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Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by new299 on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @02:37AM (#15181657)
I'm sympathetic. But given the article is against "fact-free" parenting. I didn't find the data presented very compelling.

Basically you'd need to know how common crime against children traveling unsupervised on buses in a similar scenario.

The closest example presented is kids in New York riding the subway, so presenting stats on that would be useful.

I'd also like more details on the Japanese example, it's honestly not uncommon to hear news reports of kids being abducted in Japan. I'd personally be interested in the stats, but as a comparison point it doesn't make sense unless you can normalize for the overall lower crime rate that Japan has.

If anyone has good data against "Helicopter parenting", I'd be curious to see it.

Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by tomohawk on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @04:46AM (#15182114)
The point is, this guy shouldn't have to prove that it is safe. Rather, the state should have to prove that he did something wrong, as defined by a law. If the state thinks that this is wrong, the state should provide evidence that it is wrong and get a law passed. The state in this case is acting like a terrorist organization. It has no law on its side, and is at least implicitly threatening to take away the kids.
Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by new299 on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @05:39AM (#15182309)
This seems tangential to what I was trying to (perhaps unclearly) express.

I personally would agree with author of the post. However, the author is saying "it's not dangerous to do this", as opposed to "it is a basic human right to do this". He is also asserting that the opposing view is not supported by the facts (it's "fact free").

That's all fine. But then the author presents statistics he's gathered, none of which really strongly support his case. And in fact, I would not be surprised if you could cherry pick statistics to support either case.

It would be better to either:

1. Find better statistics. 2. Not present poor statistics, and then say "look here this supports my argument", when it doesn't.

Or at least, apply caveats to the data...

Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by tarboreus on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @11:00AM (#15184197)
Again, the burden of proof is (or should be) on the state here. And there are no stats showing that this is dangerous, because it isn't.
Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by new299 on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @10:15PM (#15188675)
You seem to be arguing with a point I'm not trying to make.

But if you are suggesting that the decision should be fact based and present an argument with supporting statistics. Then those statistics should be relevant to your argument.

The statistics presented in the article were not relevant. If it is not dangerous, it should be possible to show this with data... the data presented in the article is poor and doesn't support his case well.

Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by dwaltrip on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @02:40AM (#15181670)
From the post:

> And the odds of your child being kidnapped by a stranger on the bus? Incredibly long. A 2003 study in Canada found just one case nationwide of a stranger abducting a child, in the entire two years prior.

I personally found the article very compelling. This kind of mindless fear, in direct contradiction of clear evidence, makes my blood boil.

Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by new299 on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @02:47AM (#15181695)
"A 2003 study in Canada found just one case nationwide of a stranger abducting a child, in the entire two years prior."

Without knowing if, and how many children rode the bus alone, this information is not meaningful.

Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by tempestn on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @04:49AM (#15182123)
Of course it is. One incident in two years, out of a population of tens of millions, is effectively zero. Regardless of how many kids ride the bus, if there were a significant number of predators out there waiting to abduct children, there are sufficient opportunities available that it would happen with some regularity. It's not for lack of unsupervised bus riders that it's such a rare occurrence.
Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by new299 on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @06:18AM (#15182477)
So, I'm now reading the article he cites to support this.

It's an old article, from 2013. It states that:

"Police statistics show 25 children of the 46,718 reported missing in 2011 listed as "abducted by stranger."

And then goes on to show that in the majority of cases that the abductor was known to the parents.

So, the useful dataset would be.

* How many of the children were abducted with unsupervised?

* In the Canadian population how many children in total are left unsupervised regularly.

From that we could calculate:

Percentage of children left unsupervised regularly who are abducted.

Percentage of children not left unsupervised regularly who are abducted.

Of course, correlation != causation. But if there is no difference between the two populations then that would tell us something. However, there isn't enough data in the article to make this assertion.

Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by tempestn on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @02:15PM (#15185850)
Fair enough. The original statistic could well be inaccurate. I was simply responding to the comment that it's irrelevant without knowing the number of underage bus riders.
Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by new299 on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @10:18PM (#15188686)
What is the relevance of the statistic present? I can't see is? (honestly).

If no (or very few) children are left unsupervised in Canada, then the statistic isn't relevant to calculating the probability of unsupervised (or lone traveling) children being abducted is it?

Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by tempestn on Thursday September 07, 2017 @12:00AM (#15189060)
I'm using personal experience. I live in Canada, and I'm a parent, so I tend to frequent places that kids congregate. From my experience there are plenty of opportunities out there for someone to abduct children if they were halfway intelligent and motivated to do so. If indeed there was only one incidence over a two year span in the entire country (although your reference is apparently 25, not one?) it therefore suggests a lack of potential abductors.
Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by new299 on Thursday September 07, 2017 @07:18AM (#15190724)
> it therefore suggests a lack of potential abductors

Or a lack of unsupervised children?

I don't know. I think you're probably correct. But really the assertion would be might stronger if there was more than anecdotal evidence to back it up.

