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Re:Google Has Dropped Ban on Personally Identifiable Web Tra... by wincy on Friday October 21, 2016 @10:57AM (#12760951)
My marriage isn't in shambles or anything like that. Just not great. We just feel like we've been on autopilot for years. It never really "became a problem", it was just always a problem. We were both glued to our screens. We never did anything. My daughter is 18 months old and will sign and say "birds birds" because she loves birds and wants to watch videos on Youtube. If we turn it off she starts screaming she's so upset. Even that small amount of screen time causes behavior changes that we've found to be harmful.

I started with games that don't have an ending but realized I didn't personally have the self control to stick to it. Especially with a small child every minute is precious and I'm not going to get to have all these "firsts" again. This was really, really tough though. Maybe when I'm older with more free time I'll jump back into video games, I bet they'll be super cool and even more addictive by then.

Re:Google Has Dropped Ban on Personally Identifiable Web Tra... by arkitaip on Friday October 21, 2016 @11:09AM (#12761044)
I have similiar issues with games. I dread open ended ones - Witcher, Skyrim - because of the prospect of them never ending. But it's worse than that because the least resistance in gameplay and I will abandon the game. For instance, I've haven't been able to play more than 10 minutes of Cities: Skylines because it gets overwhelming.

At least now I accept that I don't have to finish games. That it's ok to even uninstall one after a couple of hours of play if they don't bring me any more joy.

Also, there needs to be a category of game guides for those of us who prefer small quality gaming experiences over fillers.

Re:Google Has Dropped Ban on Personally Identifiable Web Tra... by jmickey on Friday October 21, 2016 @11:47AM (#12761388)
Please consider Board Games as an alternative to Computer Games. There has never been a better time to get into the hobby - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HKgz-UBEhss :)
Re:Google Has Dropped Ban on Personally Identifiable Web Tra... by cableshaft on Friday October 21, 2016 @12:38PM (#12761894)
Figured it'd be this video or the Shut Up and Sit Down New to Board Games video before I even clicked on it. Nice :)

But yeah. Board games are the best way to free yourself from screen addiction, in my opinion. And there's tons of interesting board games out there nowadays.

Re:Google Has Dropped Ban on Personally Identifiable Web Tra... by pavel_lishin on Friday October 21, 2016 @07:16PM (#12765732)
Seconding this. There are boardgames that are simple enough for small children, but are still interesting enough for adults. You can find casual games that you can play in five minutes while waiting for the bus, or you can find a game that'll occupy your family for an entire extended weekend.

And if we're including things like D&D and Pathfinder, that's easily months of entertainment.

Re:Google Has Dropped Ban on Personally Identifiable Web Tra... by clarry on Friday October 21, 2016 @11:40AM (#12761301)
I used to play non-ending games throughout most of my teen years. I think that taught me a lesson, because I started to get very depressed. I don't play that much games anymore, and when I do, I try to stick to something relatively short and with clear endings. First person shooters that I can finish in a weekend are good.

Addictive open ended games, sandboxes and competitive online games quickly lead to severe existential depression so I just don't play them. Sometimes people ask me to join them on MMOs. I have to refuse.

Re:Google Has Dropped Ban on Personally Identifiable Web Tra... by wincy on Friday October 21, 2016 @11:36AM (#12761276)
Maybe take a look at Gamebooks? Inkle's remake of the Sorcery! gamebooks [0] were something I was playing and enjoying quite a lot. I'm giving that up too for now, maybe I'll reintroduce it later. I was amazed to find out that physical gamebooks are still a thing and being published. If you encounter "resistance" in the game just turn to the next page.

I'd suggest if you're really dreading games so much, try giving them up for 3 weeks. That's about how long it took me to stop freaking out that I wasn't spending every waking moment playing Diablo 3 or literally ANY game. I felt really awful. It really surprised me how negative my initial reaction was, but lately I've been finding myself reading books for pleasure again, and I'm going out with my family more often. I realized I was implicitly choosing video games over spending time in the real world with actual people.

[0] http://www.inklestudios.com/sorcery/

Re:Google Has Dropped Ban on Personally Identifiable Web Tra... by cableshaft on Friday October 21, 2016 @12:41PM (#12761932)
Thanks for that link. That looks pretty interesting. Is that the same Steve Jackson that does the Munchkin / Illuminati card games?
Re:Google Has Dropped Ban on Personally Identifiable Web Tra... by wincy on Friday October 21, 2016 @01:58PM (#12762876)
Yep! If you check "Gamebooks" on Amazon you'll find all sorts of physical games. I think they popped up in the 70s and 80s and you use dice, sort of like a single player D&D game.
Re:Google Has Dropped Ban on Personally Identifiable Web Tra... by newscracker on Friday October 21, 2016 @12:41PM (#12761934)
What about a camera or camcorder to capture memories with your daughter? That seems to be missing in your original list. Would it be digital or film?
Re:Google Has Dropped Ban on Personally Identifiable Web Tra... by wincy on Friday October 21, 2016 @02:02PM (#12762929)
Right that's also on the list! Might buy a DSLR or something. Also going to probably end up buying a cheap atom-based server to set up nextcloud or owncloud for storing and serving those images online to family. Part of this is also to get out of the endless subscriptions to cloud services and host all our own stuff.