Re:Apple's lack of daycare wasn't a mistake, it was a message
by alaskamiller on Saturday May 20, 2017 @06:57PM
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Contrarian opinion click bait piece.
Apple is top heavy, just like the military. There many many many that have stayed because their job is safe, their ESP is vested and earning them tons for their nest egg. There are plenty of people with 10 yr, 15 yr or even 20 yr letters of appreciation hanging on their cubicle wall.
What's more important is dispelling this myth that Apple's work life balance is great or that they even pay well.
Unlike SF, working in SV most people skew older than 30+, have starter families, and live in the suburbs. Their lives are already established. But Apple is under market when factoring in the commitment you put in.
On top of that day care here in Cupertino or even the south bay are extraordinary expensive. Google has child care, they even hire full time child care providers that are even issued RSUs. But then, Google is building a cult that Apple once were while Apple is transitioning to being a campus that Google once were.
Ask the contract bus drivers here when you have a chance. They will all tell you the same thing. Of the people they pick up, whether it's Facebook, Google, Yahoo, LinkedIn, every Monday morning, the ones that look like they most want to shoot themselves are Apple employees.
Re:Apple's lack of daycare wasn't a mistake, it was a message
by alaskamiller on Saturday May 20, 2017 @07:16PM
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Starter family as in finally saving enough money to put down on a $600k new condo they just finished building in east san jose while working in west san jose and budgeting and maxing out Amazon Prime to get more diapers for the new baby.
It's a very expensive co-op game with plenty of DLC.
Re:Apple's lack of daycare wasn't a mistake, it was a message
by cperciva on Saturday May 20, 2017 @07:21PM
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If a starter family is like a starter home, after you spend 5-10 years saving money you would be expected to sell the starter family and buy a mid-range family in a better part of town. ;-)
Re:Apple's lack of daycare wasn't a mistake, it was a message
by taeric on Saturday May 20, 2017 @06:57PM
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To parrot the article. For companies that aren't trying to provide every other perk on the planet, this is a reason that makes sense. For a company that is including such things as work shuttles, food, and gyms... it is a little hazier.
That is, they are making a clear commitment to prioritize things that reduce the time you are away from the office. Having on site food is convenient for the employer. Less time away from doing work.
Daycare, though, doesn't really do much more than help the employee actually have a family life. You won't stay at the office longer, since it will close and you will pick up your child and go home.
I'd actually extend the idea further and say what else sets this apart is what people do in the other locations. It is not uncommon to network on a gym or cafeteria. Daycare? It probably can happen. Doubt it does.
Re:Apple's lack of daycare wasn't a mistake, it was a message
by closeparen on Saturday May 20, 2017 @08:00PM
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It totally depends on context. My office doesn't have a gym, but there's one next door and we reimburse its membership fee. Colleagues seem to find it easier to go regularly during the workday, rather early in the morning or after work. I think it's fantastic that this kind of "break" is allowed and encouraged. In this city of dysfunctional transportation, saving you a "second commute" to the gym is a valuable service.
Food? A nice lunch that I don't have to think about beats packing PB&J or throwing away money on restaurant meals.
Dinner is provided very late, and is by no means an expectation, more of a courtesy to employees working late for other reasons. It makes sparse use of one cafeteria, where lunch overflows ~5.
Most engineers in my immediate area are solidly 10am-6pm unless something comes up. (Several have hour-plus BART rides to their families deep in the East Bay).
Re:Apple's lack of daycare wasn't a mistake, it was a message
by mc32 on Saturday May 20, 2017 @06:57PM
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Many Corp daycares are for one-offs (they may cap it at some number of times per year, for example) when your regular caregiver can't render services or other minor emergencies.
Re:Apple's lack of daycare wasn't a mistake, it was a message
by dhruvrrp on Saturday May 20, 2017 @06:55PM
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A couple of days ago someone here brought up a good point why companies should not offer daycare- wait times to get children into daycare in sf are between 8-10 months. So in case the employee is let go/leaves then it'll take almost an year for them to get their children in a new daycare.
Re:Apple's lack of daycare wasn't a mistake, it was a message
by jotux on Saturday May 20, 2017 @07:46PM
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If apple, and others, provided on-site day care it would take some of the pressure off daycare in the region and the wait times likely wouldn't be so long for everyone else (including people who get fired). Also, if they're arguing this is such a critical benefit it shouldn't be handled by apple because the impact of losing it is so great then why do they provide health care?
