That's an excellent way to ask for permission while being clear that you don't need permission.
I'm always wary of asking for permission in situations where it's not absolutely needed. What if the person says no? Then if I go ahead and do it anyway, I look like a jerk.
I'll have to remember the way you did it.
The NY Times had a similar quiz that attempted to predict your region and, IIRC, predicted mine fairly closely. I didn't get such accurate results this time so I'm wondering if my grammar is slipping ...
I'm British and I would play for the soccer team (well the football team, but I'm not going to quibble about that).
And yes, they should have used 'football', and let each locality think they meant a different sport :)
Playing for the team suggests that I'm part of that team. Playing with the team would say to me that I'm not part of them, but I've been co-opted for a game or something like that.
Oddly, I would say "playing with the orchestra" rather than "playing for ...".
It can be really confusing when all three are somewhat popular in one country.
I'd call rugby league "footy", but rugby union will always be "ruggers".
Pleased to meet you. I am an active sporty guy and 'I play on the soccer team'.
Also, the last variation, would be 'I play at The Soccer Team'. Landmarks are (usually) capitalized.
Also, where I am, a sporty person can either play 'in' or 'on' the soccer team, no parasite required.
Pleased to meet you. I am an active sporty guy and 'I play in the soccer team'.
Pleased to meet you. I am a tick, a playful little parasite. I like to jump from person to person in small groups. Today, 'I play on the soccer team'.
Pleased to meet you. I am a playful infectious disease. 'I play inside the soccer team'.
Pleased to meet you, I am Lot's son. As you may have learned in a famous bible story, my mother turned into a salt statue while taking a casual glance at the destruction of Sodom. Less known is that she belonged to a soccer team and the whole team also turned to stone while in the middle of an important game. Today, the team has become a famous landmark and the grounds for a soccer school to which I belong. 'I play at the soccer team'.