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Re:The effect of meditation on brain structure (2012) by codr7 on Saturday September 21, 2019 @06:34PM (#21038313)
Beating yourself up over "failing" only causes more delay and more suffering. That goes for not meditating as much as you think you should and not trying hard enough when loosing awareness. It's just practice, if you're not failing now and then you're not learning.

I had to sort of force myself by going to live in an ashram full time for a while.

Re:The effect of meditation on brain structure (2012) by kylek on Saturday September 21, 2019 @06:47PM (#21038371)
>> I had to sort of force myself by going to live in an ashram full time for a while.

That's amazing to me, really! I've considered doing 10-day sits before (vipassana most likely) but never got the courage to do it. Part of the reason being nicotine addiction (which would add a whole other dimension to the challenge). Once I sort out that bug out (and get a few levels higher in Hindi on duolingo) I want to look into it again.

Re:The effect of meditation on brain structure (2012) by turadg on Saturday September 21, 2019 @08:15PM (#21038776)
What are the thoughts you have when you think of taking the plunge? I did one recently and I’d love to help people to try it.
Re:The effect of meditation on brain structure (2012) by kylek on Sunday September 22, 2019 @01:54AM (#21039902)
You know, it's hard to come up with a good excuse for not doing it these days (if I could actually schedule something, I wouldn't second guess it, and things would probably fall into place, hah). I guess I always feel like I need to get some things in order first (past experiences warning my ego that I'm coming for it, and it preempts with whatever it can in a self-preservation effort?). One issue of course is enough vacation time; it's a tough sell over some other things on my "list".
Re:The effect of meditation on brain structure (2012) by tobbe2064 on Sunday September 22, 2019 @12:18PM (#21042120)
Did a 10 day sitting while addicted to nicotine after 10 years of smoking. I don't think I thought about cigarettes once. I did suffer from the withdrawal but it was subsumed in the meditation somehow
Re:The effect of meditation on brain structure (2012) by fragmede on Saturday September 21, 2019 @11:45PM (#21039539)
Arguably, a nicotine addiction would be the perfect thing to work out with the help of meditation!
Re:The effect of meditation on brain structure (2012) by stOneskull on Saturday September 21, 2019 @09:58PM (#21039154)
you do think about a cigarette but you get in the moment and can observe the craving and there aren't the things there that trigger stress. it's nice and quiet.
Re:The effect of meditation on brain structure (2012) by denton-scratch on Sunday September 22, 2019 @07:01AM (#21040714)
Nicotine withdrawal lasts about 72 hours - you'd be over it by the third day of a ten-day retreat.

But I recommend Champix/varenicline. It works.

Re:The effect of meditation on brain structure (2012) by mirchiseth on Saturday September 21, 2019 @07:13PM (#21038493)
Why is Hindi required?
Re:The effect of meditation on brain structure (2012) by blunte on Saturday September 21, 2019 @08:10PM (#21038758)
It's not. I recommend Mindfulness in Plain English By Bhante Henepola Gunaratana. It very directly lays out the benefits of Vipassana meditation, and it doesn't really involve any religion.
Re:The effect of meditation on brain structure (2012) by kylek on Saturday September 21, 2019 @11:24PM (#21039457)
Oh, it's not. A trip to India is on my long-term todo list though, and it's something I'd be interested in doing there. Definitely not mutually exclusive!
Re:The effect of meditation on brain structure (2012) by crucialfelix on Sunday September 22, 2019 @03:27AM (#21040109)
I did it in the Himalayas. There were literally monkeys fighting on the roof, musicians practicing every morning at 7am, and it was really cold. Regardless it was a peak experience in my life. Western centers are probably quieter and more comfortable.