David MacKay wrote a good intro book on Bayesian, neural networks, and related topics: http://www.inference.phy.cam.ac.uk/mackay/itila/
http://www.inference.phy.cam.ac.uk/mackay/itila/Potter.html
Should you buy the MacKay text or one by J.K. Rowling?
By the way, for the addition example , the neural network needs only one example, e.g. 1+1=2, applied repeatedly to discover the addition of any two inputs. There is no extrapolation between examples needed in this case.
See, a bayesian cannot really understand that there are relations between two numbers (like "is bigger than" or "is the following number of"), but a neural network can, since addition is part of a NN.
My personal recommendation on machine learning is 'Pattern Recognition and Machine Learning' by Chris Bishop. But you definately do need a solid mathematical background for that.