Now that those people already have BTC, they are less likely to purchase a second coin. For one, they already have money invested in the space. Secondly, BTC has shown that it has staying power - outlasting many altcoins which came after it - which further solidifies BTC as the top contender (for now).
So, those already invested in BTC have little impetus to change from BTC to another coin == a first mover advantage.
Assuming a limited amount of resources to invest, someone who is already invested in X, is less likely to remove their money from that and invest into Y, unless Y is really good. All things equal, there is no reason to move from X to Y if X came first and you already invested into X.
So, the first mover advantage for BTC is the fact that new coins need not only be equal (in the eyes of the investor) to BTC, but better enough to convince that investor to move out of BTC in favor of that coin. People who are, in addition, buying other alt coins are still solidifying BTC's first mover advantage if they do not remove their investment in BTC in favor of something else.
This lack of governance as well as scarcity consensus is by far the strongest mechanism to maintain a scarce supply that we have in existence. It is not totally infallible - maybe a superhuman AI could social engineer the entire bitcoin community to increase the cap. But it is the best I can imagine is possible. The network effect of more people buying into it makes that 21 million meme stronger and stronger, and satoshi being "gone" reduces the risk that he comes back and declares that he has "changed his mind". Even if he did do that the core 21 million devotees will fork the coin to a 21 million and that will be the truly scarce bitcoin.
Therefore, this is the most securely scarce asset in existence.
The inflation is fair, in the sense that it is well known. It is also fair in the sense that nobody decides who gets the newly minted coins, everyone has an equal chance.
There is no creator still around. Nobody can dictate any changes to the rules. Sure, development is still ongoing, but if a change does not have close to unanimous consensus it's not going in. There seems to be a general understanding that unless this is so the community would be splintered which not make for a working economy and everyone would lose. Game theory holds this system in place.
(There have been a few coins which mostly shares Bitcoin's history, but so far the market seems to treat them as separate projects in their own right and valued separately, which so far seems to validate that theory.)
Not many other projects have managed to replicate the above (although some come close), so talking in terms of first mover advantage is selling the project a bit short.
> unless the group governing it decides to 'fix' those flaws, but there's another issue, I don't want you messing with how my money works...
That's exactly the reason why arguably technically superior projects are worth less - they are constantly messing with how their money works.
The community around Bitcoin, it's so called "immune system" is incredibly conservative. All they care about is stability and security. Every new feature is being introduced as an opt-in soft fork. It can take around 3 years of rigorous testing and discussion to go from a BIP to a protocol upgrade. Yes, other projects may be technologically superior, but it doesn't matter because they are funny money and Bitcoin's rigor and resistance to change make it hard money.
While it's hard to define what the "original" Bitcoin community really is, you'd struggle to make up a definition under which the above is true.
Looking through the commit log, none of the developers match any known Bitcoin developers at all, neither past nor present. It's hard to know for certain of course since there are many pseudonymous developers in this space.
A large reason might be that drumming up interest in consensus breaking changes is difficult enough as it is, and interest in a completely different codebase with incompatible rules is likely to be even harder.
Do we?
We all agree that currency can be just a pyramidal scheme.
[0] https://blockstream.com/liquid/
Disclosure: I work at Blockstream.
So everyone seems stuck -- we agree cryptocurrency can be an amazing idea, and the first version of it is something of a technical (and economic?) miracle, but now we're stuck with the V1 flaws forever (unless the group governing it decides to 'fix' those flaws, but there's another issue, I don't want you messing with how my money works...)