Re:Apple's lack of daycare wasn't a mistake, it was a message
by cperciva on Saturday May 20, 2017 @06:53PM
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Indeed. And if it was an employer's responsibility to care for employees' children: Which employer? Most children have two parents; why should the employer of one parent pay to care for their children while the employer of the other parent doesn't?
Of course, the article answers this question with the assertion that children are a woman's responsibility; Apple's male employees are cavalierly dismissed as "not exactly breeders", which must be one of the harshest judgments I've ever heard applied to such a large group.
It seems to me that the attitude that fathers have no place in the lives of their children is a much bigger problem than the question of whether Apple employees have on-campus or off-campus child care.
Re:Apple's lack of daycare wasn't a mistake, it was a message
by vacri on Saturday May 20, 2017 @07:08PM
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> Apple's male employees are cavalierly dismissed as "not exactly breeders", which must be one of the harshest judgments I've ever heard applied to such a large group.
'Harshest judgments'... have you been on the internet?
In any case, her point was not "Apple male employees are dorks", but that "25-year-old tech bros are not breeders... yet". The 'yet' is in her comment. She was saying those kinds of men aren't up for being fathers now, but will be later.
> It seems to me that the attitude that fathers have no place in the lives of their children is a much bigger problem than the question of whether Apple employees have on-campus or off-campus child care.
The very next two paragraphs talk about these same men wanting daycare for their eventual offspring, and being able to find it at Google. Apart from saying the parenting burden falls disproportionately on mothers, the article makes no suggestion that fathers are lesser parents.
Re:Apple's lack of daycare wasn't a mistake, it was a message
by Apocryphon on Saturday May 20, 2017 @06:45PM
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And yet, how the employee gets to and from work (shuttles), where the employee eats during the day (cafeterias), if the employee is fit and healthy (gyms, wellness centers) are all within the purview of corporate empires like Apple.
Re:Apple's lack of daycare wasn't a mistake, it was a message
by coldtea on Saturday May 20, 2017 @08:15PM
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>how the employee gets to and from work (shuttles)
Well, that sounds like an obvious thing the company should care about. It has been offered to employees and lowly workers since 50 or even 100 years ago...
>where the employee eats during the day (cafeterias)
Any place where people spend 1/3 of their day or more has cafeterias. Even court houses and public government offices in most countries. Obviously a company would HAVE a cafeteria. What else would be going on, have employees take a walk around every time they wanted a soda or snack? Especially in places like some US cities, where you need to drive for 5 or 10 minutes of suburban sprawl to find some food choices.
>if the employee is fit and healthy (gyms, wellness centers)
Again, that's for the employee. Who is sitting 8+ hours straight on some desk coding or doing office work, and needs some exercise for their health.
Daycare, on the other hand, is not for the employee, it's for their family members.
Re:Apple's lack of daycare wasn't a mistake, it was a message
by cperciva on Saturday May 20, 2017 @06:59PM
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Transportation, food, and health/fitness services are benefits to the Apple employee. Childcare is a benefit to all the parents of the child - in most cases, only one of which is an Apple employee.
Re:Apple's lack of daycare wasn't a mistake, it was a message
by learc83 on Saturday May 20, 2017 @07:13PM
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Transportation, food etc... benefit the entire family the same way childcare does because most families mix their finances.
For childcare, the benefit to the non-apple parent is financial plus whatever benefit they get from making it more convenient for the apple parent to drop off their kid for daycare.
For transportation, the benefit for a non apple family members is financial plus whatever benefit they get from making it more convenient for the apple employee to get to work.
Re:Apple's lack of daycare wasn't a mistake, it was a message
by coldtea on Sunday May 21, 2017 @07:12AM
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It adds context to it that the other benefits are not meant for the employees but for the company (and that we don't have much reason to expect one that doesn't benefit the company).
Re:Apple's lack of daycare wasn't a mistake, it was a message
by learc83 on Monday May 22, 2017 @02:18AM
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>the other benefits are not meant for the employees
This is only relevant to my reply if someone you're saying that Childcare doesn't benefit the company in the same way a gym membership does, i.e., keeping the employee around longer. I don't think you're saying this, so I still don't understand the point of your reply.
Re:Apple's lack of daycare wasn't a mistake, it was a message
by david-gpu on Saturday May 20, 2017 @06:42PM
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How is it any different from any of the other perks that Apple and other similar employers provide? I don't really think having a cafeteria/gym/shuttle is my employer's business.
