News for hackers. Stuff that matters.
Re:Kindness is Underrated (2014) by clairity on Sunday July 16, 2017 @12:49PM (#14782826)
basketball analogy time... =)

as a (volunteer) coach, one of the things i often have to correct is making lob passes (slow, often misplaced and disrupting of the flow of action). some kids mistakenly believe they are being nice by giving their teammate a soft pass, but i tell them the kind thing to do is making the direct pass. it gets the ball there faster, it's more likely to be in stride, and makes it harder for the defense to recover or steal. that means it's more likely to lead to a basket and less likely to lead to a turnover for the receiving teammate.

(tl;dr: direct is better and more appreciated than roundabout)

Re:Kindness is Underrated (2014) by BenchRouter on Sunday July 16, 2017 @12:52PM (#14782853)
We're not disagreeing. Allen's feedback is direct, to me. What's indirect about it?
Re:Kindness is Underrated (2014) by clairity on Sunday July 16, 2017 @12:57PM (#14782888)
yes, we're not disagreeing, i was just providing a parallel anecdote supporting the point that kindness is not necessarily mushy.
Re:Kindness is Underrated (2014) by BenchRouter on Sunday July 16, 2017 @01:01PM (#14782909)
Ah, my apologies!
Re:Kindness is Underrated (2014) by graphememes on Sunday July 16, 2017 @05:14PM (#14784142)
Given his comment without context that is hard to express.