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Re:6 Women Accuse Tech VC Justin Caldbeck of Sexual Assault ... by zabana on Friday June 23, 2017 @09:55PM (#14624004)
At the risk of sounding like I'm defending the guy (which I'm not), do we have a comprehensive definition of "Sexual Assault and Harassement" ? Because in some places (northern europe for example) these terms have very volatile definitions which allows pretty much anything to fall under the "rape" category. I totally understand that repeatedly violating somebody's physical safe space is a form a sexual assault (grabbing someone's butt etc) but I'm not sure if bad jokes and misplaced remarks (however annoying) qualify as such. (Not trying to start a war here, I'm geniunly asking).
Re:6 Women Accuse Tech VC Justin Caldbeck of Sexual Assault ... by URSpider94 on Friday June 23, 2017 @10:29PM (#14624089)
In the USA, "sexual harassment" is generally defined as behavior or words of a sexual nature that make a person feel uncomfortable. Examples could range from an extreme of physical assault or offering a quid-pro-quo to keep ones job or get a promotion, all the way to telling lewd jokes or stories within earshot of a third party, or making comments or compliments about someone's dress or appearance (even telling a co-worker "you look lovely today" every morning).
Re:6 Women Accuse Tech VC Justin Caldbeck of Sexual Assault ... by qubex on Saturday June 24, 2017 @03:56AM (#14624798)
In Italy we comment and compliment (or criticise) each other's attire regularly. It's widely known (for example) that I abhor exposed feet and will therefore call out and/or criticize sandals, flip-flops, or peep-toe shoes. Female workers do this to make workers, male workers do this to female workers. We successfully share same-sex toilets if the need arises. The regimented gender-divided situation the US seems to subtend is utterly alien to me and seems to be far more awkward than you realize.
Re:6 Women Accuse Tech VC Justin Caldbeck of Sexual Assault ... by LeeHwang on Saturday June 24, 2017 @09:52AM (#14625561)
Don't let these silicon valley stories fool you. Blame extremists and people who exploit gender relations for money. Most americans are decent people who do the exact type of behavior you mention, and its not a problem.

Big money leads to terrible behavior due to power differences. Men AND Women willing to take advantage of less powerful people. I have a female friend who was sexually harrassed by a female VC, and again the same dynamics played out. Its not about gender but primal human desires and power.

Re:6 Women Accuse Tech VC Justin Caldbeck of Sexual Assault ... by qubex on Saturday June 24, 2017 @11:26AM (#14625874)
I'm amused by the the apparent controversy of my original post (as measured by the fairly broad swings in net upvotes/downvotes). Apparently the apparent common sense I voiced therein doesn't gel with the silent majority quite as much as I'd be comfortable with.
Re:6 Women Accuse Tech VC Justin Caldbeck of Sexual Assault ... by dump121 on Saturday June 24, 2017 @01:00AM (#14624432)
That's too broad / vague. I understand that if my actions/words are making/will make other person uncomfortable, I should stop. But if a coworker changed her hair style and I complemented it, can I be legally complained against?
Re:6 Women Accuse Tech VC Justin Caldbeck of Sexual Assault ... by susanrigetti on Saturday June 24, 2017 @01:11PM (#14626372)
The parent comment is not correct. No, you will not be "legally complained against" (I think you mean "am I breaking the law") if you compliment your coworker's hairstyle. See this: https://www.eeoc.gov/laws/types/sexual_harassment.cfm
Re:6 Women Accuse Tech VC Justin Caldbeck of Sexual Assault ... by _RPM on Friday June 23, 2017 @11:28PM (#14624242)
As a straight male, my manager comments on my clothes if I wear something nicer than usual, say a button up. It made very uncomfortable. I don't like when people comment on my appearance at work.
Re:6 Women Accuse Tech VC Justin Caldbeck of Sexual Assault ... by biafra on Saturday June 24, 2017 @02:12AM (#14624582)
Did you tell them? Did you ask them to stop? Did they ignored your wish?
Re:6 Women Accuse Tech VC Justin Caldbeck of Sexual Assault ... by susanrigetti on Saturday June 24, 2017 @01:03PM (#14626332)
Yes. We do.

Sexual assault:

From the DoJ:

"Sexual assault is any type of sexual contact or behavior that occurs without the explicit consent of the recipient. Falling under the definition of sexual assault are sexual activities as forced sexual intercourse, forcible sodomy, child molestation, incest, fondling, and attempted rape."

Source: https://www.justice.gov/ovw/sexual-assault

Sexual harassment:

From the EEOC, the which is the U.S. federal agency that is responsible for civil rights in the workplace:

"It is unlawful to harass a person (an applicant or employee) because of that person’s sex. Harassment can include “sexual harassment” or unwelcome sexual advances, requests for sexual favors, and other verbal or physical harassment of a sexual nature.

Harassment does not have to be of a sexual nature, however, and can include offensive remarks about a person’s sex. For example, it is illegal to harass a woman by making offensive comments about women in general.

Both victim and the harasser can be either a woman or a man, and the victim and harasser can be the same sex.

Although the law doesn’t prohibit simple teasing, offhand comments, or isolated incidents that are not very serious, harassment is illegal when it is so frequent or severe that it creates a hostile or offensive work environment or when it results in an adverse employment decision (such as the victim being fired or demoted).

The harasser can be the victim's supervisor, a supervisor in another area, a co-worker, or someone who is not an employee of the employer, such as a client or customer."

Source: https://www.eeoc.gov/laws/types/sexual_harassment.cfm

(Edited to include sexual assault, which was included in the parent comment as one of the things apparently lacking a definition)