Then UE walked on the democratic opinion of its citizens and established the constitution without asking the citizens, with the treaty of Lisbon.

The Treaty of Lisbon is not equivalent with the proposed constitution. It merely amends current EU legislation with some aspects salvaged from the far further-reaching Treaty Establishing a Constitution for Europe.

the problem is that this EU is a tyrannical democracy. it's too easy to strong-arm some states into swallowing some policy that benefits everyone but them, like Dublin III, like production quotas, like fishing rights... this leaves basically everyone discontent about something everywhere.

> this leaves basically everyone discontent about something everywhere.

Isn't that the definition of a good compromise?

I mean, each EU country is fighting to get itself the best deal, to bolster its position over other EU states. There is no way to make it so that everyone (or even the majority) is happy, when the definition of "happy" is "much more than you could possibly get".

> this leaves basically everyone discontent about something everywhere.

That's life, I guess.