I'm watching/listening to the video you linked and the metal clinking sounds (and the lady's voice/accent) are nice and pleasant, but they're not "doing" anything for me worth a 30 minute video quite yet -- will keep watching with an open mind and put some more effort into finding what's right for me. :)
I doubt anyone's first ASMR experience will be through an ASMR video. It's more like something you've experienced on and off since childhood, at the store, the library, the barber shop, the doctor's office, etc.
And when the ASMR videos started getting popular, everyone who experiences ASMR heard about them and thought to themselves "So that's what that sensation is called! I thought I was the only one!"
So don't treat it like a spiritual journey where you'll find some lost part of yourself. It's really just a tool for relaxation, and if you "get the tingles" that's just a plus.
Of course, this sounds lame and mystical, but "it depends and it's different for everyone."
My favorite ASMR videos aren't the ones with the crazy high production value and the makeup and the desperation for subscribers.
My favorite are the videos by people who are just documenting their lives.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EwkfcG0oxEU