Re:Why is it hard to make friends over 30? (2012)
by shaklee3 on Wednesday February 21, 2018 @01:17AM
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It's really not that hard unless you have kids. Just leave earlier. Like someone said, you wouldn't be late for a flight since you actually care.
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Re:Why is it hard to make friends over 30? (2012)
by nitrogen on Wednesday February 21, 2018 @01:31AM
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There's a question of cost. Maybe you can be on time for a flight once in a while, but it costs you so much X (time, mental energy, money, whatever) that the same strategies would not help in day-to-day schedules. Ask someone with DSPS, for example.
Re:Why is it hard to make friends over 30? (2012)
by LaGrange on Wednesday February 21, 2018 @03:23AM
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You completely misunderstand how executive functioning deficiency works, it appears. While this was written by a person with chronic pain issues (you might not be aware of!), it applies to many other (often also invisible) disabilities: https://butyoudontlooksick.com/articles/written-by-christine....
"Just leave earlier" is about as useful an advice as "grow a new hand."
Re:Why is it hard to make friends over 30? (2012)
by verinus on Wednesday February 21, 2018 @03:51AM
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I have never ever met such a person- what does that say about the probability?
Personally I think the probability of this used as an excuse is much higher than of it beeing true.
Re:Why is it hard to make friends over 30? (2012)
by LaGrange on Wednesday February 21, 2018 @03:57AM
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> I have never ever met such a person- what does that say about the probability?
You did. You probably have family like that. The fact that you _think_ you never met such a person says a lot about you, though.
Re:Why is it hard to make friends over 30? (2012)
by icebraining on Wednesday February 21, 2018 @02:30AM
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You haven't met really time-impaired people if you don't think they'd miss flights and many other things they "actually care".