This is what I'm trying to say the data presented in the article, is on the level of anecdotal evidence. Which, tends to weaken the argument rather than strengthen it.

Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by new299 on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @06:05AM (#15182411)
Isn't it possible that very few children ride the bus alone in Canada? Particularly given the fact that there seems to be governmental/social pressure against this?

So the population of unsupervised children riding buses might be 10? or 100? or 1000000? we don't know.

1 in 10 would be high, though given the limited size of the dataset, possibly not very statistically relevant.

It seems doubtful that this is a very useful dataset.

Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by Chris2048 on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @04:55AM (#15182148)
The entire population of children do not all ride alone on a bus though. It's % of those who do that that are abducted is important.
Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by AstralStorm on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @05:03AM (#15182181)
Typically not possible to estimate for either murders or abductions which ate already extremely rare nowadays in general.

Are you suggesting chasing accuracy in a fraction of a fraction?

Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by Chris2048 on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @08:13AM (#15182982)
The post I replied to said:

> One incident in two years, out of a population of tens of millions

I'm pointing out that overall population is not relevant.

The "fraction of a fraction" is the ratio of children who ride the bus alone, and get abducted. It seems that is relevant information when trying to contextualize the danger in allowing a child to ride a bus alone.

Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by dagw on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @03:30AM (#15181839)
While I agree with the general assertion in the article, cherry picking statistics for just one, very rare, crime isn't compelling evidence. Why not present the stats for all relevant crimes?
Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by jdietrich on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @04:59AM (#15182166)
Practically all crime is at an all-time low, but that's largely beside the point.

Is the risk of robbery intolerably awful, or have we become unreasonably timid? I think that America (and to a significant extent Canada) is still in the throes of zero tolerance culture, where any risk is intolerable and any action to mitigate risk is justified.

Two kids get into a scuffle at school? Expel them both. Don't worry about what happens to those kids, don't worry about who started the fight, don't worry about the chilling effect on normal childhood behaviour, because we have zero tolerance for violence. The war on drugs, the war on terror, the broken window theory, mandatory minimum sentences, three-strike laws, the criminalization of poverty, the school-to-prison pipeline. When the only acceptable rate of crime is zero, the ends always justify the means.

https://www.brennancenter.org/publication/crime-trends1990-2...

Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by dsfyu404ed on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @06:24AM (#15182516)
>where any risk is intolerable and any action to mitigate risk is justified

Which commonly takes the form of "If you can't afford X then you shouldn't be doing Y"

Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by AstralStorm on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @03:38AM (#15181855)
So what kinds of crimes are you willing to look at? Murders and abductions are probably the worst and easiest to track.

Robbery much harder and often unreported or reported as bullying.

Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by dagw on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @03:41AM (#15181866)
Robbery much harder and often unreported or reported as bullying.

Robbery/theft/assault etc. seems like the ones you'd actually care about. Murders and kidnappings of children by strangers are so rare that any data about them is essentially meaningless.

Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by pamqzl on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @04:00AM (#15181934)
Honestly I'd be far more worried about my kid being hit by a car than being a victim of any crime.

Or maybe they try something stupid (we all did stupid things as kids and I don't expect my kids to be smarter than I was) and wind up drowning in the river or falling off something.

Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by walterstucco on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @04:43AM (#15182100)
> Honestly I'd be far more worried about my kid being hit by a car

But why?

Is it common for them to be hit by cars?

Is it safer for them to go to school with parents?

And if someone hits you while you are trying to protect your kid, is it less traumatic?

And if while you take them to school you hit someone else's kid, is it less traumatic?

Is it common for kids to drown or fall and die while parents are not there?

From what I see it is common for adults to drown while they're trying to save someone else (usually not kids, but other adults)

If you start thinking about everything that _could_ happen, you wouldn't let your kids go out

Kids spend a lot of time alone and still they manage to survive

Why going to school should be any different?

Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by AstralStorm on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @05:09AM (#15182203)
1) More common than with adults. Statistics one this are widely available. Sometimes even details. Drops rapidly with age. Main cause of vehicular accident deaths is actually crashes. Some 20% deaths and injuries are estimated to be preventable by consistent child restraint/seat usage. Drunk parent drivers are responsible for about 20% of the total under 15 vehicular accident deaths...

2) Compare say multiple person being in a vehicular accidents when one is a child. Also make sure to include a reduction in car crashes including a child as some of those would become pedestrians. (Data is also available, but no idea how many kids would walk.) School busses exist and work.

3, 4) Stats are not readily available.

5) Stats are available, most of those happen near the parents anyway. Essentially negligence with very small kids or stupidity like having kids near unguarded aquifers or drops. Such areas are rare in cities.

Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by walterstucco on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @08:19AM (#15183009)
You're basically agreeing with me

Fear of your kid being hit by a car is just perception

driving them to school with the false sense of security that when they are with their parents kids are safer is more dangerous

Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by AstralStorm on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @10:04AM (#15183732)
Well, it is a real fear, especially when kids are playing instead of going somewhere.