Re:Apple's lack of daycare wasn't a mistake, it was a message
by thescribe on Saturday May 20, 2017 @06:48PM
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I suspect if there was enough demand for daycare as a perk it would be provided. People who work for apple frequently have the option of going elsewhere, so it might be fair to assume they're at least ambivalent on the perk of daycare as a group?
Re:Apple's lack of daycare wasn't a mistake, it was a message
by m-j-fox on Saturday May 20, 2017 @06:43PM
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I wouldn't say no if my employer wanted to run a daycare in the building. It would save me some hassles dropping my kid off and dealing with emergencies.
But they don't. And as far as I know, no one does. Not in Silicon Valley. Not anywhere else. Am I wrong?
Re:Apple's lack of daycare wasn't a mistake, it was a message
by obstinate on Saturday May 20, 2017 @06:53PM
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It's not like Google's daycare is particularly accessible either. The cost is far above market rate -- almost 2x from what I've heard -- and your chances of getting in are <10%. It's not a free benefit, and it's not a benefit available to every employee by a long shot.
I think Apple's failure to start a daycare sends exactly this message: we're not good at running daycares.
Re:Apple's lack of daycare wasn't a mistake, it was a message
by itsdrewmiller on Saturday May 20, 2017 @07:10PM
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This would be my guess, too - along with the fact that Google is fine outsourcing things outside their core competencies while Apple would want to micromanage the exact color and count of every toy in every class.
Re:Apple's lack of daycare wasn't a mistake, it was a message
by iddogino on Saturday May 20, 2017 @07:16PM
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Still don't get why people are constantly surprised at the difficulty of building a career and having kids. Having kids is a life choice with upsides (awesome upsides imo) and downsides. Same goes for having a career in tech. Wanna do both? You can, but YOU WILL have to work 2x harder than all the people doing only one of these (arguably, you'll also get a lot more).
Re:Apple's lack of daycare wasn't a mistake, it was a message
by simplehuman on Saturday May 20, 2017 @07:12PM
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I don't see why any employer has to provide for day care. Instead allow people to work from home, pay for day care as a benefit etc. It would not be possible to build a day care easily to satisfy all employees since this is very personal. (Just like parents prefer different type of schooling)
And Google s day care is not free. And is like 2-3k a month ridiculously expensive.
Re:Apple's lack of daycare wasn't a mistake, it was a message
by mcv on Saturday May 20, 2017 @07:12PM
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Are companies morally required to have daycare? It's a nice gesture if they do, but my kids go to a regular daycare. Bonus is that they don't have to switch daycare when I switch jobs.
Re:Apple's lack of daycare wasn't a mistake, it was a message
by mc32 on Saturday May 20, 2017 @06:42PM
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If there ever were people who could afford private daycare, it's relatively well paid tech workers (or any relatively well paid worker). If you wanna complain about lack of daycare, take up the cause for the people (moms) juggling multiple barely living wage jobs at the likes of global companies like wal*mart, etc.
This is more like well paid persons' problems. There are people who need those amenities way more than appl workers.
Re:Apple's lack of daycare wasn't a mistake, it was a message
by luvz2code on Saturday May 20, 2017 @06:51PM
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in fact I think of it the other way around. By not providing a daycare, they would want their working parents to go home on time. Having a daycare at work provides excuse to drop kids at care and work late evenings.
Re:Apple's lack of daycare wasn't a mistake, it was a message
by JulianMorrison on Saturday May 20, 2017 @07:12PM
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In the Jobs-ian arcology, employees spring to life from the cloning tanks in bodies that look 20 and are preloaded with Apple software. Reproduction is obsolete, and so the ports have been removed from the design. Everything is smooth and white and rounded corners.
Apple is top heavy, just like the military. There many many many that have stayed because their job is safe, their ESP is vested and earning them tons for their nest egg. There are plenty of people with 10 yr, 15 yr or even 20 yr letters of appreciation hanging on their cubicle wall.
What's more important is dispelling this myth that Apple's work life balance is great or that they even pay well.
Unlike SF, working in SV most people skew older than 30+, have starter families, and live in the suburbs. Their lives are already established. But Apple is under market when factoring in the commitment you put in.
On top of that day care here in Cupertino or even the south bay are extraordinary expensive. Google has child care, they even hire full time child care providers that are even issued RSUs. But then, Google is building a cult that Apple once were while Apple is transitioning to being a campus that Google once were.
