Re:Ask HN: Trivial etiquette question - can he touch my lapt...
by tsally on Sunday August 16, 2009 @09:12PM
(#767132)
There is a place for prized asshole behavior.
Probably not. There's always a better way to say something. Acting like an asshole is just a fallback for not understanding how to effectively communicate. I'd be annoyed at a coworker if I had the dialogue you posted above with him/her.
Re:Ask HN: Trivial etiquette question - can he touch my lapt...
by ryanwaggoner on Sunday August 16, 2009 @10:48PM
(#767233)
I'd react roughly the same way if someone rubbed their genitals on my screen while I was using it. It's that offensive to me.
Really? You'd politely say "Please don't touch my screen with your genitals"?
I don't know you or anything, but it seems like life is too short to get this worked up over something so trivial.
There is a place for prized asshole behavior. Frankly, touching someone's screen when it clearly bothers them is pretty damn rude, imo. If the only way to get them to stop is to make them uncomfortable doing it in your presence, that seems fair to me.
I'd react roughly the same way if someone rubbed their genitals on my screen while I was using it. It's that offensive to me. (Actually, I wouldn't mind the genitals quite as much. They're probably cleaner.)