However, driving the kids to school is probably no better than them just going on their own looking at stats of car crashes with kids involved.

Anyway, as expected, parents tend to behave highly irrationally when safety of their own children is involved.

Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by dagw on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @05:11AM (#15182209)
Is it common for them to be hit by cars?

According to CDC it's the second most common cause of accidental injury death among children aged 5-14 (after being in a car crash)

Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by walterstucco on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @08:23AM (#15183032)
With or without parent's supervision?

The post I was replying to specifically said he's scared that his kid could be hit by a car when going to school on his own

It's fairly obvious that accidents are the most common cause of death for kids My point is that parent supervision don't protect them from being hit or end up in a car crash or fall down from a bridge

p.s.: main cause doesn't mean it is common I believe it's not very common, it's catastrophic for their young body when it happens, but not common

Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by AstralStorm on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @09:56AM (#15183654)
Critical part is actually "going to school". Typical stats on accidents do not say where you were going, but at most where you actually were. My suspicion is that most vehicular accidents happen during play or free roaming, especially in an unsupervised kid group, not when actually going somewhere on their own.
Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by AstralStorm on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @05:30AM (#15182269)
CDC has data for the US only. The suspicion is that suburban development is the main cause, not walking to school or to school bus.

In actual cities the rates should be lower as roads are not mixed with recreational or pedestrian areas as much, at least in Europe. It is still the leading cause though. (WHO has good data.)

Quite a few accidents are also caused by biking...

Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by TheSpiceIsLife on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @06:20AM (#15182492)
> If you start thinking about everything that _could_ happen, you wouldn't let your kids go out

This is precisely where are now.

Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by walterstucco on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @08:20AM (#15183015)
The next step is sending them away from their parents :)

http://southpark.wikia.com/wiki/Child_Abduction_is_Not_Funny

Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by odessacubbage on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @06:38AM (#15182574)
i got hit by a car, walking home from the double-transfer public bus i rode alone to & from elementary school everyday. it increased my pain threshold dramatically which effectively ended the bullying i'd been subject to up to that point. the whole experience was a net positive.

>Or maybe they try something stupid

that's the fastest way to become smart in my experience. humans are remarkably adept at not dying and even ballsy kids can judge their competence well enough if they're given the opportunity to learn their limits.

Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by dagw on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @04:07AM (#15181956)
Oh absolutely. but if we're talking about crimes, it's much more likely that my kid would get robbed on her way to school rather than kidnapped.
Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by oblio on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @02:46AM (#15181692)
Every "bet" consideration needs to include possible loss, not only the odds. Losing your child is for many people not that far off from losing their own life, so people tend to react in a very cautious way.
Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by imcrs on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @03:47AM (#15181882)
Not when they decide to drive themselves and their kids on the freeway every workday.
Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by oblio on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @04:23AM (#15182011)
The illusion of control is just as important :)
Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by walterstucco on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @04:47AM (#15182118)
but much more dangerous
Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by walterstucco on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @04:46AM (#15182113)
> Losing your child is for many people not that far off from losing their own life,

Usually losing a kid is due untreatable diseases and bad parenting (like driving them to school without taking proper safety measures and suffer the consequences of an accident)

There's no evidence that going to school alone is more dangerous than staying home with grandpa's guns

Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by colechristensen on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @03:09AM (#15181752)
It can be blamed fairly directly at the news selling your attention for advertisements. If they can frighten you they can get you to watch, and the attention of worrying parents has quite a bit of value. Capitalism doesn't work very well when combined with the task of serving the public with needed information.
Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by pmiller2 on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @03:34AM (#15181846)
Hearing reports of a thing on the news is actually a signal that such things are not common. That's why you don't see every little (or even big) traffic accident on the news. It's not special. It happens every day.
Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by CalRobert on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @04:26AM (#15182031)
Incidentally, the regularity of pedestrians being killed by drivers - to the extent that many folks (sorry, anecdata) blame the pedestrian more than the driver because walking is seen as the aberration, is my biggest fear about letting a kid run about. Funny enough people move their families to the suburbs for "safety', thereby increasing their miles driven and increasing the kid's risk of getting killed by a car.
Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by new299 on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @06:00AM (#15182391)
There are so many potential biases involved, that I'm not sure I would use "hearing it on the news" as a statistical metic to drive my personal evaluation.

Obviously, if you're using it to set policy, some kind of study would be valuable.

Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by bisRepetita on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @03:14AM (#15181781)
I have no idea how anyone could abduct 5 kids at once in a public place. Those little monsters scream loud and run fast.
Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by kazagistar on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @03:24AM (#15181812)
They do that with their parents too.
Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by dsfyu404ed on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @06:39AM (#15182583)
I would try a net.
Re:How Fact-Free Parenting Policies Rob Kids' Independence by bisRepetita on Wednesday September 06, 2017 @09:36AM (#15183542)
I bet 10 to 1 you end up in the net.