Ask the contract bus drivers here when you have a chance. They will all tell you the same thing. Of the people they pick up, whether it's Facebook, Google, Yahoo, LinkedIn, every Monday morning, the ones that look like they most want to shoot themselves are Apple employees.
It's a very expensive co-op game with plenty of DLC.
If the daycare is on-site, a person might stay longer at work since their child is taken care of.
DISCLAIMER: I have no children which means that my comment is ignorant or how a parent might read the same article or "message".
That is, they are making a clear commitment to prioritize things that reduce the time you are away from the office. Having on site food is convenient for the employer. Less time away from doing work.
Daycare, though, doesn't really do much more than help the employee actually have a family life. You won't stay at the office longer, since it will close and you will pick up your child and go home.
I'd actually extend the idea further and say what else sets this apart is what people do in the other locations. It is not uncommon to network on a gym or cafeteria. Daycare? It probably can happen. Doubt it does.
Food? A nice lunch that I don't have to think about beats packing PB&J or throwing away money on restaurant meals.
Dinner is provided very late, and is by no means an expectation, more of a courtesy to employees working late for other reasons. It makes sparse use of one cafeteria, where lunch overflows ~5.
Most engineers in my immediate area are solidly 10am-6pm unless something comes up. (Several have hour-plus BART rides to their families deep in the East Bay).
Most of the Apple employees I know skew higher than 25 -- of the companies in the valley it seems to have the most long-term-ers.
And if the parent is let go/leaves, then they'll be at home until they land a new job, and thus not need daycare until then.
I don't really think taking care of kids is my employer's business.
Of course, the article answers this question with the assertion that children are a woman's responsibility; Apple's male employees are cavalierly dismissed as "not exactly breeders", which must be one of the harshest judgments I've ever heard applied to such a large group.
It seems to me that the attitude that fathers have no place in the lives of their children is a much bigger problem than the question of whether Apple employees have on-campus or off-campus child care.
'Harshest judgments'... have you been on the internet?
In any case, her point was not "Apple male employees are dorks", but that "25-year-old tech bros are not breeders... yet". The 'yet' is in her comment. She was saying those kinds of men aren't up for being fathers now, but will be later.
> It seems to me that the attitude that fathers have no place in the lives of their children is a much bigger problem than the question of whether Apple employees have on-campus or off-campus child care.
The very next two paragraphs talk about these same men wanting daycare for their eventual offspring, and being able to find it at Google. Apart from saying the parenting burden falls disproportionately on mothers, the article makes no suggestion that fathers are lesser parents.
It's only a matter of time.
Well, that sounds like an obvious thing the company should care about. It has been offered to employees and lowly workers since 50 or even 100 years ago...
>where the employee eats during the day (cafeterias)
Any place where people spend 1/3 of their day or more has cafeterias. Even court houses and public government offices in most countries. Obviously a company would HAVE a cafeteria. What else would be going on, have employees take a walk around every time they wanted a soda or snack? Especially in places like some US cities, where you need to drive for 5 or 10 minutes of suburban sprawl to find some food choices.
>if the employee is fit and healthy (gyms, wellness centers)
Again, that's for the employee. Who is sitting 8+ hours straight on some desk coding or doing office work, and needs some exercise for their health.
Daycare, on the other hand, is not for the employee, it's for their family members.
For childcare, the benefit to the non-apple parent is financial plus whatever benefit they get from making it more convenient for the apple parent to drop off their kid for daycare.
For transportation, the benefit for a non apple family members is financial plus whatever benefit they get from making it more convenient for the apple employee to get to work.
They are not meant as services to boost the family finances though -- but to keep them at the company premises more.
> Childcare is a benefit to all the parents of the child - in most cases, only one of which is an Apple employee.
This is only relevant to my reply if someone you're saying that Childcare doesn't benefit the company in the same way a gym membership does, i.e., keeping the employee around longer. I don't think you're saying this, so I still don't understand the point of your reply.
But they don't. And as far as I know, no one does. Not in Silicon Valley. Not anywhere else. Am I wrong?
http://child-care-preschool.brighthorizons.com/ca/milpitas/c...
I think Apple's failure to start a daycare sends exactly this message: we're not good at running daycares.
You joke but people will tell you this is why they love it.
https://mobile.nytimes.com/2008/07/05/business/05nocera.html...
And Google s day care is not free. And is like 2-3k a month ridiculously expensive.
This is more like well paid persons' problems. There are people who need those amenities way more than appl workers.