you're looking for weights that take you to 30-50 reps.
Adjust the weights if you're not in your rep range, and don't cheat. Rest longer between sets if they start dropping off.